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I am Ye Feifei yff, a non-famous emotional instructor, who writes heart-wrenching emotional texts, hoping to bring you some spiritual comfort with warm words.
The relationship between middle-aged women is very mature and rational, and will not rashly develop relationships with the opposite sex.
Even if they accidentally have feelings for the opposite sex, they know how to weigh and will not lose themselves.
On the one hand, middle-aged women have given too much to their family and are unwilling to let go. Although they are ambiguous with other opposite sex, they always care about their family.
On the other hand, middle-aged women will not easily believe in external feelings. They are mostly just looking for something new, or they are eager to be comforted, so that men can relieve their boredom and protect their spiritual trauma.
Therefore, even if they have an extramarital affair, they may not necessarily let go of their families and stay with other opposite sex forever.
Women at this stage have long experienced the tempering of emotions and life, have matured their minds, and have learned to make choices, so that they will no longer be obsessed with things that are not good for themselves.
So, will middle-aged women return to their families if they have an "extramarital affair"? These two married women told the truth.
1. Ms. Zhao: No matter how beautiful the relationship outside is, I will never give up my family
Ms. Zhao is 45 years old. She has been married to her husband for 17 years. Her relationship has always been stable and she lives a happy life.
Originally, she wanted to live a good life with her husband, but by chance, she met her former first love. The two chatted for a while and added friends to each other, which broke the peaceful life.
Ms. Zhao chats with her first love if she has something to do. As the relationship deepens, the relationship becomes closer and closer.
Furthermore, the two have been in love for more than a year before and have a foundation in love. This time they met, they were a little excited.
Soon after, the two of them dated privately, went out for dinner or watched a movie, and got along very happily.
Gradually, Ms. Zhao and her first love had a certain feeling, and finally, after watching the movie once, she accidentally had an intimate relationship.
Ms. Zhao said that she is a woman with a very positive outlook and never thought she would be sorry for her husband, so no matter how good the relationship outside, she would never give up her family.
In reality, there are many women like Ms. Zhao. Even if they fall into an extramarital relationship, they will not give up their family easily.
A woman like this has not lost her sense of responsibility, knows how to choose and knows what she wants.
Therefore, they will not be entangled outside. If there is a suitable opportunity, they will break off the relationship outside and return to their family.
Even if they can't stop for a while, they will care about their families, especially to their husbands, to make up for the guilt in their hearts.
For them, the feelings outside are just seasonings. Although they are beautiful and romantic, the true sense of happiness still depends on their family.
So, after they enter an extramarital affair, they will still return to their families, it is just a matter of time.
2. Ms. Lin: If my lover can give me happiness, I don’t want to return to
Ms. Lin is 41 years old. She has been married to her husband for thirteen years. She lives a tense life and has a relatively dull relationship.
My husband has no ability. He works in another place and his monthly salary is less than 8,000 yuan. Over the years, she feels very wronged at home and takes care of everything herself. She is very disappointed with her husband.
Therefore, when she met a man to tease her, she couldn't help but feel moved and had stronger expectations for love.
The man is in business, with a monthly income of about 100,000 yuan. He is very nice to her and is willing to give. He has paid about 70,000 yuan for her in less than a year of dating.
Moreover, the man has promised her that as long as she is willing to accept him, she is willing to be with her and give her a happy life.
Ms. Lin said that if her lover can really give her happiness, she doesn’t want to return and hopes to live a better life.
In fact, there are many women like Ms. Lin. They have endured too much grievance and pain in their marriage, hoping to meet a man who truly loves her.Most women like
do not receive the care of their original wife, or are disappointed with their marriage life, and feel that they cannot see the future.
Of course, there are also some women who act more materialistic and have never obtained anything in marriage, hoping to get it outside.
Therefore, when men outside can provide them with a richer life, they will lose themselves and fall into an extramarital affair.
However, they do not want to return to their families and may not be able to get real happiness, because in extramarital affairs, men rarely give their sincerity.
Especially after the relationship is exposed, women will definitely pay a huge price and will also affect their future life.
Yef yff emotional message:
Summary, if middle-aged women have "extramarital affair", they may have different choices for whether they will return to their families if they have "extramarital affair".
However, no matter what choice you make, it will have a huge impact on them. After all, the lack of morality will make them despise and criticize by others.
Furthermore, even middle-aged women who choose to return to their families will be uneasy in the days to come and will feel guilty towards their original wife throughout their lives.
They need to put in more energy than before, to manage their families and serve men, and they will be very physically and mentally exhausted.
And those middle-aged women who do not return to their families cannot be smooth sailing. Even if they want to withdraw from their original marriage, they are not going to leave at will, and they may pay a heavy price.
In their future lives, they may also suffer from their lover's criticism and face the risk of being abandoned again.
Because, how can a man cherish a woman who betrays his marriage?
So, I hope that the middle-aged woman in reality will not have any fantasies about extramarital affair. At all times, we must abide by the bottom line of loyalty. This is the awareness that adults should have.
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