The interviewee in this issue: Lan Xie ( Note: This is a pseudonym. If there is any similarity, please do not mind )
Lan Xie, female, 40 years old, high school education, housewife, has two sons, 18 years of marriage, and 18 years of cheating history.
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After the interview phone was connected, Lan Xie spoke very frankly and revealed his long-buried privacy. The content was so hot that it thundered the reporter.
Lan Xie: "I am 40 years old this year, and I have been married for 18 years. I have been dating 15 men. They are all older than me, and some are even more than a round. I know very well that they are basically for my young and energetic body. We need each other and are very equal."
Lan Xie has her own values and does not think that she is self-deprecating.
She admitted: "I am not hungry and I don't want any man. I only look for uniformed men, such as military men. I like this kind of men, and I admire them very much, and I like it very much."
The online communication between strangers made Lan Xie feel very relaxed. She was scruples and took the initiative to expose her privacy.
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Recently, Lan Xie has a new trouble: she desperately wants to give birth to a new man she has known for a short time, just because the other party claims to be a military person. Although she had made a decision, she was still a little nervous, which was the biggest reason why she agreed to the reporter for an interview.
Lan Xie: "He is a military man, major, a few years older than me, tall and handsome. I love him very much. We are in harmony with each other, very harmonious. I have fallen in love with him deeply. I want to give birth to him to commemorate our love."
reporter was confused: "You already have two children, why do you still have to give birth?"
Lan Xie said: "The two children now belong to my husband, not his. I just want to give birth to him now, and I am not afraid of giving up my life."
reporter: "What if your husband finds out?"
Lan Xie answered firmly: "That's not afraid. I have made plans to leave the house with purse. By then, the two children are now left to my husband's family, and I will not take either of them. They are 12 years old and the other one At the age of 5, he can take care of himself. "
reporter: "But - did he promise to marry that man? "
Lan Xie actually questioned the reporter: "You think too realistically. There is no secular issues between me and him, only love. I gave birth to him for pure love."
reporter kindly reminded her: "But having children is a realistic problem."
Lan Xie: "His wife cannot give birth, and his family will be broken. I feel sorry for him and can't help but give birth to him. If he doesn't want to marry me in the future, it must be unwilling. He must have his own difficulties, and I will not blame him."
After hearing this, the reporter was speechless.
Lan Xie: "I have thought about it all. If not, I will live near his home with my child. As long as he can come to see us frequently."
was silent for a moment. The reporter suppressed his contempt and asked her: "Have you decided?"
Lan Xie: "Not yet. I am here to ask you for help. Please help me investigate him and see if everything about him is true."
reporter was speechless again.
Lan Xie sent a set of personal information, which contained the man's name and ID number. He claimed to be a major military officer, active duty, and was from a well-known and populous province on the bank of the Yellow River.
She whispered and begged the reporter: "Please help me to check if what he said is true."
Reporter: "Sorry, we don't have the authority to check other people's identity information, and we can't find it."
Lan Xie: "Help help. As long as you find out that he didn't lie to me, I will give birth to him immediately."
actually doesn't need to check at all. Judging by common sense, Lan Xiao must be fake when he met this so-called major.Active-duty personnel have strict discipline and military marriages are protected by law. How could they hunt for romance outside and dare to find someone to have an illegitimate child?
reporter kindly reminded Lan Xie not to be deceived, but as soon as he was halfway through, Lan Xie interrupted us and said very firmly: "He definitely won't lie to me. He didn't lend me money, and he didn't take any advantage of me. There is pure love between us. I love him wholeheartedly, and I took the initiative to give birth to a baby for him. He was very moved when he heard this and said that if I was really pregnant, he would find a way to divorce and marry me."
reporter was speechless, not knowing how to persuade this middle-aged woman who was addicted to cheating, enjoyed it, and was obsessed with it.
The reporter was very confused: What did this married housewives who are keen on cheating and are constantly hunting for beauty?
