A researcher conducted a survey. More than 90% of people in this world have similar IQ and EQ.
Since emotional intelligence and IQ are similar, everyone's achievements and wealth should be the same. Why is the gap between people still so big?
The root cause is that there are certain differences in everyone's acquired pursuits and concepts.
A person thinks about "making money" all day long, while a person fights internally for "love and love". In five years, or ten years, these two people will live a different life.
The former may make a lot of money and have a lot of suitors, so there are no need to worry about not being able to meet love. The latter may be hurt so much that he has no deposits, and he will become more humble as he lives.
An old Jianghu said that your ideas and patterns determine your future prospects.
Take "men" as an example. Why do some people get confused before middle age, but suddenly explode after middle age, and go uphill? People's hearts change, and people's concepts change, life will change accordingly.
When a man reaches middle age, these signs appear around him, he is not far from turning over.
1. No longer obsessed with love, it will make him rational.
Let’s think about a question: What is the difference between poor men and rich men?
The biggest difference is their attitude towards women. The poorer men care especially about love and are addicted to the life of "you and me" every day. The latter usually get rid of this "sweet" life.
To put it bluntly, Men who are in a gentle place are most likely to lose their ambitions and be dragged down by love.
Even Mr. Jin Yong feels that love is not long-lasting. People who are too affectionate have a short lifespan and are also relatively groggy. The root cause is that these people have overdrawn too much and have destroyed their wisdom and spirit.
Men who realize this will gradually get rid of "love" and focus on what they are pursuing, work hard and study in depth. After that, they will get better and better.
Don’t underestimate the harm of “peach blossoms”. There are many kings in history who have ruined their country because of love and beauty. Things like are worthy of our reference.
2. Go to bed early and get up early, and work hard to make money.
There is a colleague who stayed up late every day before the age of 40 and drank alcohol every day to indulge himself. Therefore, he suffered from a disease and never had a good luck in his career. The more he got, the less he didn't know what life was about.
Later, he decided to change his past mistakes, and quit drinking habits, drink tea instead, and go to bed early and get up early, focusing on money. Now he is already the boss of a small company.
asked him a question: "It's only a few years, why are your changes so big?"
He said this: "Restoring your body, being clear-headed, and knowing that you want to make money, balance the relationship between health and making money, and your life will naturally be prosperous."
For every man, whether he has a good life schedule determines whether they live for a long time. Whether they have the persistence of making money determines whether they can open the door to money.
You should know that the God of Death likes the most is people with particularly poor life schedules. What God of Wealth likes the most is a strong man who combines work and rest and is dedicated to making money.
3. Reject meaningless social interaction and maintain self-discipline.
There is a saying in "University ": "The so-called sincerity in his mind should not deceive himself. If he hates evil odor and is lustful, this is called self-humility, so a gentleman must be careful of his own self-sexuality."
Make your thoughts sincere, and don't deceive yourself anymore. Just like you hate the smell of rottenness, like you like beautiful colors. Therefore, people with noble moral character must be cautious even when they are alone.
Gentleman, you must do these two points to the extreme. The first is "lonely" and the second is "self-discipline".
You don't like socializing and don't want to deal with friends, so you can maintain a "lonely" life. Low-quality socializing will always be Not as good as high-quality solitude.
In the process of being alone, don't indulge yourself just because there is no one around. The more you live, the more you live, the less you will be. On the contrary, those self-disciplined people will live as "lone wolf" in the life of being alone.
Men are actually a wolf, but they don't know their potential, so they can live as a sheep. The transformation of wolves and sheep is just a thought, which depends on human wisdom.
4. Think independently and catch in time Hold on to opportunities.
In the era of continuous development of technology, there are countless opportunities, and wealth is flowing rapidly. How can we get a piece of our own in this rapidly flowing wealth?
is always passive and follows the crowd. Maybe we are regarded as stepping stones. If we always blame others and don’t know how to act in time, then we will pass by opportunities.
A middle-aged man who is truly capable will think independently of the essence of this matter and seize every opportunity in life. He is like an eagle about to soar into the sky, with sharp eyes and magnificent momentum.
A middle-aged man who is truly capable will think about the essence of this matter independently and seize all opportunities in life. He is like an eagle about to soar into the sky, with a sharp vision and a magnificent momentum.
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However, in "The Moon", there is a view that people living in groups will never have the ability to think. It is not that they don't want to think, but that they have become part of the going with the flow.
is always unlucky man, and it is because he has become a member of the going with the flow, so he suffers for life.
While you are not old, change your horizons and thinking, and believe that you in the future still have the opportunity to "shock awesome".
Text/Shushan Youlu
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