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When you like someone and treat him as a very important person in your life, you will also especially hope that the other party will put you in the most important position in your heart. This is love, everything you give your whole heart for love, and hope to get corresponding rewards.
Most men really regard her as the only one when they first pursue the person they like. However, as time goes by, I have gradually understood her mysterious attraction, and the stage of sticking to you gradually begins to decline.
A man who truly loves you will know what kind of person you are in a long time dating with you and know how to accommodate you and tolerate you, because for him, when you enter his life, he is destined to be his love in this life.
In daily life, we can see whether he loves you from every detail. The more he loves you, the more he will care about every little detail he gets with you. Especially in terms of daily chat attitude.
When chatting, is he listening to you carefully
I believe that when many men first start pursuing you, every word they say to you must be remembered in their hearts as faith.
Actor Zhang RuoyunLove memos should be well known to many people because all the ones he wrote are about his wife.
He wrote on the memo: "1. She loves to eat cherries and smiles sweetly. 2. She likes to be alone and needs a little bird to rely on others. 3. She likes romance, but romance is not everything. Understanding her is more important than romance with her..."
All the contents are the contents of the two people who have been together for so many years. His wife Tang Yixin and his usual chats were listened seriously enough, so they were written one by one in the memo.
He was afraid that one day he would forget it, so he chose to record it. Whenever he opened it and saw it, he would remind him to love the man around him better.
The girl in "Love Memo" married Love. The boy who gave him time married this lover who could not be stolen. This is the best marriage.
If a man seems perfunctory and does not care at all when chatting with you every time, it means that he may not really care about you. The man who keeps you in his heart will listen to you patiently every time he chats with you. When chatting with
, can he have empathy with you
Can two people chat together without embarrassment, and they always feel that there are endless things to say, which means that they are attractive to each other and want to get close to each other.
Many women always say that they have no common topics or languages with each other when they are on blind dates, so they flatly refuse to continue to understand in depth.
Therefore, the union between men and women must be based on empathy. Because of love, that's what you need. There is a line lyrics that sings: "Loneliness is a carnival for one person, and carnival is a loneliness for a group of people."
Only those who can empathize will get together. In love, when two people always empathize with some issues or views on certain things, and meet each other too late and appreciate each other, they will not feel bored.
In "If You Are the One", a mentor said: "When a lover encounters problems, it is especially necessary for the empathy of his partner. Having the ability to empathize is called falling in love."
What is empathy? Even if you are happy, I can also feel your happiness; if you are unhappy, I can also feel your unhappiness. This is what it means to be in love.
On the contrary, if you feel very happy about something, but he ignores you, you are sad, but he thinks you are too pretentious, and such feelings are destined not to last.
Because there is no basic empathy between the two. If everyone can experience the other person's emotions from the other person's perspective and empathize with each other when encountering problems, it will make them more harmonious.
When chatting, is his attitude friendly and friendly
When a man chats with you, he always looks impatient, and often gets angry and angry at you, and talks to you with a lofty and arrogant attitude, that is enough to show that he doesn't care so much about you.
If he is friendly and friendly every time he chats with you, he listens to you patiently and then gives you some very practical suggestions with concern to help you overcome the difficulties you are facing. Then, it means that he must care about you very much.
In short, whether a man really cares about you in his heart, you just need to find an opportunity to talk to him a few more times.
Choose a partner, or find a man who can really talk to you. After all, life is long, and if you choose someone who never wants to chat with you, you will feel like you are living in endless darkness.
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