During this year's National Day holiday, Xiaohan, a girl from Beijing, finally got married with her boyfriend whom she had been in love for 8 years. As early as May this year, the two had already obtained a marriage certificate and set the wedding on the 11th of the second half of the year. Everything was normal, but due to other reasons, the wedding could not be held, which made the two people worry.
"We originally invited many relatives and friends and booked a hotel, but an accident still happened." Xiaohan said that in the end, the two rented a courtyard house in Beijing, and only the relatives of both sides had a meal, which was simply a wedding. "Although I really want to go back to my hometown to hold a wedding, I still decided to stay in Beijing. Although the wedding saves money, I receive very little money from the membership."
Generally speaking, only by holding a wedding is suitable for inviting others. Although some people cannot go to the wedding site, they will also prepare red envelopes. This matter is not that simple for Xiaohan. She graduated from a master's degree and is more respectful. If she doesn't hold a wedding, she really can't ask for the money she gave back. "In the past, when my friends got married, I basically gave me 800 yuan or 1,000 yuan, and my best friend gave me 2,000 yuan. Now I can't invite them to the wedding banquet, so I'm really embarrassed to ask for it."
As the saying goes, the share money is like changing. When others get married, they will follow the amount you will return to you, but weddings are usually held, and wedding invitations are used as the reason for invitations so that everyone will follow the gifts. Now, Xiaohan has just had a meal among his relatives. Even if he gets married, he is indeed a bit embarrassed when it comes to asking for money. "I'll do it. In the past few years, I have given out more than 30,000 yuan in total. Not counting the gifts I bought for others, but now I'm basically not going to come back."
Xiaohan's income is not high. Because she studied liberal arts major, even if she has a master's degree, her income after tax in Beijing was only a few thousand yuan, and 30,000 yuan was a considerable amount for her. "I don't think there is any need to worry about this issue anymore. I only get married once in my life. If I miss this opportunity, I will basically not come back." Xiaohan said that she will not be able to receive gifts in the future. After all, she is already married and there is no need for reciprocity. However, considering some practical reasons, she will choose to choose gifts for her friends.
"I often receive messages that I haven't contacted my friends for several years and invite me to attend the wedding. In fact, I don't have that feeling at all. Everyone feels like I want a red envelope, but I usually spend a few hundred yuan, but I won't do it in the future." Xiaohan said.
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