College classmate Lao Dong is a good friend in my dormitory. After graduation, he went to work in Guangzhou. Lao Dong’s hometown is in a rural area in Hunan, and his family conditions are average. After working, you can finally make money to reduce the burden on your parents. It is a very cherished for rural children. Within two years, Old Dong told me that he was preparing to get married and asked me to go over for a wedding banquet when I had time.
Later, the old director would take his wife to attend the class reunion, and he was very loving. After having a child, the mother-in-law helped to take care of the child, and the couple devoted themselves to their work. Old Dong became the second-in-command of the unit when he was in his thirties, and his wife was promoted to the senior professional title of the unit. Every time we meet, the old Dong praises his wife and parents-in-law's family. It is his luck to meet such a good family .
I am still wondering if this old man flatters his wife in person. Later, Lao Dong told me that one year after marriage, when I went to attend the wedding of my wife and cousin, I realized that it was actually a popular place to marry my daughter and ask for a bride price. But my parents-in-law told my relatives that he gave him a bride price of 50,000 yuan. It turns out that it is the same in many places, and you can also compare with your daughter. My parents-in-law said this not only solved the financial difficulties of the old boss, but also maintained his wife's face among relatives. From then on, Old Dong realized that he had met a very sensible family and had only respect and more loving to his wife.
Lao Dong said that he was young at the time and really thought he didn't need to give a gift. But I just wanted to get the bride price, and I was afraid I couldn't afford according to my conditions at that time. Later, I handed over my salary card to my wife for custody, and I was often filial to my parents-in-law, which was also a kind of compensation.
Where does there be a fixed standard for how much dowry gifts are? The more you give, the less you give depends on the acceptance of the woman's family. If it is for the character of the people, the dowry should not be a problem that lies in the marriage of a couple . Of course, I do not object to families who are capable of giving gifts to give gifts, because it depends on the agreement between the two parties. I just want to say: With reasonable parents, the happiness of children's marriage will double.
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