One reader.
He said that he likes a girl very much. They have been in contact with each other for a while. When they get along, the other party is very enthusiastic about him. They are very happy to chat with him, share everything with him, and they are also willing to meet him. They seem to be very happy when they meet.
It seems that the other party is interested in him, so he really wants to confess his love.
really wants to tell the other party what he wants, but he is always worried that he will confess his love. The other party will not agree and ignore him then.
On the one hand, he doesn't confess his love and feels unwilling to accept it, afraid that the other party will be chased by others, and on the other hand, he is not confident enough in himself, and is afraid that his confession will only appear abrupt, and he is just rejected by the other party.
In love, many people seem to be like this. Even if they think that the other person should also like them, they still can't take that step.
It is a good thing to be cautious about this, but in fact, there is no need to be too cowardly and do nothing all the time.
is quite familiar, although I confess my love directly.
Like a person. If you just met each other and knew nothing about you, you had never done anything, and just rushed to the other party's confession and said you liked each other, it would indeed seem strange and dissatisfied.
Basically, the other party will only be a little confused and cannot figure out what the situation is.
However, when we have known each other for a while and have a certain understanding of each other, the other party has obviously irresistible and is also very active in this relationship. You have met each other many times alone, and it is actually completely OK to confess your love at this time.
Maybe, the other party has been waiting for your confession to push your relationship forward.
has reached this point, so there is really nothing to be pretentious. If you don’t confess your love, you will only feel uncomfortable. You often have various random thoughts and you can’t live a good life.
For the other party, you can never wait for you to express your feelings. Gradually, even if you like it, you will begin to doubt this relationship. Doubt that you are just being self-indulgent and doubt that you are not serious at all.
If this happens, you will feel very distressed and the other party will do it. This is really not good at all.
instead of all kinds of inner dramas and torture, just tell the other party directly and ask the other party to give you an answer, that is actually the best.
succeeds, then let’s be together well.
confession is sometimes full of confidence, but it may not be successful. Sometimes it is cautious, and it is obviously very nervous, but it may still be accepted by the other party.
may not be successful, but you still have a high chance of success.
Anyway, after you confess your love, if the other person nods, agrees, and is willing to be with you, after that, you just remember the mood at that moment and cherish this relationship.
Don’t start to neglect just because you get it, and stop taking the other party seriously, but start to feel that the other party is not very good.
Treat a person with this attitude and treat a love. Even if the other party promised you at the beginning, the other party would still regret it later. He felt that you were not worth it, but he directly chose to leave you.
Two people are together, and everything seems sweeter at the beginning, but true love should not be the slightest feelings, and then they start to perfunctory and think about changing someone else.
From thick to weak, that is inevitable. On that day, it is not only not that love has disappeared, but that love has truly begun.
Only you can withstand this change and know that in the ordinary years, you will not forget your original aspiration, treat the other person well, work hard with the other person, and work together, and work together, and you will be able to really have the kind of happiness you want. It doesn't matter if
was rejected.
Why don’t you dare to confess? What you fear the most is that uncertainty.
Worrying that you think the other person likes you is just an illusion, worrying that once you say it out, this dream will be disillusioned.If you don’t say it, you can at least get along with it as a friend. Once you say it, you can only return to strangeness and lose it completely.
You will have such thoughts, that you really care and like it very much, but you also need to understand that everything is not that scary.
Many times, what you are afraid of is not actually the other party rejecting you, but it is just your own imagination. You don’t want to break the current peace and have not yet figured out how to deal with future things.
There are too many things that you don’t face and just escape. That’s not OK. Keep dragging and retreating in various ways will only make you less and less afraid to try, but when you really take action, you will really find that things are quite simple.
That day, even if the other party rejects you, you will not be so frustrated, so embarrassed, and feel embarrassed. Instead, you will only feel relaxed and glad that I did it and did not disappoint my love.
As for after being rejected, when you really start to face such a situation, you won’t be unable to cope with it.
It will naturally happen, and you will be relieved quickly and you can come out quickly to give yourself a new beginning.
Remember, if you like someone and want to confess, just confess.
On a good day, or just on a normal day, on a special day, or just on a normal day that cannot be more ordinary.
Prepare a few words, prepare a bouquet of flowers, prepare a gift, go to meet that person, and let the other party know your mood.
Don’t always think about waiting for the future. Life is too short and there are always too many accidents in this world.
The world is changing rapidly, and no one knows what will happen tomorrow, so you must take advantage of this moment and now.
Go forward bravely, fight for the love you want, and create a possibility for yourself.
is completed, which is worthy of joy. If not, it is also worthy of applause. At least I have worked hard, at least I will not regret it when I think about it in the future.
text/Tan Meng
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