Among the many people interviewed, Lan Xie performed very positively. She trusted us unconditionally. After a while of conversation, she took the initiative to send a photo of her youth to the reporter - of course, it was through a certain level of PS. Lan Xie in the photo
is an ordinary woman who can't be found if she falls into the crowd. Height is 160, slightly plump. On her dark-skinned round face, she was wearing a pair of glasses abruptly, which made her face look strange.
Lan Xie said: "Actually, I am not myopic, I just like to wear top-up glasses. This makes me look elegant."
She looks as simple as a village woman, not like a frivolous woman who is uneasy at the room. But it was this seemingly kind woman who refused to remain calm for a moment and was always ready to move inside, searching everywhere outside the siege of marriage and looking for excitement everywhere. As long as she hasn't gone out for food for a while, she will become anxious and lose her temper with her children and family.
From the several sets of photos she sent one after another, it can be seen that all her secrets were exposed to her eyes. Her eyes were slickering, and she showed a prominent appearance on her simple and honest face.
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interviews with Lan Xie are always intermittent because she needs to go out for dates from time to time, and often go to the hotel to make an appointment as she talks. Therefore, our interviews are sometimes changed to text communication: the reporter leaves her a message, and she mostly chooses to reply voicely, so there will be more content in this way.
Another thing is that she is very confident in her voice and regards it as one of the weapons to conquer men. The sweetness that was not consistent with her age when she spoke helped her to trap several men.
In order to prove that what she said is true, Lan Xie sent a photo of her prey that she was more proud of.
photos were taken ten years ago and were taken on a train. In the photo, Lan Xierong was radiant and hugged a man intimately, both of them smiling.
Before the interview, the reporter agreed with Lan Xie that he would not post real photos of her in the article. She still mosaiced the man's eyes, saying that she was worried that if the man's original wife would get angry when she saw it.
The man looked rough and savage, and even though he grinned, he still couldn't cover his fierce and vulgar appearance. But Lan Xie disagreed and specifically emphasized that he likes this kind of tough guy.
She giggled on the phone, "I just like him using brute force. As long as he doesn't dislike me, I won't leave him. I will arrive anytime, anytime."
Before the reporter could answer, she immediately sighed and said, "What a pity, he died. If he didn't die, I would never leave him. I will stay with him until old age."
This man who has had three relationships with Lan Xie was addicted to alcoholism and died five years ago in a traffic accident caused by drunk driving in .
Lan Xie never forgets him, and wrote down the details of the three dates of the two, and saves them in QQ space .
In order to prove that she was not bragging, she proudly sent a screenshot of one of the texts for reporters to appreciate.
Those words are unbearable to read.
18 In her marriage, Lan Xie never regarded marriage as a cage. She was as free as the wind and had no scruples. She had all got the 15 affair men she cheated on and tried hard to get it.
Lan Xie: "They are not ordinary men. They are excellent and picky. They are not very interested in me at the beginning, and they are so arrogant and cannot be slapped. I am very honest and do not lie. I communicate truthfully every time. But after they see my photos, they stop talking. They don't reply to call or send messages. If I ask a few more questions, they blocked me."
Lan Xie's so-called excellent men are actually scammers who do nothing and are idle, and they specialize in coaxing middle-aged women online. They pretend to be noble identities, but they are actually just hunting for beauty. They know very well that most women of this group and age group have weak relationships with their husbands, are lonely and lonely, and are eager to "love".
Just as the reporter was stunned, Lan Xie sent another text. As soon as she opened her mouth, no one could stop her.
Lan Xie: "I don't mind the attitude of men. Whether they are cold or enthusiastic, they can be. I like to take the initiative and conquer. As long as the man I like, the more annoyed me, the more I like him. If I am blocked, I will change the number and continue chasing him. If I don't want to pay attention to me, I will wait patiently, send him a message every day, and will reply to me when he is in a good mood. Then we will continue."
reporter: "What if he ignores you?"
