Preface:
Don’t listen to the old man’s words and suffer losses. We always disdain for what the old man said in the past!
Later, after we experienced some things, we couldn't help but say this: Ginger is still so spicy!
I have to say that after we suffer losses, we will regret not listening to what our elders say!
Let’s talk about the meaning of “a man is innocent and a woman is arrogant and a woman is unwilling to be a mother”!
Men have no ambitions at home
In real life, I wonder if you have found it?
There is such a kind of man, a typical good man, who is the "good guy" in the eyes of others. He is very popular in the circle of friends, parties, or in the workplace. Everyone likes him very much because he is easy to talk and has no temper!
Even if he suffers grievances and angers outside, he is particularly able to tolerate it because he knows that people outside cannot offend, quarrels will fight, and may even be fired and unemployed!
So you can only endure all your grievances, so what should you do if you have nowhere to vent?
This is why he is "straight" at home, because there is nowhere to vent his emotions!
But as long as he returns home, he becomes another face!
If the parents speak a little less, they pretend not to hear it!
If his parents nag a little, he will be particularly impatient!
If the child is a little noisy, I wish the child would stay away from him!
If the food cooked by my wife is not good, he will be full of disgust and give him a look!
If the family hygiene is not well done, you will feel that your wife can’t even do some housework with her!
Even my attitude towards my brothers and sisters is very bad!
Why does
have this mentality?
Because he feels that his parents are his closest people, his wife is the closest people, his children are the people he gave birth to, his brothers and sisters and his compatriots, no matter what his attitude is? These people will tolerate him, even if there is a fight today, they will be a family tomorrow!
This is why men are "straightened" at home! Because the family will tolerate him unconditionally, this tolerance also seems to be a kind of indulgence!
Women have no ambitions in their parents’ home and think that their parents’ home
There is a saying that when a woman gets married, she can’t walk into her in-laws’ home, and she can’t go back to her parents’ home!
seems to make sense, but it is not!
Nowadays, this society is equal to men and women . Unlike women in the past, they can only wash clothes, cook and take care of their children at home!
Nowadays women can also start a business, and they can make money by finding a job, and some women even make more money than men!
Let’s imagine a woman who is particularly able to make money, dresses up with a decent look and can still buy a family business for her family. Are she still afraid that she will not be able to enter her husband’s house? This kind of woman in-laws must like her very much!
Even if we can’t get into our in-laws’ home, we can buy a house by ourselves and organize our own new home!
Let’s think about it again, is a woman who is particularly able to make money, still afraid that she will not be able to go back to her parents’ home?
If we can make money, during the Chinese New Year and the holidays, the big ones will be very happy every time they go back to their parents’ homes, bringing some good cigarettes, wine, milk, and fruits.
If we bring some gifts to our parents’ nephew and sister-in-law, we will probably have a different attitude. We must be very enthusiastic!
It can be seen from this that as long as we women have the ability and ambition, they are popular wherever we go. Once we rely on others, everyone will really dislike them, and maybe even ourselves will despise them!
Conclusion:
I am a woman, I can understand the meaning of this sentence too much!
So women, no matter when and where, we must work, and don’t give up the opportunity to work. As long as we have the opportunity, we will learn, improve ourselves, and give ourselves a little confidence!
Let’s not overly rely on men.
It is a good thing for someone to feel sorry for him. No one can only rely on himself.
If others have a bigger roof, it’s better to have an umbrella yourself!
In this world, no one can become our safe haven, but we can!
No matter when and where,
Strong, hardworking, upward, sunny,
Maintain economic independence, independent personality, and dominate my life. I am the master of my life! Come on, female compatriots!
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