In the minds of some elderly people, daughter-in-law is just a tool for giving birth to children and passing on the family line. Only sons and grandsons are the people in their family! Based on this wrong concept, many families have caused tragedies.
Since the daughter-in-law divorced and changed her grandson's surname, Grandma Yang no longer knows how many times she has quarreled with her daughter-in-law, and asked her to change her grandson's surname back, otherwise, the daughter-in-law must return the child support she took during the divorce to her in-laws!
However, this time, Grandma Yang did not make a good deal as smoothly as in the past, because this time the daughter-in-law did not come forward, but the thirteen-year-old grandson Taotao and Grandma Yang had a head-on confrontation.
Taotao is only thirteen years old. Maybe because of the good living conditions now, the children mature early, Taotao has grown into a young man who is 1.7 meters tall. He grabbed the clothes on Grandma Yang's chest and shouted angrily: I just follow my mother's surname. You don't care. You old guy dare to bully my mother in the future. Be careful that I'm not polite to you!
Grandma Yang was shocked and angry. She didn't expect her grandson to treat her like this now...
Grandma Yang fell to this point today. It can be said that she has a great responsibility.
Although the society is popular for freedom of love, some rural youth still have to rely on the words of the media. Grandma Yang and her wife are both ordinary farmers, and their son Zhu Chun is also a very ordinary rural boy. No girl would like him. Later, after being introduced by a matchmaker, Zhu Chun and Jiuju got married.
In the countryside, there are families with only sons. The son lives with his parents when he gets married, and Zhu Chun is no exception. After Jiuju married into the house, Grandma Yang said to Jiuju: If you marry into our family, you will be a member of our family. You will live a good life with Zhu Chun in the future.
Although a woman is married, she cannot give up her affection with her parents’ family. Jiuju's younger brother works in the city and once visited Jiuju. Jiuju killed chickens and geese and welcomed his younger brother with great affection. When the younger brother was about to leave, Jiuju put a pot of oil, a bag of rice, and dozens of local eggs on his younger brother's car and said to his younger brother: There is no such thing in the city, you can take it back!
The younger brother left, and Grandma Yang said to Jiuju: What I gave to your brother today is worth a lot of money. Are you still so concerned about your mother's family after getting married? Jiuju said: Isn’t it just a little rice and oil? It’s not worth it! Giving my brother something is also a favor for us siblings!
Grandma Yang said to her son Zhu Chun: Jiuju is so concerned about her parents' home. Don't give the money you earn from working in the future to Jiuju. Be careful that she gives it to her parents' home!
Sure enough, Zhu Chun listened to his mother, Grandma Yang. From then on, Jiuju, Zhu Chun and Grandma Yang began to have constant conflicts.
Because Zhu Chun usually doesn't hand over the money from working to Jiuju, he has money. As the saying goes, a man becomes bad when he has money. Zhu Chun is infected with the bad habit of gambling and drinking, so he doesn't pay his monthly salary every month, and he often beats and scolds people after drinking. During Jiuju's confinement period, once, because Jiuju complained that Zhu Chun did not buy diapers for his child in time, the drunk Zhu Chun beat Jiuju up.
Jiuju gritted her teeth and lived with Zhu Chun for several years, but later she really couldn't live, so she divorced Zhu Chun. Because the child is still young, the court awarded the child to Jiuju. At the same time, the court also ruled that Zhu Chun would pay the child's support. Jiuju was worried that Zhu Chun would not pay the child in the future and asked Zhu Chun to pay the child's support from the date of divorce to adulthood. Zhu Chun had no money, and Zhu Chun's parents paid on their behalf.
After Jiuju divorced Zhu Chun, Jiuju took the child back to his parents' home. With the help of his parents' family, he built several houses for Jiuju in his grandfather village. Jiuju and his child lived with him.
Jiuju's child is a boy. When he was at school,Jiuju took the child by his surname. Now, the family members of her husband refused to rely on him. They said: The child is from our Zhu family, and we have paid the support. How can we take the mother's surname? So, my husband's family came to make trouble, but Jiuju ignored her.
From then on, my in-laws, especially Grandma Yang, often went to Jiuju's house to make trouble. Sometimes Jiuju took the method of hiding, and sometimes he would quarrel with Grandma Yang. Whenever the quarrel was over and Grandma Yang left, Jiuju would cry in front of his son about how Grandma Yang's family bullied her. The son clenched his fists and said to Jiuju: Mom, don't worry, I will definitely avenge you when I grow up!
Because Jiuju has always asked her child to follow her surname, her in-laws have always been dissatisfied and have been making trouble for many years. What Grandma Yang did not expect was that when she came to make trouble again this time, her already grown grandson actually scolded her and even beat her!
Grandma Yang returned home in horror and told her story about the troubles at Jiuju's house. Her son Zhu Chun said: It's a rebellion, I'll teach this turtle grandson a lesson! Zhu Chun's father Lao Zhu sighed and said: Forget it, the child has lived with his mother for a long time and has no feelings for us. You should find a way to find another wife!
In life, there are always some elderly people who think that their daughter-in-law is an outsider and their grandson is their family members. However, they ignore one thing: the deep love between mother and son is deep. In the eyes of grandchildren, grandparents, and even fathers do not have the importance of giving birth to his mother!