Author: No. 1 Emotion
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Encounter between people is a kind of fate itself. has a fate that comes to meet , but it is not possible to meet.
Tu Lei said: "The origin of fate and the end of fate, the depth of fate and shallow fate, it is not something that can be controlled by humans. All we can do is cherish every fate and not let everyone down."
In the years when we appreciate each other, we always feel that we can accompany each other for a lifetime, whether it is family, friendship or love, but in fact, fate also has long and short, and when we are separated, we can only choose to face it calmly.
I don’t know what happened. I became two people without any news, no longer had any intersection between them, and before I even had time to say goodbye, I was already in a state of having nothing to say.
no longer has any contact or any news. In fact, it is also a farewell to the past. It is not decent, but it is also very calm.
Since you no longer contact us, why break this state? So, when a person no longer contacts you, don't do these three things.
Don’t ask the reason anymore
Everyone has the right to choose. No matter what the reason is, since you no longer contact us, what’s the point of asking?
We are all adults, and the choices we make have been carefully considered. Moreover, we all live in our own rhythm. We have no right to interfere, nor can we coerce each other for the sake of our relationship.
So when a person no longer takes the initiative to contact you, don’t keep asking why. This will only disturb other people’s lives and affect the beauty that was once. It’s better to keep this beauty deep in your heart, at least have a good thought.
Since the other party no longer contacts you, it means that you are not important in his world, or it is no longer important. If you ask questions without any sense, it will only make people hate your existence even more. Why bother?
Those who do not respect themselves will be humiliated.
Only by grasping the boundaries of getting along with others can we better say goodbye to the past, to fate, and to the person in my heart who no longer takes the initiative to contact you!
Don’t blame the other party
When a person no longer contacts you on his own initiative, he has lost the meaning of criticizing the other party. This will only aggravate the emotional trauma between each other, or push the other party to the edge of his enemy. Before
, a classmate of mine said that a friend of mine asked him to borrow money. The money he borrowed before was paid back every time, but every time he borrowed money, he borrowed more and more. Fortunately, he couldn't contact him, so he didn't take the initiative to contact him.
The friendship between the two people is very good, but because of the borrowing money, there was no contact, and the last few thousand yuan I borrowed was not paid back. Then the classmate blamed the other party in various ways. In the end, there was no situation in the end. Now the two people broke up and there was no contact at all.
So, don’t easily accuse the other party of not contacting you. It is likely that it is because there is something that doesn’t have the chance to contact you. Your accusation, or if you say something even more ugly, means that this relationship has come to an end because the other party’s heart has been hurt.
Even if there is really no contact, don’t blame the other party easily. This will only lower your own level. Burying past feelings in your heart is the best choice.
Once things get out, they will not be good for your reputation, so don’t blame me and manage your life well.
Don’t try to keep
Sanmao once said: It is the most embarrassing thing to barely maintain a relationship.
No matter what kind of relationship, friendship, love or family affection, once you reach the point where you have nothing to say and choose the final farewell, don’t try to keep it, and learn to help each other.
If you contact others repeatedly, it is actually a kind of disturbance to others. You must learn to accept farewell and accept your own life alone.
Some people's departure is often just right. Only by learning to say goodbye to such people can we welcome the arrival of newcomers. Since fate has come to an end, it will only make each other unhappy. Even if you keep it for a while, you can't keep it for a lifetime.
no longer disturbs, no longer keeps you, and live as you wish, which is both respecting others and respecting yourself.
Facing the things that life gives you calmly is a manifestation of maturity. When you decide to say goodbye completely, it is enough to silently recite "Take care" in your heart.
No longer contact or disturbance is a kind of respect and relief.
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