I don’t know how you are. I often encounter such women around me. The relationship with my parents, especially my mother, is particularly tense. They complain that their mothers do not respect themselves, like to point fingers at various things such as their clothes and making fr

I don’t know how you are. I often encounter such women around me. The relationship with my parents, especially my mother, is particularly nervous. They complain that their mothers do not respect themselves, like to point fingers at various things such as their clothes and making friends, and like to slander themselves in front of outsiders, especially relatives, and make themselves lose face. Similarly, they are also irritable and extremely impatient with their mothers. They can’t help but swear when they hear them talking a few words.

I used to be very stupid. I listened to many girls with my ignorant kindness. As a garbage can that has accepted a lot of negative emotions, I digested these emotions and analyzed many reasons. Then I found that many similar scenes were actually constantly staged on myself.

To be honest, lack of money is the reason for most relationship tensions, and it is also the reason for the mutual disagreement among relatives and mutual dislike. As many of them say, they feel that because their parents are poor and their parents do not work hard, they fail to grow up in a good environment, make themselves suffer, and make themselves embarrassed in many occasions; at the same time, their parents retorted that because they are lazy and they do not work hard, they have no future and blindly pursue material things and want to enjoy. Dislike each other in this way and torture each other forever.

Parents’ oppression is just the first mountain and it is also an early drill for social beatings. Many women hate this feeling, which just means they need to support themselves. Parents will get older and more and more dependent on you. In this case, it is useless to hate each other. Only money can be useful. Money can solve most problems. It can even exaggerately solve all the problems you have for your headaches. Pay medical insurance for them, hire the best nanny, and give it to the best medical institutions and nursing homes... So instead of being tense, it is better to shut up and make money to solve the problem.

Young people will have a period of confusion and expansion, want to go through an ordinary path, and come out of nowhere and attract attention from thousands of people. During the period of change and turbulence, there may be opportunities, and in the period of stable and slow growth, it will not be easy to survive and grow your skills. Don’t spend too much time blaming your parents. They are not your ultimate enemy. What you want to defeat is genes, things that you want to change but they can’t change.

Young people will be confused and inflated, especially young girls who love to dream. They always think that they are the one favored by fate. It is indeed in this era of change. If you seize the wind, you can indeed take off, but it is hard to say whether you can become the lucky pig in the wind. So, really, female compatriots, don’t spend too much time to criticize your parents. After all, they are not your enemies. What you want to defeat and change is the consciousness they instill in you, break through the incompetent genes, go upward, improve, and better.