Some men often say: "If a man can't chase a woman, it must be because the money is not in place, because rich men will not lack women at all."
It is undeniable that this is an era of material desires, and money is a particularly important thing in the eyes of most people. So having money can do most things, including getting married and having children.
Rich men do not lack women, but is the love that men attract with money really the love they want?
is of course not, because 's feelings based on inducement will not be pure and firm. So the richer a man is, the more careful he will choose his life partner, and he will never marry a young and beautiful woman as his wife casually, unless they don’t want to get true love at all.
Therefore, whether a man can get true love in actually has nothing to do with his own wealth. Because true love can only be exchanged with true love, and sincerity can only be exchanged with true heart.
When chasing a woman, giving these three things to women is more effective than giving money to women.
The first thing: respect
According to the American psychologist Maslow's theory of human needs, human needs can be divided into five levels: physiological needs, security needs, respect needs, social needs and self-realization.
While satisfying their food, clothing, housing and transportation, many people will also work hard to do other things, such as doing charity to help others, or completing an achievement that will not be rewarded. So what exactly are they doing this? The answer is to get recognition and respect from others.
All people, regardless of their high or low, hope to be recognized and respected by others. The same is true for women in . Compared to men giving them a lot of money, they hope to be truly recognized and respected by men.
Since ancient times, many men have regarded women as vases. They may coax women and give women a lot of good things, but they rarely give women the recognition and respect they deserve.
However, every woman wants to prove her own value and be recognized and respected by others.
Therefore, men who can truly respect and recognize women can often be treated sincerely by women. This is what the so-called "women are tolerating themselves for those who please themselves".
The second thing: a sense of security
As the saying goes, "A man should get married, and a woman should get married."
Whenever a woman reaches the age to get married, the woman's parents will start to ask about the relationship between men and women. Obviously, women's parents are worried about women's lifelong affairs.
In fact, women are more anxious than their parents about their lifelong affairs. Maybe they are not in a hurry to get married, but they must be eager to get a man who truly loves them.
Because they hope that when they come home from get off work at night, there can be a man around to protect themselves; they also hope that when they are bullied by others, there can be a man to stand up for themselves.
After all, the reason why women want to find a reliable man is because they are insecure and want to have a reliable man to protect themselves.
The third thing: caring
When men describe a good woman, they always say, beautiful, kind, gentle and considerate. Because the woman a man wants is a woman who can wash and cook for himself, and is also gentle and considerate to him.
But few men think about how they should treat women? Is it okay to just give women money and supplies?
In fact, women also want men to be gentle and considerate enough to themselves, because who doesn’t want someone to comfort themselves?
The ancients once said: "A gentleman is gentle and gentle like jade."
A gentle and considerate man who can be very considerate to women is like a piece of beautiful jade, which can nourish a woman's heart and make women unable to let go.
Emotional message:
Maybe men can get women with money, but they may not necessarily get women's hearts. Because true love cannot be bought, it can only be exchanged with true love and sincerity.
Therefore, when men pursue women, they must understand that they must give women enough respect, a sense of security and consideration to get the true heart of women, and don’t always keep money on their lips.
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Author: Shan Mo Talks about Emotions
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