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01, Volume Beginner
Marriage is like a boat. The speed of the boat travels requires the couple to work together to control the speed.
If, in one of the people, walking too fast and walking too slowly, it is not conducive to the management of marriage.
Women who truly "prosper their husbands" are often very independent, have principles and bottom lines, and have requirements for men. When managing love, you have some requirements for men, guide them, and achieve each other.
Boccaccio once said: "Real love can inspire people and awaken his sleeping power and hidden talents."
A good wife is like a man's fortress. It can make him work harder in his career with more peace of mind, which will also be a great help to his life.
A good wife not only has advantages, but actually, some "shorts" can also help grow.
Women have the following "shorts" and are often very "prosperous" and are lucky when they meet them.
02. Live "strong" and never give up, love to fight for "career"
Women live more selfishly in marriage and often have a better grasp of the initiative in marriage. She will understand that she does not need to devote all her time and energy to the family.
Women who "prosper their husbands" in marriage are good at self-improvement and have their own unique and powerful temperament.
Because women understand that having a stable career can drive men to make progress together, only two "strong people" can build their home better.
If a woman always stays at home and works as a "nanny" job, and the husband will be truly treated as a nanny by her husband.
The gap between the two people is getting bigger and bigger. Women gradually lose themselves, and men will also change their minds.
Su Qin said: "If you take a person too seriously, the other party will easily not take you seriously. When you never bear to refuse, the other party will start to neglect you."
When a woman runs her own career, she will be full of charm, know more ways to make money, and her emotional intelligence will also be greatly improved.
At the same time, a woman who lives a "strong" and never admits defeat, loves to fight for her "career", can improve herself and strengthen herself. It can not only help men solve some problems, but also gain more respect from men.
Women who work hard in their careers will always maintain a spirit and will continue to learn.
Good love is that both people can grow up, bring spiritual comfort to each other, and can also share the pressure on each other.
Marrying a "strong" wife who is unyielding and loves to work hard will bring a lot of blessings to men.
03. A woman who likes to "restrain" men and forces them to improve
"prospering their husbands" can improve the potential of her husband. She will use "constraint" methods to inspire her husband's progress.
In marriage, a lucky man often meets a good wife who patiently encourages him to grow up.
Gu Tingye in " Know ", I like Sheng Minglan very much. He suffered repeated setbacks and became a water bandit. When he met with Minglan , Minglan persuaded him with great sincerity that he should have a better future even for his children. Only after
did Gu Tingye choose to join the army and make great contributions. Afterwards, he was granted the title of marquis and prefecture, and his glory was unlimited.
Later, Minglan married him and kept advising him not to be so reckless in his work, soothe his emotions again and again, so that he could escape the tricks in the court.
Two people are hard and soft, making the bad guy's plan impossible.
Minglan is independent and self-reliant. She understands Gu Tingye's ability and feels sorry for Gu Tingye's situation. Constantly use the method of "restraining" him, give him more love, encourage him to grow and make continuous progress.
In a love story, women are often the dominant ones. Women who like to "restrain" men are actually because they desire men to become better.
If a man can accept the constraints of women, change his bad habits, cultivate his character, he can make more sincere friends, his career will get better and better, and his life will be smoother and smoother.
When a woman is uneasy about the status quo, put some pressure on a man to let him know how to be vigilant in times of peace. Men will also meet a better future and a better self.
04. Spending money is "stingy" and good at managing money
. A woman who truly promotes her husband is actually very "stingy" and very good at managing money.
Women know how to be thrifty and can accumulate wealth for their family, and can give the greatest support when men encounter crises. When you meet such a wife, men will have more confidence and will be more likely to get out of the trough.
The more a woman who knows how to save money, the easier it is to make her family richer.
Money is the guarantee of life. If there is no way to give a family a stable economic foundation, then there is no happiness.
Men will run around and work hard because of difficulties, feel anxious and uneasy, and suffer greatly bothering both physically and mentally.
Wilde said: "When I was young, I thought money was the most important thing in the world. Now that I am old, I realize it is indeed the case."
If a woman knows how to accumulate wealth and arrange daily expenses, it can not only ensure the normal life of the family, but also save some money to resist future crises. The wealth obtained by two people's hard work can come in greater use.
Women seem to be very "stingy", but in fact, it is because she is good at managing money reasonably and using every penny to the knife will resist many risks for marriage.
05. Summary
Women, because they are eager to manage their marriage better, they have some bad habits that seem to be "shorts", but in fact, they are all her foresight.
A woman who loves her husband and family will rack her brains and strive to make this family full of more happiness and happiness.
At the same time, women will become "strong" and will not admit defeat and continue to strengthen themselves. Because women want to have more power and protect the people they want to protect.
Because women understand men's abilities, they become like to "restrain" them.
Actively encourage men to change their bad temper, learn more skills, keep pace with the times, burst out with new vitality, so that they can become a better self and have stronger competitiveness.
When women spend money, they become "stingy" and know how to save money. Don’t compare with others and live your own life well. When you meet such a wife, men should love her well, because she is very "prosperous".
In marriage, two people are attracted and supported by each other, and they will have a better life.
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Author: Xia Mo, a new emotional tutor, psychology scholar, a popular emotional writer on the entire network of over 1 billion, a happy woman manager, focusing on emotions, gender, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.
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