There are four types of men who are more tired and harder the more they live. Is there you among them? A traditional and conservative man has a friend who went to a big city in the south after graduating from college five years ago. After becoming a car salesman, he earned more t

There are four kinds of men who are more tired and harder the more they live.

Is there you in it?

1. Traditional and conservative man

I have a friend who went to a big city in the south after graduating from university five years ago.

became a car salesman and earned more than 20,000 yuan per month.

But his dad looked down on it very much.

Before his father retired, he was a worker in a large pot company somewhere, and he was particularly obsessed with eating public food.

kept encouraging him when he was in school and would go to that factory after graduation to inherit his legacy.

But his friend just doesn’t take his father’s set, not to mention that the salary level of the factory is not high!

When his income was high a few years ago, his father would not let him go every time he went home during the Chinese New Year, and he would ask him to resign as soon as possible.

has not been in good condition in recent years, and it is not easy to sell cars, and his income has also declined.

Then my father became even more excited and scolded him for being useless, having no vision, and not listening to the old man's words every day.

"I thought about his little worker all his life, and he didn't make much money." My friend complained, "I really don't know why I had to go to the factory."

In fact, my friend's father's conservative idea might be able to change his stable life in the past.

But now I can’t get anything. “My son can get better when he enters the factory” is just his wishful thinking.

is neither insurance nor much money to get.

1. Men who are too stingy to themselves

I won’t say it before getting married.

After getting married, all the money is spent on your wife and children. You can wear your own clothes every day for several years without changing them. The cheapest smoking is the cheapest. The phone cannot be charged until it is charged, so it will turn off the phone in half a day.

Others may not hear the complaints, but we are married middle-aged men, and we are also human.

also has its own wishes.

has been suppressed, and the final result is to lose the yearning and expectation for life.

finally becomes a man with dead fish eyes every day, and he has no fun.

1. Men who don’t cherish health

This is very obvious and is very common around.

is divided into the following types:

eats heavily oily and spicy food, and drinks heavily;

works excessively overtime, and sleep and rest are extremely irregular and inadequate.

I don’t even look at it if I feel uncomfortable, and I feel that I can get through it. I’m very tough.

The editor has repeatedly emphasized the importance of physical health.

To sum up simply - nothing is more important than health.

Some people always jump out to refute, believing that "it's nothing but a healthy body?" "I have love, ideals, and many things that must be done, which are more important than my life."

said it very well, but there is no good body. I mentioned these things just now, most likely I will not be able to do with you.

And those who say this are likely to have strong girls and young men. They may not have had a single hospitalization experience in their ten or twenty years of life.

When you are suffering from illness and surrounded by tears from your family;

When you think about realizing that if the condition does not improve, it becomes a luxury to want to walk hand in hand with your family, you will regret why you have not protected your body well.

Believe me, as long as you have one, you will completely change this idea.

1. People who lose themselves in order to be a good husband\a good father

These are the two most important identities in life, but don’t forget them.

All of this aside, you are a person first.

Respect yourself and don’t materialize yourself.

Women have noticed the harm of being objectified, but many men are unaware of it.

In fact, in terms of social and family responsibilities, when will the objectification of men be less common?

Discussion:

Are you living hard now? Is

one of the above types of people?

Welcome to share in the comment area.