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I am Ye Feifei yff, a non-famous emotional instructor, who writes heart-wrenching emotional texts, hoping to bring you some spiritual comfort with warm words.
"Buyiju" writes: "Who else can take care of who will take care of whom for the rest of his life nowadays is such a heavy burden. So you must be independent."
Indeed, women should not depend on men at any time, but should know how to invest in themselves and become a better self.
When you have a strong heart and have enough confidence to live, you will not be disappointed in your relationship.
Because, you have a certain amount of capital and strong abilities, and you don’t need to rely on men to live.
Whenever you see a man treating you badly, you can leave as soon as you say it, and you can live a better life.
A woman cannot regard men as a supporter, especially women after marriage. They must have the ability to be independent, which is your true sense of security.
If you entrust your life to a man and look forward to letting him support you for the rest of your life, the final outcome will be very tragic.
Therefore, visionary women often know how to invest in these three things in themselves and will not rely on men.
1. Time: A woman who can control time will not be bad luck
A woman’s youth is not long, and she must force herself to become better in a limited time.
When you spend your time on yourself and actively work hard to improve yourself, you will transform one day, and then you will have stronger charm.
Some women have a bad mentality and always fantasize about finding a rich man, then falling in love with him and living a happy life.
In fact, this idea is too naive. Excellent men will not find a woman with no connotation and vain.
Therefore, women should put aside those unrealistic ideas and not waste time, but seize every minute and actively improve themselves.
When you put your time and energy into yourself, works quietly and settles quietly, and one day you will reap what you want. Become a charming woman.
In this way, if you become excellent, your luck will naturally not be bad. Not only will your work be smoother, but your love will also be smoother, and men will cherish you more.
2. Economy: Working hard to make money is the greatest confidence for a woman
The best state for a woman, is to live with your heart and make money with your efforts .
No matter when, you must work hard, make more money, save more, and make your economic foundation stronger.
Only in this way can you not rely on men, and you will not be without dignity in front of men, and be able to live out your own confidence.
A woman with no money has little value in the eyes of men. Even if they love you very much, it is difficult for them to cherish you.
Because men are fickle. Once they have no sense of freshness to you, they will shift their goals and find a better woman than you.
At that time, you have no economic foundation and no independent ability, you will be looked down upon by men and lose the dignity you deserve.
Furthermore, if you are with a man, if you don’t have money, you will always ask for money from the man, and you will become humble.
When you lose your status and lose your due dignity, you cannot feel happy.
Because men will not cherish you, but instead think you are a burden, look down on you everywhere, and it is useless to dislike you.
They will not give you the happiness you want. They will always speak coldly to you, or even deliberately alienate you, which will make you feel wronged.
So, women must work hard to make money and give themselves a strong economic foundation. This is your true confidence .
Only by making yourself more independent, not seeking men in the economy, and being fully capable of living your own life, can you make men respect you and thus have your own dignity.
3. Thoughts: Precipitate rich connotations
The true temperament of a woman is not about her appearance, but about having thoughts, vision, and rich connotations.
The premise of "time is invincible to beauty" is that you first improve yourself and accumulate a rich life, so that you can exude a unique temperament and become a charming woman in a man's heart.
To put it realistically, a man must have a beautiful appearance when he sees a woman for the first time, but a woman who truly makes men cherish her life must have rich connotations.
Only when women know how to invest in their own thoughts and enrich their inner self can they become better.
When you have an elegant temperament and inner cultivation, you will naturally attract excellent men and be cherished by men for the rest of your life.
The true charm of women is not supported by appearance, but by connotation. Your thoughts determine your vision and pattern, and it is also a capital for men to look up to.
Therefore, a woman can be independent in her thoughts and rich in connotation, and can live out herself and reap the happiness she wants.
Ye Feifei yff Emotional Message:
In summary, a visionary woman knows how to invest in these three things in herself:
Time: A woman who can control time will not have bad luck; economy: working hard to make money is the greatest confidence for a woman; thoughts: precipitate rich connotations.
A truly smart woman will invest in herself in these aspects and make herself more attractive.
They will not rely on men, but have achieved dual independence of spirit and economy, and their bodies exuded an elegant and calm atmosphere. Women like
have a strong pattern, know how to choose, and will love themselves well, but they will be loved by men.
I hope you will become such a woman, dominate your own life, and live out the dignity of a woman.
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Author: Ye Feifei yff, focusing on creation and sharing in the field of emotions, communicating your and my heart with emotions, I hope you and I will know each other here. If you like it, please follow me.
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