I don’t know when blind dates have begun to become something older young people have to face. Some people are forced by their parents to go on blind dates, while more people are forced to have poor communication skills and can only passively get to know the opposite sex through blind dates. Compared with free love, both parties on blind dates are more purposeful. When they meet, they mostly go straight to the point. Sometimes they can make the marriage aside in a meal.
As the saying goes, "A hundred people are everywhere, all kinds of things." During the blind date, you will naturally encounter all kinds of strange things and people. We know that blind dates are just a medium. Only by using love as a bridge, respecting and understanding each other and having the same values can people who have a consistent view of happiness. However, some people often act too utilitarian, have an incorrect attitude, and even make some excessive demands. This will not only miss a good marriage, but also make a laughing stock.
Zou Li is a very smart girl. In fact, her smartness was also forced by her original family. She lives in a family that favors boys over girls. Although her parents also supported her in college, her parents repeatedly warned her: "Don't think about free love, you can't decide your marriage." In fact, Zou Li also understood in her heart that her parents simply wanted to ask the man for more bride gifts through her marriage, so that she could help her brother get married after turning back. At first Zou Li was thinking of resisting, but after seeing her parents' attitude, she gave up on this idea.
Zou Li, who is already 30 years old, has long become a frequent visitor for blind dates. During festivals, Zou Li will always arrange several blind dates by her parents. Among them, she has met those who are in love with each other, but none of them have been successful. It is simply because the man thinks the bride price is too high, and some men can take the bride price, but the other party is afraid that Zou Li is a "brother-supporting demon". That would be like an invincible hole, and no amount of money would be of no use.
Until during the National Day holiday, Zou Li wanted to go out for a break, but her parents disrupted her plan. It turned out that her parents arranged a blind date for her. On the phone, the parents said that the man's family was in good condition, but the other person was not very good-looking and he spoke a little straightforwardly. After hearing this, Zou Li wanted to refuse, but her parents were not willing. They were eager to get engaged quickly, otherwise her younger brother would be dragged down.
Finally, Zou Li agreed to meet her. Sure enough, the man looked very ordinary and spoke straightforwardly, but he was just thinking. Zou Li kept communicating with the other party with his temper. Soon the two brought the topic to the marriage. Zou Li was very straightforward and said that the man would get a 200,000 yuan betrothal gift, and there was no room for negotiation.
After saying this, Zou Li was ready to break the conversation. However, after waiting for a long time, the man said, "No problem. Although the dowry is a bit too much, my family can still take it. But you have to get pregnant first. After all, you are so old. If you can't have children when you get married, then I will suffer a great loss." The man's words made Zou Li angry and pressed into his heart and could no longer control his anger. Zou Li said very angrily: "I can't agree to put away your dirty thoughts." After saying this, Zou Li turned around and left.
After returning home, Zou Li told his parents the words intact. She thought that their parents would condemn the other party, but she didn't expect that her mother would say, "Although the words are not nice, it's reasonable. You are 30 years old, so people should not consider the issue of childbirth. Child, can you think this is OK? As long as the other party adds another 50,000 yuan betrothal gift, let's agree to his request. Your brother is still waiting to use the money." The mother's words completely collapsed. She didn't expect that her mother could say this. Looking at the parents in front of her, Zou Li felt so strange.
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