In a love relationship, we usually have two states, one is the state when we are with our lover; the other is the state when our lover is not by our side, we will miss him in our hearts.
Many people think that as long as you can be with your lover, you can get happiness in love. In fact, longing for lovers is also a form of expression of happy love.
Falling in love with someone means that there is someone living in our hearts. When we are by our lover, we will think that time passes too slowly, but when we are not by our lover, we will care more about him.
It seems that the other person lives in our hearts. We will fantasize about how he lives alone. When he thinks of him having a happy life, we will feel warm in our hearts; when he thinks of him suffering setbacks, we will feel sad. This state of concern for a person will make us fall deeper in this relationship.
Lovesickness is a complex relationship that is both sweet and painful. However, it is often difficult for people who are deeply involved in love to recognize a problem, that is, the person who lives in his heart and the person in reality are probably not the same person.
When we fall in love with someone, we often project our beautiful imagination of our love partner onto that person. Even if the other person is a relatively ordinary person, we will imagine the other person as excellent under the influence of love psychology.
In love, imagine a person as beautiful. When we can’t see each other, our longing for him will gradually deepen. When we meet each other, we will also have a psychological gap due to the different images in our hearts.
A person who is in a love relationship, the deeper he falls in this love, the more he will feel lonely.
1. If you fall in love with someone, you will feel lonely because you miss the other person.
Falling in love with someone will cause many emotional fluctuations in your heart, one of which is longing.
Love someone, you won’t feel lonely, but missing someone will make us feel the deep loneliness.
When the person we love is not by our side, we usually feel worried because of longing. We will worry that the other person will not eat well, and we will also worry that the other person will not wear warm clothes, and even worry that the other person will suddenly fall in love with others.
When there is someone living in our hearts but the other person is not by our side, we will feel very lonely.
2. There is someone living in your heart and you can no longer fall in love with others.
In a love relationship, when we love someone but cannot get him, we will feel loneliness and pain in our hearts.
Some people who cannot let go of their ex after a breakup will feel very lonely in their hearts. Even if they are not lacking in their friends and surrounded by suitors of the opposite sex, they still cannot resolve the loneliness in their hearts.
Even if these people may enter into a love relationship again in the future, they can no longer fall in love with others. They give all their love to their ex, and the reason why they are with their current ones is perhaps just because they are moved by the other party and are willing to be with each other.
There is someone living in your heart and you can no longer fall in love with others.
3. If you want to get rid of the loneliness in love, you must learn to be independent.
A person who often feels lonely in a love relationship is actually a manifestation of his mental inseparable enough. If he immersed himself in such painful thoughts for a long time, he would not be able to become an independent person.
In the movie " Waiting for alone", the male protagonist Chen Wen fell in love with the heroine Liu Rong at first sight. For a long time after that, Liu Rong lived in Chen Wen's heart, which made Chen Wen feel both lonely and painful.
When you are by Liu Rong, Chen Wen will rack his brains to think of some ways that can make Liu Rong feel happy. When you are not by Liu Rong, Chen Wen will also feel lost under the influence of his longing emotion.
In the eyes of Chen Wen, who was deeply trapped in love, it seemed that Liu Rong could not be without Liu Rong. If he left Liu Rong, he would feel lonely. At this time, he already had a dependent feeling for Liu Rong.
It was not until Chen Wen saw that Liu Rong was dating him and also maintained an ambiguous relationship with others that Chen Wen completely gave up and decided to let go.
After a painful thinking process, Chen Wen finally understood that love is not the whole meaning of life. He has become spiritually independent and can start his own life again.
In a love relationship, it is a very complicated thing to live in a person in your heart. It may not only make us feel happy, but also make us feel lonely.
Love a person is a kind of emotional devotion, and when you miss someone, you will inevitably feel very lonely. However, in a love relationship, relying too much on someone may not be a good thing. Only those who can be spiritually independent can have a happy love.
Love is both a sentimental feeling and requires rational thinking. Only those who can be spiritually independent can manage their marriage life happily.
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