The mediator has read Miaomiao’s Moments post and criticized disgustingly, Miaomiao, you are so unreasonable, I don’t know the right way. What’s the messy Moments post about you? What’s the difference between you and a shrew? Miaomiao still cares, I’m just a shrew, the mediator is furious, and he said, “Why are you so vicious? ?
What exactly did Miaomiao post that made the mediator so angry that he cursed?
All of this has to start with Miaomiao's request for help. When she saw the mediator, Miaomiao's eyes were filled with tears and she cried and told her experience. She said that she and her husband Xiaoyong had been married for more than a year, and are now five or six months pregnant, but her husband's family has never recognized her as her daughter-in-law. She and her husband can only rent a house outside, which makes her feel very uncomfortable.
This made the mediator a little unbelievable. Although the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have had conflicts since ancient times, it is somewhat difficult to understand that those like Miaomiao are pregnant and are driven out. In order to find out the truth of the matter, the reporter found Miaomiao's husband Xiaoyong and wanted him to go home with him to mediate the conflict between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but Xiaoyong was unwilling to face the conflict between his wife and mother, nor did the mediator go to the home to mediate.
mediator advised Xiaoyong that even if it is okay to rent a house outside, the child will be born in a few months. Do you have the heart to watch the child live in such an environment? Hearing the mediator's words, Xiaoyong suddenly became silent, as if he had seen the current situation clearly, his attitude changed, and he took the mediator home directly.
After an hour's drive, she came to Miaomiao's mother-in-law's house. Seeing the arrival of her daughter-in-law, the mother-in-law had no extra expression, but just worked on her own. Seeing this, the mediator could only come to the old man first and talk to her. When talking about the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the old man seemed to be full of grievances. She said that when she learned that her daughter-in-law was pregnant, she ran 60 kilometers of mountain road with a box of milk, but the daughter-in-law was unwilling to recognize her. When she said this, the mother-in-law deliberately raised her voice and deliberately let Miaomiao in the yard hear .
seems to have expressed the resentment in his heart. In order to greet the group, the mother-in-law took a bamboo pole and went to the yard to pick peaches for everyone to eat. At this time, Miaomiao started a big argument with her when she saw her mother-in-law. Miaomiao pinched her waist with one hand and pointed at her mother-in-law. Don’t be ignorant. I have already saved you face. The mother-in-law also retorted, why are you ungrateful? Miaomiao continued to curse, don’t be shameless . The mediator was there to persuade her, but both of them turned a blind eye. Xiaoyong stood aside and didn’t say anything. The mediator had to wake up Xiaoyong and let him leave with his wife first.
Considering that Miaomiao is pregnant, the mediator advised her to stabilize her emotions in the house first. She communicated with her mother-in-law first, and then the two sides had a good talk. Before that, Miaomiao should not walk out of the house first. Then the mediator walked to another room and found her mother-in-law and father-in-law, and asked them why they didn’t let their daughter-in-law go home?
The in-laws were puzzled when they heard this, saying that the old couple had never said this before. The reporter was also confused when they heard this. So why did Miaomiao say such words before? The mediator wanted the couple to explain the matter in person and see if there was any misunderstanding, but the mother-in-law was unwilling to meet her daughter-in-law again. At this time, the father-in-law also explained the reason. said that the daughter-in-law sent an unsightly message on the circle of friends. The specific content made him difficult to talk about, which made him wonder if there was a problem with the daughter-in-law's character.
So what information did Miaomiao send? But my father-in-law didn't want to say much. At this time, Xiaoyong's brother-in-law handed his mobile phone to the mediator. The mediator saw Miaomiao's circle of friends posting, , what kind of mother-in-law is a chicken that can't lay eggs, and more unbearable words, and instantly got a temper , and the scene at the beginning of the article happened. It turned out that Miaomiao and her mother-in-law had made such vicious words after a fight.
In the face of the mediator's criticism, Miaomiao knew that she was in the wrong and did not speak. It took her a long time to say that this was made up by her and she did not target anyone specifically. It turned out that Miaomiao's mother-in-law could not have children, and Xiaoyong was adopted. This is not a secret. After the daughter-in-law learned about this, when she came back with Xiaoyong for the first time, she sneered in front of her mother-in-law, saying that the hen who could not lay eggs was instantly deteriorated. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law never eased again.
The mediator then realized that the indescribable information my father-in-law said originally meant this, but she was a little confused. Does Xiaoyong ignore the wife scolding her mother like this? At this time, Xiaoyong took the mediator's information and looked at it, saying that he had just seen this information. The content inside was indeed a bit too much .
However, Miaomiao, who was standing by, was dissatisfied with this action, which completely angered the mediator. Miaomiao was too uneducated as a junior. Even if her mother-in-law did not do it properly, why did she insult her elders as a junior? Instead of cursing the old man like a shrew and revealing the scars that the old man cannot give birth.
Seeing that the mediator blamed her for all the blame, Miaomiao put away her attitude just now and said that those insults did say that the mother-in-law was indeed the mother-in-law, but there was a reason for this, and she was forced by her in-laws' family.