Lan Xie: "No. As long as it is the man I want to take, I will not let it go easily. I am very stupid, and I will have a way: to entangle and linger. After a long time, they won’t take the bait. ”
Reporter: “It seems that men can’t stand women taking the initiative? ”
Lan Xie: “Yes! There is a man that is the hardest to chew. I took three years to get him down. We still have contacts. Men are the same. The more the first man is, the more he is with me, the more he sticks to me. I will let them understand what real enjoyment is. I will satisfy their requirements and never refuse them. Who told me to like them! Men are not stupid, they are not stupid, they are tempted to taste, and after tasting them, they all beg me in turn. ”
After the hard-earned beauty hunting success, Lan Xie felt very proud. She showed off to reporters that two of the men had maintained extramarital relationships with her for nearly ten years and are still continuing.
The simple housewife Lan Xie is obviously an experienced female Neptune.
Lan Xie: "Do you think it's fun? I've cheated for so many years, and my husband and in-laws have never discovered it once. The men I played with are not known at home."
reporter: "Then how did you do it so well and leave no flaws?"
Lan Xie smiled proudly: "It's not that magical. I'm honest, and they thought I'm really honest. Besides, I just went outside to try something, and did what I should do when I go home, and it didn't delay raising children and housework."
reporter: "Where did you know so many men who share your interests with you?"
about where to find the right prey? Lan Xie said she has nearly 20 years of practical experience. She will find and develop new goals through some special channels. Once she wanted something, she rushed forward desperately, chasing and tangling again and again until she took the man down.
Lan Xie: "I'm all in XX and I found on XX, there are many men who are irritated in my heart, and I can’t count them. I used to use a computer, but now I use a mobile phone, and my family can’t find it. "
reporter: "So you are also flying outside, but the flag at home is not falling?"
Lan Xie giggled: "I was awarded more than awards. At first I was worried, but later I found that worrying was unnecessary, and there was no need to be afraid of anything. At worst, I was caught and divorced. In recent years, I am getting more and more courageous, and sometimes I even deliberately hint my husband, saying that I am someone outside. But he doesn't believe it at all, and he is also provoking me. My husband doesn't know if it's numb or not, but he never understands it. Anyway, he never doubts me."
reporter: "Isn't that good? It's conducive to family unity."
Lan Xie suddenly got angry: "Not good at all, I feel insulted. I'm not the kind of person who is scheming, and I accidentally exposed my feet several times.But my husband still didn't notice it. Sometimes when I get angry, I will deliberately go outside to find more men and use this to counterattack my husband. "
at the end, she sighed again and said, "In fact, there is no question of revenge." I don't love my husband, I can't love you. The deepest relationship between me and him was to marry him and have two children. I'm worthy of him enough. He only knows how to make money and has no interest at all. But you must not sympathize with him, because no matter how much money he makes, I can't get it. ”
18 years ago, Lan Xie, 22, willingly married into a family in the suburbs of Beijing.
Her husband's family has been engaged in waste business for three generations. Don't be too conspicuous. The income is very high, the cost is low, and the profit is high. The only disadvantage is that he is hard and tired.
In order to inherit his ancestral business, her husband stopped studying after graduating from junior high school and followed his father to collect waste. In a few years, he expanded the original waste collection territory of the family several times.
Lan Xie was restless before marriage and had a wide relationship. After marriage, she looked down on Xiao Wang, despised his whole family, and especially hated her mother-in-law.
The smart mother-in-law controlled all the income of the waste factory and distributed it to her for a certain life every month. The fee allows her to take care of her two children at home. The living expenses are not high, but not low. They will not make her tight, but they will never give her the opportunity to save money for private money.
Mother-in-law uses the money to control Lan Xie to avoid being unfaithful to her son.
Lan Xie laughed proudly: My mother-in-law thought she was smart! I did so many things on her back, she didn't know at all.
At the end of this interview, Lan Xie defined her behavior : "I am not a bad woman. I am born with romance, fantasizing about perfect love, and hope that my life is as exciting and romantic as a prince and princess. But my husband can't give me these things. I can't treat myself badly. "
Before hanging up the phone, Lan Xie asked the reporter for help again: Please help me check his background.
About her story, the reporter is still paying attention to...
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