If possible, I believe everyone is the same and I hope I can have a good background. I have a wealthy family background and come to this world, I already have a lot of things, and I don’t need to worry about too many things at all. Everyone wants to be rich, but people who are re

If possible, I believe everyone is the same and I hope I can have a good background.

The family is well-off, and when you come to this world, you already have a lot of things. You don’t need to worry about too many things at all.

Everyone wants to be rich, but people who are really from good families have always been just a few. Most families are just ordinary after all, and most people are just ordinary people after all.

is not that outstanding in all aspects, but it is just quite average.

has a general IQ, a general appearance, and a relatively ordinary ability.

When you are in all aspects, the more you grow up, the more you will realize your ordinaryness and your limitations.

Even when it comes to finding a partner, it will not seem so competitive.

Don't be too early, but you must not be too late.

is limited by conditions. In fact, many resources and your own vision will also be limited.

This will also cause you to be in your early twenties, in your ordinary family, you will actually be more confused. You don’t have a clear understanding of yourself, the world, and many things, and you can’t find your position at all, and you don’t know what you want.

is confused. At this stage, it is not recommended to find a partner, you can find yourself first.

First, spend a few years working hard, studying, reading more books, understanding human nature, and exploring yourself, so that you can gradually become more mature and not so ignorant in the process of experience.

Then, after a few years, when you are twenty-six or seven years old, when everything is relatively stable, you can think about getting married and go find a partner quickly and don’t drag it all the time.

has been delayed for too long, and he is getting older and losing his youthful advantage. It is very ordinary. Finding a partner will really become difficult because there are many young competitors because I really don’t have much advantage.

So, don’t catch someone too early, it’s easy to make mistakes, and don’t make too late to make yourself lose your choice. At a relatively right age, you won’t be so immature or mediocre. This is the best.

should not have too few choices, and the person you choose will be more suitable for you.

Be more sober and don’t ask too much.

When you have no choice in your background, many people often have an idea, hoping that they can change their destiny through marriage. For this idea, when looking for a partner, they always hope to find a person who is good in all aspects.

There are women like this, and there are many men who have the same idea.

If you are more ambitious and capable, it is understandable, but for more people, when you are very average, you will not have the chance to meet such a person. Even if you happen to meet, others will not choose you at all.

Even if you are lucky, it happened that you caught up with the one-in-one chance. The other party happened to have a good impression of you and seemed to like you very much. When there are too many differences between you, you may not be able to bear everything.

is unwilling to be dragged down and hopes to live a better life after marriage. There is nothing wrong with that. You can think about finding someone better than you, but don’t always think about going too far and entering a world that doesn’t belong to you at all.

Unrealistic fantasies are really bad, they will only make you fall into the huge gap between dreams and reality, which is particularly painful.

Life has never been a fairy tale. The love matter is more about being a good match. You are very average and can dream, but your dream is just kept in your heart. In the real years, you still have to be more realistic.

set a more appropriate standard, don’t always think about sitting and enjoying the fruits, this will be better.

Look at your character and find someone who can live a peaceful life.

I have to say that many ordinary people in all aspects have never fallen in love when they were students and later found a partner, it is really difficult to say whether they love each other or not. Some people are willing and they feel that they can accept it, which seems a bit luxurious.

Indeed, the conditions are average, and the choice will be relatively limited, and in this limited choice, it should not be too casual.

can just meet someone you like very much, which is very good. If it doesn’t work, then the most important thing is that you should consider the other person’s character.

obviously looks down on you, despise you very much, and always picks on you in all kinds of ways. It seems that it is difficult to be loyal to you, live a good life with you, and work hard together, no matter what, you must not choose.

If you marry such a person, even if you can get married smoothly, you will not be happy after marriage. Your marriage will not be guaranteed, it will be very painful, and problems will easily arise.

What you should look for is a person who is not as loving as that, but is very good, kind, upright, down-to-earth, and loyal to his feelings. He will not think that you are inferior to others and can manage his marriage with you well.

Start a family with such a person. After getting married, he will also focus on the other person and in this family.

When the other person is good, you can also be content with this relationship. Then even if you are not in love so much, your life will not be much worse, and you will still be very lively and live a very good life.

The conditions are average, you don’t have to be depressed, you don’t have to feel unfair, and you don’t have to complain about yourself.

After all, that's useless, not to mention that most people are actually in this situation.

There is no need to waste your mood for the fact that cannot be changed. It doesn’t matter, just accept it.

Then, even if it is ordinary, you can still have your own excitement, find a good partner for yourself, and have a simple but warm marriage.

Rich people have the worries of rich people, and ordinary people can also have the luck of ordinary people.

Origin is not important, and it is not that important in all aspects of yourself. The key lies in how you think, choose, and live.

cannot be changed, so don’t be too worried. You should focus on the present and change everything that can be changed.

text/Tan Meng

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