The two most popular domineering presidents this summer, one from the Oriental fantasy drama "The Legend of the Clan" and the other from the modern drama "High Gentlemen of the East Eighth District ". The male protagonists are both domineering presidents, but their reputations are polarized.
The male protagonist Dongfang Qingcang of "The Legend of the Condor Heroes" has become the dream lover in the hearts of many women, and it has hit the hearts of countless women. However, the male protagonist played by Zhang Han in "East Eight Districts" made the whole network shout "lower", "greasy" to a terrible level.
is also a domineering president, but everyone has completely different comments.
reflects the rise of female consciousness. People finally realize that it is not a rich, powerful, and powerful man who will gain the favor of women.
Dongfang Qingcang in "The Legend of the Condor Heroes" is the strongest person in the Three Realms, with the highest martial arts value, so it is naturally indescribable, but his charm is far more than the powerful one.
is good to the heroine and has a unique love for the heroine. This is the most basic configuration of the domineering boss. In addition, he also has more personal charm.
First of all, he can empathize with the heroine . Because he has a concentric curse setting with the heroine in the early stage, he is happy and sad with the heroine. He can sense the sadness and joy of the heroine. In the later stage, the seven emotions are restored, and they are sincerely moved and cared for.
Secondly, he respects the heroine very much. He will never force the heroine to do what she refuses to do. Even if he does not agree, he respects the heroine's decision.
Finally, he was willing to give to the heroine without regrets. He loved the heroine as an independent individual. How could such a domineering boss not make people feel moved?
And in "East Eight Districts", the domineering president played by Zhang Han is completely a different style of painting.
Judging from the clips posted online, he is also a successful career strongman, and he establishes the character of an urban elite man, but some of his behaviors and remarks make people disgusted.
pulls the underwear belt for women, and tells the girls: If you want to be my girlfriend, you must take good care of me and listen to me...
style makes netizens on the Internet feel that it is eye-catching. The lines reveal disrespect for women and materialize women, which arouses collective condemnation and boycotts from netizens.
Domine literature and Domine film and television dramas, as a specific form of film and television literary works, have always had a considerable market.
In this type of film and television works, there will be a very successful male protagonist. They call the wind and rain, do everything, and can help the female protagonist in all aspects.
The reason why the former domineering narrative was very popular is because our collective consciousness lacked the understanding of women's self-worth, and still believed that women were vassals of men, men conquering the world, and women conquering men.
Men are powerful outside, and women just need to take this best man for themselves.
Therefore, we will not consider whether the president respects women or objects.
. Many of the former domineering bosses were mostly domineering and arrogant in their image, and they were determined to ask the heroine to obey her own conditions. The women were satisfied in this fantasy.
Nowadays, with more and more independent women, more and more women are living their wonderful lives, thinking and independent opinions.
Women are beginning to disdain to get help and preferential treatment from the domineering president. Women become strong themselves, so naturally they don’t care whether their partner is strong or not.
. Whether a partner can respect himself, whether he is consistent with his own values and resonate with his own thoughts has become a more important indicator of partner selection.
Two different types of domineering masters portrayed in "The Legend of the Condor Heroes" and "Gentlemen of the East Eight Districts" have also made more and more women know that not a strong man is charming, and the difference between domineering masters and domineering masters has also become bigger.
Although we don’t meet many domineers in life, quite a few men have the character of domineering.
They are bold, firm, mature and responsible, and have a successful career, and are easy to attract elite men of the opposite sex.
But not all men with domineering personality are good matches, and some of them are greasy men. There are also some tricks to distinguish them.
See if he has deep narcissism
Elite men generally have more social resources and have higher social achievements, but some elite men with domineering personality have this characteristic: narcissism is very deep.
Basically, men with this kind of characteristics can stay away from it.
The deep meaning of narcissism is that he cares very much about the correctness of what he says and makes, and he will defend his correctness all the time.
Once someone hears a different opinion from you and does not agree with you, you will be very hurt and excited, and even have an overreaction.
When you meet such a man, don’t be confused by the halo on his head. He is with you not because he loves you, but because you can satisfy his narcissism.
The domineering president and the little wife are the CPs that many people like to play, but has anyone ever wondered why this kind of domineering president likes the little wife instead of the big heroine who is almost independent and accomplished?
Because the little wife is better controlled and has a short-sighted understanding, she will deeply admire and look up to men like the domineering, which is very useful for this type of men.
Rather than saying that he likes the lofty feeling of being looked up to, trusted and admired by others, it will deeply satisfy his narcissism.
When getting along with this kind of man, he will indeed give his partner a lot of help in the early stage, but as the little wife grows up, and has her own insights and insights, and no longer be blindly trusting men, it will cause men's anxiety and uneasiness. The domineering love that kind of
gradually disappeared.
See if he respects your decision
Men with domineering personality like to make decisions for others, because this makes them seem overbearing and crazy.
And when he makes decisions for you, there will be a lot of rhetoric, the most common ones are "I'm for your own good" and "Listen to me, right."
Because of its high achievements and many resources, it may indeed have more mature insights on certain things.
Handle with peace of mind to him all the tasks of choosing and making decisions, which can indeed save many women's worries.
Kare people can only feel their vigorous vitality and the extension of their own will when they make decisions.
Always make decisions on everything, wouldn’t you become a puppet?
No matter who has no opinion, it is impossible for others to make decisions in everything.
She just hadn't made decisions for too long and lacked a little courage.
The man who can truly nourish you and help you will not only not hinder you from making decisions, but will also encourage you to try bravely.
He may use his experience to help you analyze the pros and cons, but the right to choose must be given to you.
Even if something he doesn't agree with, if you persist, he will not stop you.
Everyone's life hopes to bloom, and no one wants to be someone else's vassal.
will only give money, and the person who raises you in captivity to be a canary does not respect and appreciate your complete personality. Elite men like
are okay as a springboard for a short time. If you have to rely on each other for a long time, it will only make people feel endless suffocated.
See if he has an equal consciousness
In our general perception, it is normal for elite men with domineering personality to have successful careers and hold considerable assets in their hands.
In fact, this is not the case. The higher the level a man is, the more he can treat others equally.
They know that people have their own advantages, their own feelings, and their own expertise. Similarly, they will also treat their partners equally.
Some men rely on their hard work in society for many years and look down on their partners extremely contemptuously. They keep silent and say "What do you know?" "Do I not know more?"
No matter how much money a man like this is, he will make people lose his mind as soon as he opens his mouth.
Even if he will give his partner a lot of money and not let his partner work hard, his contempt and arrogance cannot be hidden.
When he gives his partner gifts and money, he will also make the other party feel unworthy and embarrassed. When facing such a man, you always feel that you are not good enough and always want to please the other person.
At the same time, because of his altitude, he may make many unequal demands.
For example, whenever you want to meet, if you want to have sex with men and women, you will have sex with men and women. Because you don’t believe in the equality between you and him, even if you feel uncomfortable, you have to endure it.
After being with such so-called elite men for a long time, people will become more and more inferior, doubt themselves, and lose confidence.
When you meet such a man, no matter how generous the conditions are, don’t be tempted by them, otherwise you will gradually swallow your vitality like boiling a frog in warm water.
Of course, there are many "common men" in this world who are neither so successful, greasy and narcissistic. Getting with such men is even more of a consumption.
Women must keep their eyes open, identify real high-quality objects, and enrich their lives.
Author | Shushui Therapist, has the qualification certificate of psychological counselor of the Chinese Academy of Sciences and the IHNMA International Hypnosis Teacher Certificate, committed to exploring the depth and greatness of human nature.
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