Introduction Once a woman gets married, she will follow this man wholeheartedly. However, there are a bunch of trivial matters in the marriage that make people upset. As a husband, they turn a blind eye to these trivial matters, but as a wife, they care a lot, so many conflicts a

Introduction

Once a woman gets married, she will follow this man wholeheartedly. However, there are a bunch of trivial matters in the marriage that make people upset, and as a husband, these trivial matters are ignored, but as a wife, they care a lot, so many conflicts arise between the two parties.

Honey, husband

Xiuxia and Xiaowei met when they were working. There was a small episode before they were together.

Xiuxia and Xiaowei are both rural people. The family conditions of both of them are similar. Although they are not very wealthy, they can barely live a life.

Xiuxia's family needs more sisters. Although she rarely goes hungry, she has never been to school for a few days. Because her family can't afford so many children to go to school, she went out to farm with her parents early.

, but after planting it for a few years, she was unwilling to plant it again because she didn't want to live such a constant life. She didn't want to wait until the age of marriage to choose others. She wanted to give herself more opportunities and make her abilities stronger.

So later she bid farewell to her hometown and went out to work. When she was working, she met Xiaowei. At that time, Xiaowei was her little leader. Because Xiaowei was easier to talk and was more honest, she often learned to escape from class by others.

But once she ran away from work and met the leader of their company. Xiuxia was very scared, but Xiaowei happened to meet Xiuxia when he came out to buy materials. The leader asked Xiaowei what was going on.

Then Xiaowei said that he sent Xiuxia out to buy the materials, because he forgot to tell Xiuxia that there was a material to buy more, so he followed her. Seeing this, the leader said that Xiaowei would buy the materials alone in the future.

Just then the leader called, so he followed the phone and walked away. Xiuxia's face turned red with fear. She was very grateful to Xiaowei for helping her, so she no longer escaped from work, but cooperated with Xiaowei in doing things. Later, the two of them gradually fell in love with each other and got together, but their company cannot fall in love. If they are in love, one person must resign. At that time, Xiuxia proposed to resign.

is easy to find because her job is easy, and Xiaowei is already in the position of leader. If she resigns easily, it will be difficult to get into the position of leader again, and Xiaowei also earns a little more than Xiuxia.

Finally, after discussion, Xiuxia proposed to the company to resign. Later, the two of them got married after dating for two years. After one month of marriage, Xiuxia became pregnant, so she kept raising her baby at home. When

can raise her baby, Xiuxia and Xiaowei's parents never get along. Although Xiaowei's mother usually serves her diet and daily life, she doesn't like to eat the dishes made by Xiaowei's mother, but she doesn't want to tell her in person.

So every night she would call Xiaowei to complain, but Xiaowei was also a lump of wood. He told his mother that Xiuxia didn't like eating the dishes she cooked, and Xiuxia was particularly angry when she learned about it.

Because Xiaowei said this, it would definitely provoke conflicts between them mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. As expected, Xiaowei's mother was very cold to Xiuxia later. Sometimes when she became busy, she would just let Xiuxia buy food outside, because she didn't want to cook for her.

Anyway, Xiuxia disliked the food she cooked was not delicious. Although Xiuxia was treated coldly by her mother-in-law, she had to endure it. Who blamed her husband for not being able to speak? After

, she finally waited until the child was born. Xiuxia felt that she was finally relieved at this time, but at this time, Xiaowei's company happened to go bankrupt. Their boss ran away with money. His employees asked Xiaowei to settle the salary for them because they could not pay.

, Xiaowei's salary was also paid by the company, and all the money in the company was with the boss, so he had no choice. Later, he couldn't bear it, so he gave his previous salary and bonus to his employees.

At that time, Xiuxia was in confinement and her family expenses increased. However, Xiaowei couldn't afford a penny. Although Xiuxia knew that Xiaowei had given his salary and bonus to his employees, she felt that he shouldn't have done this.

