In the live class about partner cheating, fans asked me a few questions:
"Teacher, what do men think when they have an affair? Do they want a family or choose a third party?"
"Does your husband cheat on falling in love with other women mean that this marriage cannot be preserved?"
In fact, although a man cheating is hateful, if a man really loves a third party so much, why don't he divorce you first and then be with the third party openly?
In fact, Most men choose to cover up after cheating, because family and you are still very important to them and cannot give up. You and your children have a status in their hearts.
Therefore, after your husband cheats, don’t think you have lost your dominance. On the contrary, cheating can allow you to see more clearly the problems that arise in your marriage.
As long as you take appropriate measures, you have the right to adjust your marriage status, and the dominance of your marriage will belong to you in the future.
In order to let everyone understand what men are thinking when they cheat? How do you win back the other person? We must first understand the path of men's cheating.
#1
Maintenance of a mistress hilarious husband
First of all, when a man betrays his family, the first feeling must be guilty. In order to make himself feel better, he will definitely rationalize his cheating behavior.
For example, many men will say to their original wife: "I cheated on you because of you." seems to push the error on women, which will relieve their guilt.
Most men are actually sober. They still think that marriage is more important than a third party, because divorce actually means that life will be reshuffled once. men will also weigh the pros and cons.
If you encounter a man who pushes the error on the original wife, we must prevent ourselves from finding fault with him and quarrel with him, because this will further rationalize his excuses.
When you meet such a husband, you will give him a complaint because you vent your emotions, and don’t use your fierceness to enhance the position of the mistress in a man’s heart.
Everyone should remember that this kind of man is soft but not hard. Don’t worry, when we use the right method to record enough chips in the future, we have some ways to deal with him at the right time.
#2
Two-headed deceptive husband
Some men are out of guilt after cheating, and they will be particularly nice to their wives, and they will also fulfill their responsibilities and obligations in the family.
He will try to be a good husband in front of you, and at the same time he will be extremely pampered with third parties and deceive both ends. He will tell the third party that sooner or later I will divorce my original wife, and I will only love you in my life.
But on the other hand, he will discuss with you about having a second child when he goes home.
If you meet such a husband, then I can tell you. He did this because he found that you and the mistress couldn't live without him.
Both women cannot live without him and both need him, so he will naturally have fearless deception, and even in the end he will run openly.
If this situation is caused, it means that when you communicate with a man, you are not intimidating enough, making the man feel that you cannot live without him and he is not afraid of you.
The right way for you is to find a way to get more family capital in . Then show your attitude and let the man make decisions. Of course, you should also get rid of the relationship between a man and a mistress, so that the mistress cannot provide value to a man.
The reasons for your husband cheating are different. Your different attitudes towards your husband cheating will lead to different paths in your marriage. And each path of has its own unique solution, and there is no common strategy.#Emotion#
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