Regarding marriage, many people always feel that as long as they get married, they will be the other person's partner, and everything will be over.
However, marrying someone is never the end, but it is just the beginning.
becomes a person's partner, which means that he has become a qualified partner, but he just has such an identity, and this identity is not constant.
That’s right, getting into marriage is never the first step. Next, there are many things that everyone needs to do.
Only when one person can do it well can the marriage become happy and he can become a qualified partner.
will have the chance to stay by the other party’s side all the time, and will not lose the other party just because you do not do too badly.
. How to do it and how to play this role well requires us to have a certain bottom line, and we also need to manage this relationship well, work hard and give.
is loyal and has no behavior that should not be done.
Even if you get married, there are always people who don’t know how to keep their family well.
believes that human nature is to be greedy for the new and get tired of the old. There is no need to just guard one person.
Even if you don’t have such an idea and don’t obviously do something to sorry to the other person, you are always unconscious behind the scenes and often like to be ambiguous with the opposite sex, not knowing it, and chatting about some things that are not.
Some people regard this as nature and think it is a normal thing. They also think that many people are willing to get close to them and like themselves, which means they are very charming. However, such behavior is never supposed to be.
Fellowship is a matter between two people. In the world of love, it can only accommodate two people. When you are single, you can have more contact with the opposite sex. Once you are with one person, no matter who is good, you should only remain dedicated and always abide by your duty.
is loyal to your partner, actively keep a distance from other opposite sex, and refuse directly when other opposite sex approaches, and do not act any overwhelming. This is not a dedication, but something that everyone should at least do. Only in this way can the relationship between
be more stable and the minimum guarantee will be achieved.
Otherwise, there will always be other people involved, which will seem abnormal and life will not be able to survive at all.
works hard to take responsibility for the affairs at home.
got married to a person. He had already formed a family, but some people were still very lazy.
is always lazy and just live a life of mercy. He never knows to take responsibility for his family.
There are still people who always have an idea in their minds, thinking that from then on, they will be worry-free, and the other party will help them take on everything, and will solve it for themselves, such as supporting themselves and handling big and small matters at home.
, whether it is ignored or just trying to rely on the other party, this is actually wrong.
Whether it is a man or a woman, each other has an obligation to be responsible to the family and share the burden with each other.
does not necessarily have to make money to support the family, do housework, and all the things are distributed equally. Instead, we should make a good division of labor based on each other's actual situation and find a state where we can live peacefully with each other and feel relatively relaxed.
The two of them work together to support each other, and make this family better, both at the material and spiritual level than before, and make each other more satisfied.
Getting married is not to find trouble for yourself and make your life worse, nor to find a safe haven for yourself. You just want to hide from the wind, but to think that they are good and to create a harbor that belongs to each other and a small world that belongs to each other.
can speak well and resolve problems together. All relationships with
inevitably have various contradictions.
Many marriages have bad relationships with each other. In fact, it is not that they are not so inappropriate to each other. They have no feelings for each other. In fact, they are not dealt with when problems arise.
cannot communicate well at all. He only knows how to vent his emotions and is unwilling to listen to the other party's voice. He only knows all kinds of accusations.
When one problem after another has never been properly resolved, the consequences will naturally accumulate more and more, which will deeply affect the relationship between each other, and the relationship will begin to become worse and worse, and they just feel very painful.
It is not so easy to get along with people after all. No one is born with someone who is particularly suitable for anyone.
Everyone has a temper and always lets go of their temper. It is difficult to become a good lover.
Want marriage to be more harmonious and qualified. After getting married, everyone needs to control their emotions, learn to communicate well with each other, and give themselves the ability to solve problems.
can solve the problem. Only when the relationship between each other will not be affected all the time, nor will it continue to go downhill. Instead, you can always be more clear about the other party’s demands and thoughts. In the contradictions again and again, you can gradually find a balance.
A qualified partner, loyalty is a must, you must keep yourself clean and keep your body and mind well.
must also be responsible for this family, undertake financial responsibility, undertake housework, take care of the elderly, raise children, etc.
After that, you should also restrain your temper, treat the other person well, and communicate with each other more.
Marriage is a choice and a responsibility. Since you have made a choice, you must take responsibility for it and take more responsibility.
Becoming a qualified partner seems to be for the other party to make the other party feel more comfortable. In fact, it is also for yourself, while achieving the other party, you also achieve yourself.
After all, if the other party is unhappy and unhappy, the family will not be peaceful at all, and I actually won’t be able to do it either.
Only when the other party loves this family very much and thinks that everything is worth it, can everyone gain something and have happiness.
text/Tan Meng
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