Most boys unconsciously show some traits when dating girls. The former is used to meet emotional needs, while the latter is used to meet material needs.

Most boys unconsciously show some traits when dating girls. And these traits will cause girls to despise you. Let’s take a look at it for you:

1. Consequential traits

• Women will subconsciously divide men into lovers and consequents. The former is used to meet emotional needs, while the latter is used to meet material needs. A lover-type man is a man who has feelings in the mouth of a woman who is suitable for falling in love. A contributing man is a man who is suitable for marriage and maintains a long-term relationship. Combining these two types together is the ideal type in women's mind. Of course, ideals are full, but reality is very skinny. Many women can't find such a man at all. With this concept, many phenomena in emotions can be explained. A man who can only satisfy women's emotions but cannot provide material life. Long-term relationships will become increasingly difficult. This is why many college students break up just after graduation. If you can't meet the emotional needs of women, you have to make extra efforts to make the women compromise. And also accept the fact that she may not love you that much. When a man can only show that he has certain assets in front of a woman and is sincere but cannot make a woman's heart move, he will be classified as a donor. You must pay extra value for offerings so that women can be balanced and willing to be with you. When you are unable to provide the value of offering, the consequences are also obvious. Whatever you rely on to attract her, she will leave you because she loses such a thing.

2. Pleasant to a woman

• Never please or touch a woman. When you have this kind of thought, you are actually very weak inside. You feel that you are not worthy of her, so you have to pay extra to make up for it. Once your behavior is perceived by a girl, you don’t want to play with you very much. You will become a man who has no value in her eyes and can be controlled by any means. Even if your value is much higher than her, it will give her the illusion that you are not worthy of her. Your words are worthless, and your people are not worthless. This is human nature. Only a very small number of wise girls understand the qualities of sincerity and restraint. On the other hand, those scumbags, they look arrogant in front of girls, never please women, and even think they are weak. Of course we know that they are just blindly confident, but they give women the illusion that they are valuable. Then the woman got stuck in.

3. The demand is not equal

• A girl with a moderate condition is chasing her when she was in college, and the leader was chasing her just now. Their emotional intelligence is what they get when they are being pursued. And those Beta boys only have one girl in their eyes. You have not even had a single sign of your eight characters, so you must have her. Then you are finished. On the one hand, pursuing good love is to cultivate yourself, and on the other hand, you can meet the right person after casting a wide net, rather than relying on the death to fight. Don’t think that casting a net is a behavior of Neptune. You don’t make a promise to the other party, and you don’t take advantage of the situation. The two parties have no clear relationship. Then what's the point of keeping this moral arch? If you do this, it is not equal to the level of needs of girls. You are afraid of losing, and women are choosing the best. What are you using to attract her? Just like a rich and rich beauty invites a homeless man to have a meal. What a rich and rich beauty needs is love and a meal. A rich and rich man is really hungry and survive first and then talk about other things. This is called demand ambiguous.

above are the three points summarized, regardless of boys and girls, please avoid pitfalls.