Actually, she was just complaining, but unexpectedly, Xiaowei became impatient later, and had a big fight with her and beat her. If it weren't for her mother-in-law's pulling her, maybe Xiuxia would have been beaten to the hospital.

Wife cheated

After this incident, Xiuxia was less and less afraid to get close to Xiaowei, and she didn't dare to talk about their company in front of Xiaowei. After

, Xiaowei also went out to find a job and work, but he was no longer as glorious as before, and he became droopy. Moreover, he also ignored Xiuxia and their daughter and was indifferent.

Xiuxia chose to endure these things silently because Xiaowei rarely communicates with her, and she rarely communicates with Xiaowei, so they all became the most familiar strangers. As their daughter Xiaodi grows up, Xiuxia slowly sees it. She feels that this marriage makes her feel warm, and she feels that it is time to live for herself.

Because Xiaowei works outside all year round and often doesn't go home, Xiuxia often chats with strange men online, hoping to pass the time and waste the loneliness in her heart. Later she met a man online, and the marriage between the man and his wife was almost over, so after he met Xiuxia online, he felt particularly comforted.

They seemed to have become each other's confidants all of a sudden, and their marital status was particularly similar. At that time, the man promised her that he would divorce his wife as soon as possible and marry her.

After hearing the other party say this, Xiuxia felt very warm in her heart. She felt that this man was her true love, so she chatted with this man until midnight every day. After

, Xiaowei discovered Xiuxia's abnormality and asked her who she was chatting with so late. She was so excited. Xiuxia immediately admitted that she was chatting with other men. At the same time, she said that she was extremely disappointed with this marriage.

Facing Xiuxia's confession, Xiaowei did not blame Xiuxia. He was very calm. Maybe he was very disappointed with this marriage. They were still together for their daughter to have a complete family.

, Xiaowei is so calm, which does not mean that their daughter Xiaodi is also calm, because her daughter is their biological child after all, and Xiaodi does not want her parents to divorce. She advised Xiuxia to break off contact with the man, but Xiuxia was unwilling.

Mediation

Their daughter Xiaodi really had no choice, so she asked the mediator for help, wanting them to help mediate.

mediation site mediator also called Xiuxia's cheating partner, but the man immediately denied marrying Xiuxia, and he said he did not want to interfere in Xiuxia's marriage and did not want Xiuxia to divorce for him.

Xiuxia was very unwilling to accept her when she heard him say this, because they had a good chat before, and the man promised to marry her, but when she called the man again, the other party showed that the phone was turned off.

At this time, Xiuxia was stunned. Xiuxia's daughter Xiaodi immediately advised her mother to turn around and not be obsessed with it anymore, but Xiuxia still did not give up. She said that even if the man did not marry her, she would not continue to live with Xiaowei.

Because she can no longer feel love and family affection in this family, she lives very tiring every day.

In the end, Xiaodi planned to let her mother go. She felt that as long as her mother lived happily, she could accept it even if she had a divorce.

written at the end

I think an unfortunate marriage has caused too much harm to a woman. Xiuxia also wanted to live a good life with Xiaowei at the beginning, but Xiaowei was too cold to her, and she was also indifferent to this family and their daughter.

and they have not communicated for many years, which makes their only family affection tasteless. So when Xiaowei faces his wife Xiuxia cheating, he is very calm, which shows that both the couple have long lost their love.

I think the biggest harm they have come to this point is their daughter Xiaodi. Although they are trying to maintain their marriage in name only, Xiaodi has already seen that their parents have long stopped loving each other. Although she was urging her mother to give up the man after

, she was actually urging her parents to rekindle their desire for love, but her mother's heart was already cold and her father didn't want to save anything.

I think it is also a tragedy for this family to live like this. I hope everyone will not learn from them. We will communicate more and communicate more between husband and wife, and do not have overnight revenge. Even for the sake of our children, we should live a good life.

I wonder what you think? Welcome to express your opinions!