used to say Raising a child to prevent old age . Without a son, it is unfilial, so many families have several daughters just to give birth to a son in the end, so you will find that the youngest in many families is a son. This is what our traditional concept of affects.
However, in the development process in recent years, we will find that this is not the case. The traditional concept of having to have a son in the past has also changed with the development of the times. Many people no longer have the idea that they have to have a son. I also think that it is good to have a daughter at home, Daughter seems to have become the baby for many families.
"Both children are daughters, I don't want to work hard anymore." As soon as a father finished his words, he was furious online
In fact, in the past few years, people's idea of favoring boys over girls has led to many problems. In recent years, male-female ratio severe imbalance , few women and more men, which has caused great problems in many people's marriages. Many boys can't find a partner.
Even if the partner is found, the woman's requirement for the man's is also higher in . Moreover, with the development of social and economic conditions in recent years, the requirements for the man are getting higher and higher. For example, having a car and a house, in addition to having a house and a car , there is also bride gift . For a young man who may have just entered society, none of these can be achieved. So this requires a lot of help from parents. So for many parents, after the police's son goes to college, they still have to try to find a way to give their children a house, car, and dowry.
So many people say that having a son is China Construction Bank, giving birth to Daughter is China Merchants Bank . Maybe for many people, if they have two daughters at home now, they must be with less pressure . There was a father on the Internet saying, "My two children are daughters, I am now and I don't want to fight ." As soon as this sentence came out. Perhaps for many people who have two daughters of in their homes, they may be able to understand it, but many netizens do not seem to think that is the case.
It may be that many parents are given birth to daughters because of the remarks of China Merchants Bank misleading , so they think that there are two girls in the family, so they don’t need to buy a car or a house . There is no need to save the bride money. In fact, this father is the same. Having two daughters in the family means that there is no need to buy a car or a house, and there is no such thing as a bride price. It will be fine when the daughter grows up and gets married. Moreover, the father's eldest daughter has gone out to work and make money, so her parents don't need to worry about it. My second daughter only goes to college and can give it up. There is no need to worry too much.
But this is not the case. There may be one of the concepts of many parents that girls can find a good family to marry, but a problem that many people ignore is that only when the conditions of girls are similar to those of boys can match with , which is what people say to find a good family.But if the girl's own conditions are not very good, then for a boy whose conditions are better and only those with the same monthly salary can be friends, what is the attractiveness of this girl to him?
Many people say that only people with the same monthly salary can be friends. So if a girl’s salary is only 3,000 and a boy’s salary is 30,000, then do you think this boy can fall in love with this girl? In fact, an environment has a great impact on a person's . If you were born in an ordinary family, then the people you know are basically ordinary people. We often say that girls should raise with rich , which means that in many cases, girls should not be moved by some small things, which may lead to a series of misfortunes in the future.
Maybe we have watched too many stories about Cinderella , but not all girls have such good luck. The probability of such a thing happening is very small .
In fact, this environment has had a great impact on girls since childhood, then. If many parents have always had this kind of awareness , then it must create a good environment for their daughter to grow up. Girls have good ability , or they can give a certain degree of economic foundation for girls when their daughter gets married. It is also a good support .
After all, although the woman proposes to have a house and a car, it is all the man's property, because the current Marriage Law has very careful provisions on the man's property. If it is the man's pre-marital property, even if the woman divorces, the property will be the man's property.
So it’s not just to have two daughters, just to rest assured and restless . What the daughter who is waiting for growing up will give herself something. Parents should give her more confidence and confidence so that they can be confident enough in the future, and can work hard to get something through their own strength, so that they can understand that what they have worked hard to get is the best.
Summary: And for parents, they have to leave some savings for themselves when they are young. If their daughter cannot give their parents a lot of money or care for them for many reasons, they also have the ability to take care of themselves in without helping others, so it is not only for their daughter but also for themselves.
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