Yesterday, I received a strange number from Beijing. The other party opened I felt familiar with her. Seeing that I was a little confused, the other party took the initiative to report my name. I suddenly remembered this colleague who had been away for a long time. The conversation started and chatted endlessly.
I asked her husband casually about her situation. The couple were the fairy companions in our circle of friends and were the role models in our mouths. The colleague was silent for a moment and cried , told me that she has been divorced for many years! When they started their business from Wuhan to Beijing, their husband could not bear the pressure and temptation and cheated. She had no choice but to let go of this marriage that she had worked hard to maintain.
After hearing this, I was shocked. Yes, it took many years to go Miss, what a great distance in life caused by the time of this, how many people have experienced. I really regret that I have said so much. , which should have calmed down, stirring up another storm, and biting her wounds.
, old friends reunite, even if they were such a good relationship, they can't ask anything. 6. Some words and some things have experienced countless impermanent changes, no longer the old appearance, nor the tracks in our impressions. In this world of
, is changeable and impermanent; it is fickle and unpredictable; it is crisscrossing rather than parallel. Therefore, some things are in our minds and impressions, and we think we are still in place, but we don’t think about it. It has long been a world of change.
No matter how strong the economic strength
Old friends reunite. No matter how good the relationship was in the past, don't ask about the other party's economic strength. In the era of increasing science, the economy occupies the core of life. So, don't ask about it easily.
Chinese people have always placed the economy in a sensitive position in social interaction. If it is not told by others, don't ask easily.
If the other party's economic conditions are weak, If you ask and cannot help, it will only disappoint; if the other party's economic conditions are strong, , , , , , If the other party tells you frankly, but it cannot help you for various reasons, it will affect the old friendship between the two parties.
Don't ask your family partner
Once, when I was on a business trip with my friend, I saw my friend bringing a young girl and asked: "Do you have such a big daughter? "'s friend immediately looked embarrassed. But the beauty confessed: "I am his current wife, not his daughter. " After hearing this, I felt abrupt, and my friend was even more embarrassed.
so, when you meet again, don't ask the other party's family and partners at will. The other party tells you that you just follow the other party's meaning, and there is no need to express your own opinions.
Everyone's life is bright and colorful on the surface. If you open the door of his house, you will find that it is actually a mess, no different from your family. So, I think it is an ordinary home-based topic, but it involves a sensitive place in social interaction.
No matter what the work situation
Modern society is full of high pressure. People in the workplace feel pressure to force themselves to suffocate. Therefore, all fields of the industry are in the inclination.
Maybe The other party has been promoted to vice president, maybe the other party is already a director or assistant, maybe the other party is a person who stands alone in the company, However, these glamorous professional identities cannot eliminate the depression and complexity of the workplace.
Is there anything you can do in all walks of life? If so, making money and starting a business will not be so easy. So, don't ask about the other person's working environment. Even if the other party works in a Fortune 500 company, the hardships and complexities in the workplace are unimaginable.
Old friends reunite, it is rare to get a good time. It’s better to order two side dishes, drink two cups, and talk about some relaxed and pleasant topics.
Hongyun Summary:
Hong Kong friends reunite, and their minds are full of the past impressions. The past is like a video and frame in front of you. All the past years came alive. Then you will think of the separate space. has too many places to know and ask. This is a true manifestation of friendship between people. Because of the good relationship, I care about it.
However, the impression of is fixed, the past is fixed, but the time after separation cannot grasp its trajectory will walk in parallel directions. However, the real society is crisscrossing and fickle, and it is a scene that you dare not imagine in your mind!
Old friends reunite, no questions asked. talk more about light topics unless the other party takes the initiative to tell you. Two cups of jasmine tea in the teahouse, order two dishes of side dishes in the tavern, and drink two cups of wine, but it is infinitely pleasant and pleasant to meet again.
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