I went to bed early last night, but in the middle of the night, there was an annoying buzz in my ears. In the darkness, I turned over and continued to sleep, but in just three seconds, it came again. I was too lazy to beat me this time, so I put on the quilt and slept. It took five seconds. I was about to suffocate and I had to show my head, but the mosquito did not give up and was still buzzing in my ears. Touch your phone and turn it on. It’s two o’clock in the morning. If you don’t call it, you will definitely not stop this night. Turn on the lights and you may be more awake. As a result, the mosquito may be tired by itself and can't get out of my hair. I was so "lucky" that my hair was suffocated to death.
The most feared of waking up in the middle of the night. Now I got better and couldn't fall asleep. Suddenly a thought appeared in my mind. Does this mosquito look like we are pestering us in love? What you think is that you will never leave may have caused great trouble to the other party.
The story starts with the closest best friend. She and her ex-boyfriend met on a dating software. They fell in love with each other at first sight and started to get along well. The man has a wealthy family and takes care of the girl in every way to meet all her requirements. When we were partying together, we could feel her coming with a halo from afar. At that time, she was really the happiest woman in the world.
But women are always born with sensitivity and insecurity. They like to be too afraid of losing the other person, but use the wrong method. In order to test the man's sincerity with her, my best friend actually registered a new number on the dating software with the photo of the hot girl and contacted the boy. Then she tempted and tempted variously. How many men wouldn't "below" when they saw the beauty so proactive? Her boyfriend was not a saint either. So her best friend found that her boyfriend had less and less time to contact her and communicated less and less. Instead, she was having a hot fight with her "stand-in" on the software, and she didn't know how to end it for a while.
Acting on both sides every day, her best friend was not interested in working and was extremely tired. Finally, on Christmas Eve night, she mustered up the courage to confess all this to her boyfriend, but the boy threw a sentence directly: "I knew it was you!" Later, no matter how she coaxed, apologized, or even bought a very expensive gift, it still received the boy's cold response. From morning and night every day to only good morning or good night, I simply couldn't get in touch for several days, and then suddenly I suddenly said a few words, which made my best friend happy for a long time.
The boy later said to his best friend: "At first I was quite impressed and felt that I met the right girl, but now I don't want to get married, nor do I want to marry others, so don't waste your time on me. Even if you get married in the future, I can still be with you."
Best friend came to me and cried and asked me what to do. As an outsider, I advised her to give up. She agreed and broke off the connection when she went back, but she still contacted her every day until now. She said she was used to it and couldn't control herself. She would be in a low mood if she didn't speak for a day. She was used to saying goodbye to the other party. Even if the other party did not reply in time, once she replied to her, she would be very satisfied with the day.
Best friend said she was repenting in this way, hoping that one day she would get the boy's forgiveness, and even hoped that the boy would change his mind and marry her home. So the mosquito I experienced last night suddenly reminded me of my best friend. What she is doing now is very similar to that mosquito, buzzing in her ears, and she will appear in the other person's life every day, but this may only make the other person lose patience and kill this beautiful love with her own hands one day.
Best friend can no longer listen to any of our suggestions. She is still expressing sincerity every day. The other party is a little uncomfortable, so she has to send a red envelope to show her goodwill. However, the boy never expressed or cared for her anymore, but enjoyed her confession.In my opinion, the best friend's approach is now a desperate struggle, because this relationship will eventually end in failure, but her personality does not hit the wall and does not look back. She can only let go if she really hurts.
Remember Su Qin teacher once said something and shared it with everyone: "Anyone who is pestering and beating does not really love you deeply, it is just racing against yourself. Those who truly love you cannot be pestering and beating. Because self-esteem does not allow it. We have always believed that love is to give the best to the other party, including dignity. How many shallow turns are the deep love that others cannot understand."
I sincerely hope that every girl can meet a boy who cherishes her, and trust the other party and not to destroy the precious trust with your own hands. Once the trust is destroyed, it is difficult to believe it again. I think everyone will feel the same. If a person has deceived you once, would you still be friends with him? May each of us find happiness and dignity in love.
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