In this role, the most important relationship is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. If the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law gets along well, then the family will be peaceful. If the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-

Introduction

It is said that family is happy and everything goes well. If a family wants to live in harmony, it is closely related to every member of the family. Each member plays a different role, but their role is indispensable. Therefore, they need to do their best to do what they should do in their role and fulfill their obligations to fulfill.

. In this role, the most important relationship is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. If the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law gets along well, then the family will be peaceful. If the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is handled poorly, then the family will be in chaos and will never have peace.

Reorganized family

Xiao Qi and Yanyan both divorced before, and then came together after being introduced by an acquaintance.

Yanyan and her ex-husband met at the dinner table. At that time, they had a common friend who got married. The two of them were invited to attend the wedding. Because the friend and they both knew each other, they arranged them at the same table.

Because Yanyan and the bride have a very good relationship and are her best friend, there are friends on the groom who deliberately come over to worship Yanyan's wine. However, Yanyan usually drinks less, so she is embarrassed when facing the toasts from her friends on the groom.

Because marriage is a lifelong event, if she doesn’t drink the wine toasted by her friends on the groom, she will be too dissatisfied with the groom’s face. If she doesn’t give the groom a face, it means she will not give the bride’s face.

But the bride is her good friend and best friend, so she has to drink this glass of wine no matter what. When she closed her eyes and pursed her lips to drink the glass of wine, her glass was suddenly taken away by one person.

At that time, she subconsciously opened her eyes. She wanted to see who snatched her wine glass, but the moment she opened her eyes, she found that her wine glass was holding on the hand of a boy on her right hand, and that boy was her ex-husband Xiaojun.

At that time, Xiaojun drank all the wine glasses, and the groom's friend who came to toast mistakenly thought that Xiaojun was Yanyan's boyfriend, and they all applauded, saying that she had a good boyfriend.

also said she should have said earlier that her boyfriend had come with her, so that everyone would not toast her, but toast her boyfriend's wine. When everyone said this, Yanyan's face turned red.

She didn't know the boy in front of her at all. They just happened to be assigned to a table for dinner, but she didn't expose it at that time. She was afraid that if she said it out loud, everyone would toast her again.

So after eating the whole wedding banquet, Xiaojun helped Yanyan block a lot of wine. Later Yanyan was particularly grateful to Xiaojun. She felt that Xiaojun was particularly responsible and very masculine, so the two of them were able to get married a year later.

After marriage, Yanyan also successfully conceived Xiaojun's child. At that time, the whole family was immersed in the joy of happiness. Yanyan originally thought that her life would continue to be happy, but she didn't expect that when their son turned two, Xiaojun cheated.

Xiaojun's cheating was an accident. He lost his composure after drinking and had a one-night stand with another woman. The woman behind him was pregnant because the woman had to take responsibility, so he finally considered it again and again and chose to divorce Yanyan and leave the house with nothing.

Although Yanyan had a lot of feelings for him at the time, she could not forgive him for cheating, so she finally agreed to the divorce. After the divorce, she took her son to live with her.

A few years after the divorce, Yanyan's mother advised her to find another one. Her mother felt that it was very hard for a woman to take care of her children, and she still needed a man to help her.

actually doesn't want to look for her, but she wants to give her son a complete family. After all, her son is still young, so later, under the introduction of an acquaintance, she met Xiao Qi, who was also divorced, and he had a daughter.

Because everyone has had the same failed marriage, the two of them felt particularly touched when they met and could understand each other very much because they were quite pleasing to each other, so they got together later.

Mother-in-law is partial

After Yanyan and Xiaoqi got married, Yanyan took her son to live with Xiaoqi's house. Because Yanyan's son and Xiaoqi's daughter were about the same age, the two of them got along well usually and had never quarreled. Xiao Qi felt that they should have their own child, because their current pair of children were the children born from their previous marriage, not the biological flesh and blood of the two of them.

Yanyan also agreed with his opinion, so she actively prepared for pregnancy with him. Yanyan soon became pregnant. At that time, their family was very happy, and Yanyan also felt that she finally had a child of her own with Xiaoqi, and she felt very satisfied.

But just when she was three months pregnant, she had an argument with her mother-in-law. This was the case at that time.

After Yanyan and Xiaoqi got married, Xiaoqi's former daughter was also taken care of by Yanyan. Although Yanyan was not her biological mother, she was also trying her best to fulfill her responsibilities as a stepmother.

Usually, Yanyan is also disciplined in her studies. When Yanyan was checking her homework that day, she found that she had many wrong questions, so she said something to her, asking her to correct her learning attitude in the future and do her homework well.

Because Yanyan usually speaks loudly, she may have raised the volume slightly that day, but her mother-in-law thought Yanyan was scolding her granddaughter, so she rushed in angrily and pushed Yanyan one by one. Fortunately, Yanyan reacted in time and supported the table with her hands.

Otherwise, her belly would hit the corner of the table and would inevitably have an abortion, because she was three months pregnant at this time. Yanyan felt particularly wronged at that time and said that she did not scold her mother-in-law's granddaughter, but was just educating her to do her homework well.

And she also said at that time that she was three months pregnant, how could her mother-in-law push her? But her mother-in-law felt that pregnancy was not an excuse. She felt that Yanyan just couldn't bully her granddaughter.

Yanyan was very sad when she heard this. In fact, her mother-in-law is very partial to Xiao Qi and his ex-wife's daughter. She usually asks her granddaughter to eat and play first, and she doesn't think she has a grandson.

In fact, Yanyan is very open-minded about these things. After all, her son was not born with Xiao Qi, but now she is pregnant with Xiao Qi's flesh and blood. Unexpectedly, her mother-in-law is still so careless about her, and even a little cruel.

So she was particularly resentful towards her mother-in-law. And when she had an argument with her mother-in-law that day, Xiao Qi was also at home. At that time, Xiao Qi knew that his mother had a quarrel with her wife, but he did not come forward to help her wife. When Yanyan complained to him later, he actually said, "Don't you have a miscarriage yet? What are you yelling about? My daughter is young, it's wrong for you to talk to her so loudly. I think my mother did nothing wrong."

After hearing Xiao Qi say this, Yanyan was particularly sad. At this time, she realized that the whole family only loves Xiao Qi's daughter, and they don't care about her son and the children she is pregnant in her belly at all. Later, Yanyan took her son back to her parents' home angrily and filed for divorce with Xiaoqi. No matter how Xiaoqi persuaded her later, it would be useless.

Mediation

In fact, Xiao Qi still wanted to continue living with Yanyan, because Yanyan was pregnant with his flesh and blood after all, and he really had no choice but to ask the mediator to help them mediate.

can be mediated to the end, Yanyan still didn't want to forgive him. In fact, the most important thing is that she and her son, including the children in her belly, did not receive the respect they deserve in their family, and her mother-in-law was also very difficult to get along with.

so the mediation failed later.

is written at the end

I think Yanyan’s decision is correct. If such a man forgives him once, he will only have countless forgiveness and countless regrets. Divorce from him will stop the loss in time.

I feel that the reason why this mother-in-law is so arrogant is that this husband has not put his position in the right place and has not solved his wife in time. No matter who is right or wrong in the face of conflicts, in his eyes, his wife is wrong. If a husband like

is in any family, his life will be bad. I feel that the reason why his last marriage ended was probably because of his foolish filial piety that their relationship broke down and they eventually divorced.

Do you think Xiao Qi, as his husband, has fulfilled his obligations? Welcome to express your opinions!