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Mo Yan wrote this passage in " Late-mature People ": "People who are kind-hearted are late-mature and are ripened by bad people. Although they became enlightened later, they were still kind and sincere, constantly looking for similar people, and finally became the loneliest person."
As the saying goes, "You must not have a heart to harm others, and you must be guarded against others." No one's growth is designed in advance. Most people gradually grow up after experiencing unfair treatment in life.
There are all kinds of strange things in the world. When we become adults, we will find that the people around us are all kinds of strange things. Their inner world is not as simple as we originally thought.
When we grow up, we need to leave our parents and face society alone, we must have the ability to distinguish right from wrong.
Maybe you don’t have the sharp eyes, you can make predictions before things happen, and you can’t see the other person clearly before getting along with others. But you must have the ability to summarize after interacting with others.
Very few people can see through each other before contacting each other, but it is not difficult to recognize each other after getting along. People with bad minds usually have the following four characteristics, be careful.
can’t stand others’ good, sarcastic
The world is very big, there are many people around you, but not many really hope you are good.
Russell said: "A beggars are not jealous of millionaires, but they will definitely be jealous of beggars with higher incomes." This is how human nature is. The closer people to the same class, the more shameful they are.
Don’t think that you have shared the woe. When you become rich, the other party will be happy for you. The facts are often the opposite. The person who least wants to see you develop is the person who has shared the suffering with you.
If you observe carefully, you will find that no matter which class of people, no matter how close the relationship was, the identity and status of one of them changed drastically, the relationship will disappear with the occurrence of changes.
At the same time, it is difficult to hear the other party's words from the lower status compared to that person with lower status. They may not express their dissatisfaction too bluntly, but they are inevitably sarcastic whenever they talk about the already developed friend.
People who can’t stand your good deeds should not continue dating. No matter how close the relationship was, it has lost its meaning.
attaches great importance to interests and is profit-oriented
people will lose their kindness and bottom line once they are fascinated by money and interests.
People who care too much about their own interests show selfishness, and behind selfish behavior is often bad intentions that use any means for the sake of interests.
Everyone has selfish intentions in the face of interests, but most people adhere to the principle of "a gentleman loves money and gets it well", and some people attach too much importance to interests and completely lose their bottom line in order to greed and take more.
Try not to maintain relationships with anyone you get along with. If the relationship fades or even disappears without the blessing of interests, then this relationship is not worth the effort.
In this society, it is very common for people with different opinions. People who talk about one set of standards and do another set of standards behind their backs are best at being scheming.
Sincere people will not turn against their friends for the sake of profit. People who are profit-oriented are always used to the word profit first.
Don’t just look at the surface when looking at people. A smile on a person’s face does not mean that the person’s heart is kind.
is good at using people's hearts and hides the knife in their smiles
People with bad minds will unconsciously carry "bad" in terms of words and behaviors.
Some people may think that this kind of small bad is just a prank and is harmless. In fact, just causing emotional embarrassment to others is harm.
People with bad minds often enjoy teasing others. They are good at using the emotions of the people around them. Although they smile when they say some words, they are holding them to their bad hearts.
Be careful of the orders given to you by those who say "It's all for your own good". In this world, there are few people in this world who are good to you and have no motivation.
Don’t believe in the scene too easily. Others say it’s for your own good. Maybe it’s really beneficial to you from all perspectives, but it must be profitable for him, otherwise the other party will not make such a choice for no reason.
People who are good at using people's hearts can always find "suitable" reasons to perform moral kidnapping on you , so that you can use it for him. He seems to be kind-faced but actually has a bad heart. He is very enthusiastic on the surface, but is extremely cruel behind his back.
Indifferent nature is cold and ungrateful, ungrateful
In life, there is a type of people who seem to be not very proficient in social interaction, and they show a cold face in any occasion. In fact, they knew very well what others had given for him, but they were unwilling to be grateful, and even thought that it was what the other party owed him.
Indifferent and cold-hearted people can always do ungrateful things, as the old saying goes: "Raising rice to raise grace, and fighting rice to raise grudges." For people who are naturally cold-hearted, it is always natural to be helped by others. If others occasionally reject him, they will offend him.
You can be a kind person, but keep your eyes open and don’t give your kindness to people you shouldn’t.
Little kindness raises noble people, great kindness raises enemies. Being too kind to others is never a choice a smart person should have.
As the saying goes, the country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change. Don’t be blindly confident and think that you can move people who are naturally cold-hearted. In the end, not only will you not be able to move the other person, but you will also put yourself in an embarrassing situation of being in a dilemma.
You should know that when you encounter difficulties, the person who will help you is highly likely the person who has helped you, not the person you have helped.
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Be careful of the orders given to you by those who say "It's all for your own good". In this world, there are few people in this world who are good to you and have no motivation.
Don’t believe in the scene too easily. Others say it’s for your own good. Maybe it’s really beneficial to you from all perspectives, but it must be profitable for him, otherwise the other party will not make such a choice for no reason.
People who are good at using people's hearts can always find "suitable" reasons to perform moral kidnapping on you , so that you can use it for him. He seems to be kind-faced but actually has a bad heart. He is very enthusiastic on the surface, but is extremely cruel behind his back.
Indifferent nature is cold and ungrateful, ungrateful
In life, there is a type of people who seem to be not very proficient in social interaction, and they show a cold face in any occasion. In fact, they knew very well what others had given for him, but they were unwilling to be grateful, and even thought that it was what the other party owed him.
Indifferent and cold-hearted people can always do ungrateful things, as the old saying goes: "Raising rice to raise grace, and fighting rice to raise grudges." For people who are naturally cold-hearted, it is always natural to be helped by others. If others occasionally reject him, they will offend him.
You can be a kind person, but keep your eyes open and don’t give your kindness to people you shouldn’t.
Little kindness raises noble people, great kindness raises enemies. Being too kind to others is never a choice a smart person should have.
As the saying goes, the country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change. Don’t be blindly confident and think that you can move people who are naturally cold-hearted. In the end, not only will you not be able to move the other person, but you will also put yourself in an embarrassing situation of being in a dilemma.
You should know that when you encounter difficulties, the person who will help you is highly likely the person who has helped you, not the person you have helped.
content source public account: Weichen [ID:weichenip] It is easy to meet the author by chance.
Author Profile: Weichen, freelance writer, writing tutor. Normally quiet, occasionally humorous.
I hope to bring you spiritual relaxation through words, and I hope your life will be better after meeting my words.
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