"Marriage is like a besieged city. People inside want to come out and the people outside want to go in." When they are single, people are particularly eager to enter the palace of marriage, and after getting married, people want to get back single as soon as possible. Qian Weili

"Marriage is like a besieged city, and people inside want to come out and the people outside want to go in." When they are single, people are particularly eager to enter the palace of marriage, and after getting married, people want to get back single as soon as possible.

Qian Weili is the latter. He only wants to end his 13-year marriage with his wife. Because he knew that his wife was sleeping with others outside, he had to help him pay for money. He had really had enough of this kind of life.

The wife refused to have sex because someone outside

3 years ago, Qian Weili and his wife Wang Shanshan got married. Born in the countryside, he worked very hard. He has been working hard for so many years and has been working at work. As long as he gets his salary, he will take it home to save it.

If they can live a down-to-earth life, this little family will get better and better. But during this period, Qian Weili discovered that Wang Shanshan had changed.

27-year-old Wang Shanshan is young and beautiful. As her legal husband, Qian Weili naturally wants to experience the life of a couple. However, Wang Shanshan's attitude was particularly tough, and she was unwilling to have any physical contact with Qian Weili.

Just when Qian Weili was worried about this, he discovered Wang Shanshan’s secret. It turned out that Wang Shanshan had already looked for someone on her back, and was discovered by the other party's original wife.

The original wife was a little angry and beat Wang Shanshan on the spot. Wang Shanshan went home and told Qian Weili about this, wanting him to help him vent his anger.

So Qian Weili ran back with a green hat and beat the original wife. As a result, he paid 20,000 yuan for beating someone and was subsequently imprisoned for more than ten days.

You may be curious to see this, why did Qian Weili ask for helping Wang Shanshan vent his anger even though he knew that he was green? In fact, the fundamental reason why their relationship broke down was that Qian Weili liked to bet on money.

The husband was gambling outside, and his wife was having sex with her.

In the years when she first got married, Wang Shanshan did follow Qian Weili wholeheartedly. She never thought of betraying her family. But since she discovered that Qian Weili was gambling outside, the family began to become fragmented.

Their monthly salary totals 20,000 to 30,000 yuan. If they saved up this money, they would have been able to buy another house long ago. However, Qian Weili always loses money when gambling outside, and he loses his family's savings all over the place.

At first, Wang Shanshan thought about persuading him to turn back, but later she simply ignored this matter. Every time Qian Weili went out to gamble, Wang Shanshan would quietly date her lover.

In the next time, they lived a life of being in harmony with each other. Until last year, Wang Shanshan suddenly realized that she wanted to end her improper relationship with her lover and return to her family.

But after Qian Weili knew these things, he had a knot in his heart that he had not been untied. When he thought of Wang Shanshan lying in someone else's arms and calling her husband, he couldn't help but want to lose his temper.

So when Wang Shanshan took the initiative to show kindness to him, his attitude was extremely cold. Now, Wang Shanshan’s only idea is to continue to maintain this marriage and at least give her son a complete home.

As for Qian Weili's idea, it is to divorce as soon as possible, or Wang Shanshan will move out with her things and never come back. After some adjustment, Qian Weili still did not intend to change his ideas.

Perhaps it was not until this moment that Wang Shanshan knew how much harm her behavior had caused to Qian Weili. Unfortunately, there was no chance to start over, so she could only continue to keep Qian Weili humbly.

Editor's opinion

In the editor's opinion, neither Qian Weili nor Wang Shanshan are suitable for getting married, and their most correct choice is to divorce. First of all, Qian Weili likes to bet on money, which is a principled mistake.

Since he and Wang Shanshan got married, they have been working silently for this small family. If he hadn't used the money to gamble, their relationship would be the same as before, and Wang Shanshan wouldn't have been carrying him on her back and flirted with her outside.

Because during that time, he spent all his free time on gambling and had no time to accompany Wang Shanshan. Wang Shanshan, who cannot get companionship and care from him, must be found back from others.

What's more, there are first and second things like gambling, and no one can easily quit gambling addiction. If Qian Weili couldn't quit this bad habit, sooner or later he would lose all his savings.

Secondly, Wang Shanshan betrayed the family, and this behavior is not worthy of forgiveness. In Wang Shanshan's opinion, the reason why she chose to cheat was that Qian Weili ignored her feelings first.

But as an adult, she can completely solve this problem in other ways. For example, she can open her heart and talk to Qian Weili and express her inner feelings. For example, she can directly choose to divorce and leave this man who is not worth entrusting his life. No matter which method she chooses, she cannot retaliate against Qian Weili by cheating.

To sum up, they are not good people to each other, and it is better to stop getting divorced than to continue entanglement. I hope every married person can learn it and never make principled mistakes.