The opposite sex needs to keep a certain distance, especially for two people who are not suitable for their identity, they will easily cross the boundary once they get too close.
No matter how good the relationship is, as long as one of them has a family or partner, he should keep the moral bottom line, take the initiative to distance himself from others, and refuse ambiguity.
And some people in life believe that the so-called cross-border is only intimate behavior. As long as there is no intimate behavior, even if there is an ambiguous relationship, there is no relationship.
But in fact, as long as anyone finds the sustenance of feelings, the ambiguity of relationships will naturally evolve into behavior that transcends boundaries, and the two are almost seamlessly connected.
Don’t underestimate any ambiguous relationship. When both parties are interested and when both parties cannot resist temptation, crossing the line is just something that will happen sooner or later.
In fact, when love reaches deep and love reaches deep, the ambiguity of relationships is not a big deal. However, if the identity is inappropriate, once the ambiguous relationship is ambiguous, once the boundary is crossed, it will ruin the happiness you already have.
and chat with the opposite sex. People who often post these three sentences have ambiguous relationships.
01: Have a good rest, good night.
I don’t know if you have ever had some friendships and friends that are not satisfied. You can chat from day to late at night, and finally leave a few words after another, "Stay good rest, good night" and other concerns.
Only when the screen can no longer receive a reply will you prepare to go to bed satisfied and enjoy the feeling of being cared for and cared for by others.
You will care about each other's lives, you will share interesting things in life, you will tell the troubles in life, as if the end of the day must be the other person's good night.
In fact, this is a typical ambiguity.
Maybe they are testing each other, maybe they are just playing around, but no matter what, they have no clear identities and no clear relationship.
. In subsequent development, perhaps ambiguity will develop into cross-border, or perhaps ambiguity will be left unresolved.
If you don’t have a family or a partner, your intimate interactions will naturally not become a trouble, but if you get married and have your own partner, you should realize that intimate interactions with the opposite sex will inevitably make people think too much.
Not everyone can consciously resist temptation. Whether or not it is even just a matter of thought.
If you want to protect the happiness in your hands, don’t say too many ambiguous words and do too many ambiguous things.
02: Don't be afraid, I'm here.
When I heard a friend analyze how to touch the hearts of the opposite sex, he said that in the final analysis it is a sense of security. Whether it is material care or spiritual satisfaction, it is all for a sense of security.
is indeed the case.
Life is difficult. On the road of love, we yearn for a sense of security, longing for someone to accompany us to experience the ups and downs, and longing for someone to lend his shoulders to ourselves.
So, when the opposite sex chats, if the other party often says "Don't be afraid, I'm here", the other party will be particularly prone to fall into it.
When identity is not allowed, not all desires of protection apply, and not everyone should give it to their shoulders when they come over.
If you already have a partner, you should know how to keep a certain distance from other opposite sexes. No matter how good your relationship is, you can no longer give a person a sense of security without any bottom line as before.
03: I will wait for you.
If both parties are interested, if they are suitable for each other, a sentence "I will wait for you all the time" will definitely be a affectionate confession, but if the identity is not suitable, such a sentence will only make each other's relationship ambiguous.
Once a person’s identity is inappropriate, any ambiguous relationship can only be a sharp blade that destroys the current happiness.
Some people may refute that their current love life is not happy, but let me ask, if a person knows your identity and still takes the initiative to have an ambiguous relationship with you, how can such a person give you true love?
Those who truly love you will never make it difficult for you to do. Only those who don’t love you will tempt you into the trap of temptation little by little.
So, when the opposite sex chats, if the other party often says "I will wait for you all the time", you should be more sober and rational, and don't let yourself get deeply tempted.
In this world, of course there will be simple friendship between the opposite sex, but that friendship must be kept at a certain distance. Both parties to the friendship are people who know how to be proportionate and restrained.
Chat with the opposite sex, don’t easily make the relationship ambiguous.
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