How powerful can the mistress be? Let me tell you a real case.
This woman, from a third party that a cheating man despises, to a cheating man who takes the initiative to divorce and marry her,
The mistress took three years, and her five tricks were almost successful.
This is an extramarital affair case that Jiaxin helped the original wife solve in the past few years. When the original wife came here, her husband had already sued her once, just to get a divorce.
The original wife Ms. Ge and her husband have been married for nine years. The two are college classmates.
have been in love for seven years. After more than three years of graduation, their work has stabilized, they entered the marriage hall.
Both parties have similar family conditions. The wedding house was bought by both parents and the names of the two people were written.
The cheating man gave him a dowry of 880,000 yuan. After the original wife's parents added 110,000 yuan, they all used as dowry for Ms. Ge to take her home. Ms. Ge is pregnant after
. The confinement center was ordered by her mother-in-law for money, and the confinement nanny was found by her parents.
Both parents take turns to help take care of their children, bringing all kinds of things every time without any conflicts.
The two of them have no financial pressure, and their parents get along very well, which is a very happy marriage.
Results When we were in the sixth year of marriage, both families wanted to have a second child.
Ms. Ge and his wife were also willing and got pregnant smoothly. It was originally a happy event.
I didn’t expect her husband to cheat during her second child, and Ms. Ge didn’t know at that time.
It was not until the child was over one year old that she realized that it was difficult for mistresses to separate at this time.
The mistress said that she was willing to be a third party all the time, which would not affect the lives of Ms. Ge and the cheating man.
The man cheated on him also emphasized that the mistress does not fight or fight, and he has a true relationship with him and is unwilling to give up the mistress.
Three people had a fight for a while, and finally the cheating man said he was willing to return to his family.
As a result, less than half a year, the cheating man and the mistress contacted him again.
, and the man who cheated on him has a different attitude than before, insisted on divorceing for the mistress and giving him the mistress a title.
Ms. Ge has also learned about the mistress, and she can't figure out what the cheating man is about.
This mistress's parents divorced and lived in her aunt's house since she was a child. After graduating from junior high school, she worked as a waiter at her aunt's hotel.
After becoming an adult, he left his aunt's house and stopped interacting with each other. It can be seen that his life was not good at the beginning. The mistress behind
is playing singing in a KTV, saying that she is selling her skills but not her own, but it is obvious that she will not be so simple.
The cheating man was just having fun with the mistress at the beginning, and when he got tired of playing, he wanted to abandon the mistress.
is the mistress who is more persistent and uses means to make the cheating man devote himself to her step by step.
What methods did this mistress use? According to what Ms. Ge said, Jiaxin's analysis mainly involves five steps.
The first step is to lower your posture, help conceal the extramarital affair and let the cheating man continue to cheat.
The mistress was very clear at first when the man cheated on her, so in order to continue the extramarital affair, the mistress put her attitude very low.
says that he truly loves a cheating man and just wants to be with a cheating man, so he can do nothing.
Don’t cheat a man and marry her through divorce, nor do you give her too much money by cheating a man.
even took the initiative to express his willingness to help conceal his extramarital affair. If a cheating man doesn’t look for a mistress, the mistress will never disturb the cheating man. No man will not be moved with such conditions as
. This is telling a cheating man that you can cheat without cost and risk.
So the mistress's method was very successful. The original wife disliked the mistress's cheating man, so she chose to continue her extramarital affair secretly.
Step 2: To meet his preferences, please the cheating man, and warm up the relationship.
The man who cheated on him was willing to continue his extramarital affair, so the mistress helped her get enough time.
The rest is to vote for his preferences and do whatever the cheating man likes.
constantly pleases the cheating man, and then these behaviors are said to be out of love for the cheating man.
cheating man is naturally very enjoyable, and he will have a more favorable impression of the mistress, and his feelings will naturally warm up.
At this stage, a cheating man will gradually not dislike the mistress, but he will never divorce for the mistress.
The third step is to pull the stomp, belittle the original wife, and enhance your own value.
A cheating man has a good impression of the mistress. If the mistress says, the cheating man can listen to what the mistress says.
At this stage, smart mistresses will start to stumble, belittle the original wife and weaken the original wife's value.
If you want to defeat an original wife who is better than a mistress, you cannot rely on your strength, you must rely on means.
The mistress doesn’t need to become better than the original wife, you just need to make the cheating man think that the mistress is better than the original wife.
It is obvious that this mistress was very successful, otherwise she would not have been discovered if she had an extramarital affair. The cheating man was unwilling to break up with the mistress.
The fourth step is to sow discord and disintegrate the relationship between the original wife and the cheating man.
The original wife discovered an extramarital affair and would definitely have conflicts with the cheating man. This is the best opportunity for the mistress to sow discord.
The mistress had a fight with the man who cheated. The mistress pretended to be a cheating man and said she was willing to withdraw for the man who cheated.
A cheating man will feel guilty about his mistress, and at the same time, he will feel that his original wife does not understand him and his original wife does not think about him.
Even if a cheating man chooses his original wife for the sake of his interests, his relationship with the original wife is much worse than before.
The last step is to retreat as advance, pretend to leave completely, and force the cheating man to make a choice!
The cheating man and the mistress were forced to separate, and the cheating man and his original wife were not as good as before.
When she feels guilty and misses her mistress, the mistress tells the cheating man that other men pursue her,
She may be getting married and starting a new relationship, what will happen to a cheating man?
will definitely do everything in order to renew the relationship with the mistress. The mistress takes retreat as a move.
will let the cheating man choose between her and her original wife, and the cheating man chooses a mistress.
, so there is such a move to sue for divorce, and the mistress's method has also been effective.
So what should the original match do when facing the mistress’s chain of tricks?
In fact, no matter how many mistresses have methods, there is no way to change the mistress’s own conditions.
Jiaxin’s advice to cheating man is to join hands with both parents to freeze the cheating man’s economy and then drive the cheating man out.
let him achieve his goal and live a life with his mistress first and try it.
The good days of cheating on a man mainly come from the help of both parents, and are closely related to the family conditions of the original wife.
Only when a cheating man really lives with his mistress can he compare how happy his marriage with his original wife is. Only by
can you see the value of the original wife and know the true value of the mistress.
Is it affectionate to drink enough water? It is obviously impossible for a cheating man who is used to eating delicacies from mountains and rivers.
It may be able to bear it in a few days, but after a long time, I naturally can't bear it.
He will find that the love of the mistress is worthless and will not help him, and will make a real choice.
Jiaxin wants to say at the end of the article, what kind of mistress needs to work hard?
is because she is not as good as her original wife, because a cheating man divorces and marrys a mistress, is not in the interests of her.
Otherwise, the mistress doesn’t need to work hard at all, so the original wife should not look at the mistress’s methods.
You must look at the starting point and the fatal weakness of the mistress in order to solve the extramarital affair in one step.
If you have an extramarital affair and don’t know what to do, you can follow Jiaxin and send a private message to talk about your situation.
I am Jiaxin, a marriage maintenance teacher who focuses on the separation of third parties.