Zhejiang parents are unwilling to let their children marry out because they love their children too much and spoil their children without any bottom line. They are reluctant to let them stay away from their parents and cannot get careful care from their parents.
For example, my niece, I believe that in those families who prefer boys over girls, they will definitely be thorns in my mother-in-law's side, and life will definitely be in chaos.
niece 98, graduated from university and worked in a bank. I got a hand salary of more than 5,000 yuan in one month.
ate and live at home, work is close to home, there is no traffic jam, drive for about 10 minutes, and ride an electric bike for about 15 minutes. The unit has a canteen, and most breakfast and Chinese food will be eaten in the canteen. When it is raining and snowing or you don’t want to go to the cafeteria, you can eat breakfast at home, make it, order takeaway for lunch or make an appointment with colleagues and friends to go shopping.
On work days, parents will call you early. After getting up, as long as you wash yourself and warm water, you are ready. If you have breakfast at home, you will ask what you want to eat the night before. When she finishes washing, she can sit down and eat, the temperature is definitely just right. The keys, umbrellas, water cups, bags, etc. must have been placed in the foyer.
Days of driving, dad will go down early and drive the car to the door. After the inspection, the air conditioner will turn on in advance. She just needs to go down from the upper floor and start by igniting the fire directly.
The weather is bad, and my father will drive to pick him up. On the days when riding an electric bike, my dad would wait for her to come back, check the car and charge it. In winter, tie to block the wind and , and in summer, hang sunshade cloth to scrub the car.
will be waiting downstairs to go home at night, look at the parking space on the ground in advance, and you don’t have to go to the basement if you park on the ground. Park the car and check it out.
Go home for supper. After taking a shower, the mother cleanses the bathroom, washes the clothes and shoes, collects clean clothes and organizes them.
All living expenses are for parents, including all daily necessities and toiletries. Every month, aunt towels and are prepared by mothers.
All the expenses that require payment, such as nine-price, car insurance, maintenance, etc., are paid by parents. New Year’s money, holidays, birthdays, and red envelopes.
Her salary is at your own discretion. For example, order takeout, drink milk tea, drink coffee, buy some favorite accessories, buy clothes, shoes and no bags, go shopping with friends and classmates, go out for travel, give small gifts to elders, and refuel the car. These things are basically borne by yourself.
parents never expect her to work, nor her salary. Even when she goes out for a trip and has dinner with people, she can still sponsor some.
There is no need for her to work at home, she tidy up her own room, and her mother is silently reorganizing and cleaning. Even if it is a courier, it is basically the one that my father helps to get it. Anyway, all the things that require running errands are daddy running errands happily.
How can a child like this who is loved by all his parents be relieved and how can he let her get along with others if he is not by his parents?
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