text丨Love words: 30:00
I am here, waiting for the wind, and waiting for you.
" Big Fish and Begonia ": "I will tell you what is the most tragic thing: When you meet someone, you make a mistake, you want to make up for it and pay it back, but in the end you realize that you are powerless to turn things around. What you make will never be compensated, and we will never be able to pay off what you make..."
For women, the most tragic thing is nothing more than meeting the wrong man and wasting his life. When you react, you realize that you have made mistakes in one step and finally got on the unfortunate pirate ship.
So, if you don’t learn to look at men, you are led by men. Sooner or later you will understand that a woman's misfortune starts with finding such a man.
Men who have a sense of love but are unwilling to work hard for you are all butterflies in Zhuang Zhou's dream, flashy and unreal.
From the past to the present, too many women have been confused by fairy tales and believe that if they have love, they have the whole world.
But the fact is that love that cannot fill your heart will only make you blame the world after you are hurt.
cousin Liang Yan (pseudonym) and ex-husband Xu Jiang (pseudonym) got married at the age of 20. Because they were young and wantless, the two started their marriage life through love. After marriage, because my cousin's family was in good condition, the couple lived outside with their uncle's family.
Maybe it’s because of no pressure, or maybe it’s because it’s not aware of the sinisterness of society. Xu Jiang gambles apart from work every day and has never thought about planning his future life.
Because of this problem, my cousin has communicated with her many times. I hope Xu Jiang can understand that parents will always grow old one day, and they can only rely on themselves.
But Xu Jiang didn't think so much at the time, he just felt that he had a car and a house, and he was very wealthy among his peers. So, he always makes excuses for various reasons.
Because I haven’t been wet with rain, I naturally don’t know how precious the umbrella is. Faced with Xu Jiang's explanation, my cousin didn't think much about it. She just felt that having a husband who loves her and a well-behaved daughter would satisfy her love desire.
However, unexpected events have occurred, and within a few years, the Liang family's business plummeted. In order to live, Xu Jiang had to work for others.
I thought that after this incident, Xu Jiang would be much more mature, but I never expected that he would break into a bigger hole.
Because of the nature of the work, Xu Jiang had to stay at the construction site for a long time, but fortunately, at that time he would take the initiative to transfer the money to his wife every month. During
, someone reminded her to watch Xu Jiang closely. After all, men start to become bad by staying away from their wives.
But thinking that Xu Jiang would pay back every month, my cousin didn't think much about it. She even believes that men will inevitably have some expenses when they are away, and she takes the initiative to leave more living expenses for Xu Jiang.
As expected, this kind of life didn't last long, and Xu Jiang began to pay his wages late for various reasons.
The cousin who has been immersed in the fantasy of beautiful love, naively thought that Xu Jiang’s work was not going well. Not only did he not ask too much, he also took on the expenses of the family by himself.
This is how women are. Once they are poisoned by love, they will willingly become the keeper of men. Little do they know that men never feel soft-hearted at the moment when they choose to deceive.
, paper will not be able to keep the fire. Once when my uncle visited my cousin, he found that his daughter and granddaughter lived a miserable life. Then he asked about Xu Jiang’s whereabouts, but his cousin said that something was wrong with Xu Jiang’s work.
Looking at the daughter who is full of love, my uncle is so angry that he is so angry. As a man, how could he not notice that Xu Jiang had any problems?
So, under the questioning of my uncle, Xu Jiangcai said truthfully: "Half a year ago, he owed a lot of debts to gambling with others."
To be honest, if Xu Jiang really loved his cousin, he would definitely not dare to take risks with each other's future.
How much love he had at the beginning, how ridiculous it would be at that moment. My cousin didn't want to believe that this man who once said he loved him would destroy the hard-working home he had to protect with his own hands.
It was like waking up from a big dream, and my cousin was heartbroken. Look She only felt that the grievance and misfortune were turned into stone hammers and hit her.
She wanted to escape, but found that her legs were bound by a thousand pounds and had already been trapped in this mud.
Finally, in order to help Xu Jiang pay off his debt, she had to mortgage her house and valuable items. In the eyes of her cousin, this was the last thing she could do for this love.
Since then, after divorce certificate , the two have no relationship.
But my cousin is also very clear that this man will be an existence that she will never let go of in her life. After all, she once loved so hard that she endured all the misfortunes he brought.
As the saying goes, marry a chicken and marry a dog and follow a dog. The man you choose People will definitely determine whether you live a happy or unhappy life.
So, when you decide to be careless for love, you must first see if that man is worthy of you.
In other words, women should not be too proactive in the face of love. Let men prove their love for you with actions, not just talk about it. Once you become the one who is wronged, your misfortune will begin.
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