People should be honest with each other. Friends are the people who accompany us to spend the rest of our lives, and they should trust each other without reservation. The selfish person in a marriage will one day hurt the other person's heart, and when the other person is completely disappointed, he will choose to leave.
A system after marriage, the wife's pregnancy and prenatal examination cost was half the cost, and she filed for divorce in anger. What is the reason for them to implement the AA system in their marriage? What made them go their separate ways? Let’s listen to Ms. Hu’s voice.
Ms. Hu/28 years old
When Yang Chu and I fell in love, I loved him so much that I couldn't extricate myself. Everything I saw in my eyes was his goodness, and even some small shortcomings were cute. Now that I think about it, I am really a girl with a love mind. I am not cautious about marriage. I think that as long as I marry someone I like, I will be happy all my life without considering various factors in reality.
Yang Chu is a colleague of a good friend of mine. We met and fell in love with each other during an outdoor activity on a picnic. Yang Chu is tall and handsome, with a very charming smile. He will be moved by a girl. When I saw Yang Chu for the first time, I was attracted by him. I looked at him unconsciously when I was camping and found an opportunity to talk to him.
Yang Chu is a handsome guy, and I am also a good-looking girl. Sparks sparked when our eyes were paired. When he was in formal love, Yang Chu proposed the AA system. At that time, I didn't think Yang Chu was stingy at all, but instead felt that his thoughts were keeping pace with the times. After all, AA system is popular among young people nowadays.
Maybe I loved him so much at that time, and I felt that everything he said was right. Even when he proposed the AA system, he thought he was a unique young man. Besides, I have income myself, so I don’t like to be a girl who relies on others. I hope Yang Chu’s impression is that I am financially independent and let him appreciate it.
Yang Chu and I have been in love for two years, and we have also reached the age of talking about marriage. Meeting the right person at the right time is a natural thing to get married. After we got married, Yang Chu still asked us to implement the AA system as we did when we were in love, which I never expected.
1 Falling together can break up at any time, and the AA system is fair to each other. But marriage is about combining two people who had no relationship together to form a family, and the two of them jointly manage the family. The implementation of the AA system between husband and wife makes the two of them look very different, they are petty and have no warm feeling.
I have opposed Yang Chu's request, but what he brought out was the same when he was in love. I communicated with him many times, but in the end I found that no matter what I said, it was useless because he had already made a decision. He did not come to discuss it with me, but just notified me.
I want Yang Chu to change his long-standing idea. If we live together for a long time, the two people are inseparable. The family will not be so clear over time. The AA system will definitely be incomplete. But I overestimated Yang Chu's stubbornness. He really implemented the AA system to the end after marriage.
Maybe it’s because I’m a little used to implementing the AA system with him when I was in love. It’s not too difficult for me to implement the AA system after marriage, but I just feel a little uncomfortable. I became pregnant in the third year of marriage and we will soon become a family of three. I look forward to the arrival of a new life, and perhaps our home will usher in new changes and become happier and happier.
When I first went to the hospital for prenatal examination, Yang Chu accompanied me.My husband accompanied me to the hospital for prenatal examination. Yang Chu also seemed very considerate throughout the process. I felt a little happiness in my heart, but this little happiness was soon broken. During the prenatal examination in the hospital, Yang Chu went to pay the fee. When we just came out of the hospital and returned to the car, Yang Chu took out the payment form and asked me to transfer half of the money to him.
is AA again! We didn’t have children before, so it would be fine if we implemented the AA system. Do I have to calculate so clearly when I give birth to two children in the future? In fact, this is true, because it has been reflected during prenatal check-ups. I had a big fight with Yang Chu in the car, and what disappointed me was that he always thought he was not wrong.
I was so angry that I got out of the car and left in anger. Yang Chu didn't come to chase me either. I lived at a friend's house that night. The whole afternoon passed, and Yang Chu did not send a message to apologize to me, nor did he care about me. I couldn't help but transfer the money to him, and the amount was exactly half of the cost of the prenatal examination.
ridiculously I just sent it to Yang Chu and received it. Before that, I still hoped that the two of us would be able to reconcile as before. At the moment he received it, I finally understood that this man was selfish and he loved only himself. He was not a person who could give me happiness. After listening to the opinions of many relatives and friends, I finally decided not to do so and divorce Yang Chu.
Relatives and friends are right. A man is not willing to raise his wife and children, so what can he give his wife and children happiness? Living with such a man hurts the woman's heart and the child's growth. I have already foreseeed what a miserable life would be like if Yang Chu and I had a child. I decided to end this wrong marriage and leave this wrong man.
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