My brother called and my mother, who was nearly 80 years old, was unhappy when she returned home. A while ago, my mother was dizzy and uncomfortable and stayed in the hospital. She was neither unhappy nor recurring with headaches. As a result, as soon as I got home, my mother sai

The brother called and his mother, who was nearly 80 years old, was unhappy when she returned home. A while ago, my mother was dizzy and uncomfortable and stayed in the hospital. She was neither unhappy nor recurring with headaches. As a result, as soon as I got home, my mother said she felt uncomfortable and had a headache. Brother, he doesn't know what to do? He has done everything he can do, and now I want to ask me what to do?

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Because I have been away from my hometown since I was a child, I am especially looking forward to the days I spent with my parents. My dad has arthritis for many years and his legs are not flexible. He has never been to my house. My mother also disagrees with him. On the one hand, I have to go to work, and on the other hand, my father is old and needs someone to take care of him, so my mother is unable to do so.

However, from the bottom of my heart, I hope that my parents can come to me for a year and a half. Of course, it will be better for a longer period of time and will also allow me to be filial!

A while ago, the roof of the house was overturned due to conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law since ancient times. In order to ease the conflict between my mother and sister-in-law, I also miss my mother, and I hope that she can relax and have a happy mood after changing the environment. So I bought a high-speed rail ticket without my mother agreeing.

and then persuade my mother to come. I underestimated my mother's persistence. No matter what I said I wanted her, I would have to pay for the refund, change the environment and feel better, and I would send her back to my hometown when she is in a good mood. As a result, my mother still insisted and stayed at home.

Without convinced my mother, I could only refund the high-speed rail ticket I bought. The handling fee really makes me feel distressed! But in a few hours, 50 yuan left silently. How many articles do I have to write today’s headlines to earn back! Want to cry!

My mother said very generously: "If you want to retreat, you will go back. It will be 50 yuan anyway, otherwise I will give it to you!" Yes, I feel sorry for the 50 yuan, but I feel sorry for my mother's situation even more.

does not mean that brothers and sister-in-law are not good. They are already the best in their living environment and circles. They are more filial to their parents than the rest of Murakami. In order to facilitate taking care of their parents, my brother changed to a job close to home; my brother also obeyed his parents, listened to their words, and did what they meant. He was obviously kind-hearted, but when he did some words and things, he did not achieve the desired result.

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My dad is dull and will never say a heartwarming word to my mom in his whole life! Even if my mother was so angry that she would only comfort her mother: "Don't be angry." There will be no more words.

My brother is honest and honest, but he won’t make a joke with his mother. If there is one, you can say something in a good voice, but when it comes out of your brother's mouth, it can make people jump up.

The way to communicate from childhood to adulthood is: quarrel. This home is a small battlefield every day. If you are not careful, you will get fire from the gun and cause a family war.

Even if you realize this problem, your parents, brothers and sisters-in-law's concepts and habits are already deeply rooted, and it is a dream for me to change the way they get along. The only solution is to either change their environment or separate them.

No matter how little they have learned, no matter how low their cognitive level is, they have given me all their best. That is their love!

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I hope they get along happily. 99% of physical discomfort are caused by bad mood. Therefore, if you want to be healthy, you must first improve your emotions. Once you have a good mood, the whole world will become better.

And I am the key to opening my mom’s heart. I call my mother every day to talk about her recent situation, express her thoughts, and give her more care. Maybe I will open this family barrier that loves to quarrel.