It turns out that Miaomiao was married in the second marriage or it can be said that she married Xiaoyong the first marriage. Miaomiao had already gotten married more than ten years ago, but the relationship between her and her ex-husband was not harmonious, and even if she had children, she still couldn't live together. After the divorce, the child was Miaomiao. When her son was 6 years old, in order to get a household registration for her son, she chose to remarry her ex-husband, but after the remarriage, she and her ex-husband still couldn't live together.
After a quarrel, Miaomiao chose to go out for a relaxing trip and met Xiaoyong. The two fell in love at first sight. Xiaoyong accepted his past and a 6-year-old child. She originally thought that she had met true love and finally had a home with her son, but she didn't expect that the first time she came to her husband's house, her mother-in-law came to her to give her a warning, asking her to have a child at home, and she had to be a boy, so that she would not make jokes from outsiders.
Miaomiao said that after hearing this, she was so angry that she was still a daughter-in-law who had no choice but to do so. Isn’t this absurdity of her mother-in-law’s request? So she opened her mouth and said that mother-in-law could not have children. So when Miaomiao first entered the house, did her mother-in-law say such things before?
The mediator asked her mother-in-law for confirmation, but her mother-in-law denied everything. Seeing that her mother-in-law refused to admit it, Miaomiao walked into the house angrily, scolding her mother-in-law while walking. She said that her mother-in-law not only forced herself to give birth to a boy, but also exposed her scars. It turned out that Miaomiao had congenital cleft lips, and the mouth shape was not very good-looking, so the first time she saw her, she found all kinds of problems, her mouth was angry, her skin was dark, etc. In short, she disliked in all kinds of ways.
The mother-in-law in the yard was very excited when she heard her daughter-in-law say this. said that she had never said this before, and even sweared that she had never said , but Miaomiao insisted that it was because of this incident that the relationship between her and her mother-in-law became more and more serious. Seeing that both parties were swearing, the mediator had to find another party, Xiaoyong, to find out the truth of the matter.
Xiaoyong said that her mother did say something at that time, wanted Miaomiao to have a son and half of her daughter, but she did not say that she must be a boy, nor did she dislike Miaomiao's appearance. The mediator felt that although this matter was over, Miaomiao was always worried about it, so the mediator decided to talk to her mother-in-law and told her not to mention these two things in the future. The mother-in-law was very reasonable and said that she would never say that her daughter-in-law was bad again. Since the words were already open, could Miaomiao change her attitude? Apologize to my mother-in-law?
After the mediator's criticism and education, both mother-in-law and daughter-in-law realized their own problems and stopped saying anything. At this time, the mediator also turned his attention to the narrator's father-in-law and Xiaoyong. These two people have the same personality. No matter how their women quarreled, they both did not say anything. Under the mediator's criticism, the two said that they would take good care of their wives in the future and get along well with the whole family.
mediator thought that the conflict had been resolved and the family could finally live a good life, but Miaomiao suddenly said that she didn't want the child in her belly, which surprised the mediator. Since the conflict had been resolved, what was Miaomiao singing about? Miaomiao said, since her mother-in-law didn't dislike her, why didn't she let herself go back to her in-laws' house during the Chinese New Year last year?
At this time, Xiaoyong stood up. said that he would not go home for the New Year. Because his wife and mother had a serious quarrel, and even if they came back, they would not be able to celebrate the New Year. At this time, Miaomiao was unhappy and started arguing with her husband, saying that her husband had deceived her in many things, so she didn't plan to have this child anymore.
mediator also saw the crux of the problem, that is, whether it is for his wife or mother, Xiaoyong has always suppressed the problem, and did not say anything or mediate, which led to the problem getting worse to this point. Miaomiao said that her husband not only lied to her during the New Year, but also kept cheating her about buying a house. Before getting married, her husband said he wanted to buy a house belonging to both of them. Miaomiao was very happy at the time and said that even if the house was smaller, it would be fine for both of them to pay the mortgage. However, now that she has been married for more than a year, her husband has not even saved enough down payment, and he has no sense of security.
Xiaoyong said that he did agree to his wife when buying a house, and he had already tried hard to save money, but the down payment was still a little bit short, but he would definitely find a way to meet his wife's wishes. Then, in front of everyone, he also signed a letter of commitment .
Seeing that her son and daughter-in-law reunited, the mother-in-law brought out a bowl of steaming poached eggs from the kitchen, but she did not eat them, but apologized to her mother-in-law first, saying that no matter what she said before, or posted on her Moments, she would not do this in the future. When she heard her daughter-in-law’s apology, the mother-in-law was also excited and red in her eyes, saying that she would let the past happen.
I have to say that this daughter-in-law is quite powerful. She swore sovereignty when she entered the house for the first time and angrily scolded her mother-in-law for not laying eggs. This kind of woman is really arrogant and domineering. No wonder she divorced her ex-husband, and she even disliked her husband for not buying a house for her at home. It seems that she not only has to control the couple's family, but also has to take charge of the entire family.
What do you think of a daughter-in-law like Miaomiao?
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