Recommended verb: In recent years, both in cities and rural areas, the phenomenon of "young grandma" has occurred. The phenomenon of
reminds many people of some dramas of the Republic of China displayed on TV. In these dramas, those wives who marry into wealthy families are usually called "young grandma" by their servants. Because this type of "young grandma" is rich and powerful, she basically doesn't have to work. She just enjoys life. The more comfortable you have, the more comfortable you have.
Even if you have things at home, your father-in-law and mother-in-law will take care of them, and the chores of life will be done by the servants. In short, the young ladies live a life of clothes and food.
Nowadays, the phenomenon of young grandmother in the country has entered thousands of households in our country "once overnight", and the older generation of parents can only accept this silently.
If you don’t believe it, you can observe that many newly married women live a pampered life like a "young grandma" at their mother-in-law’s house. They don’t have to do housework, let alone work, they play with their phones at home all day and ask friends to play around with them. What’s going on?
After objective and rigorous analysis and understanding, we have discovered three major reasons behind the "young grandma phenomenon".
The first reason: It is not easy for modern men to marry a wife.
Nowadays, it is not easy for men to marry a wife. After all, it is an undeniable fact that there are more men and fewer women. According to the data of the seventh national census, men in my country have more than 30 million more than women. In addition, many older single women now choose to be single, making it increasingly difficult for men to find wives.
Moreover, nowadays, if men want to marry a wife, they must prepare cars, houses, betrothal gifts and other items. This shows that the cost of marrying a wife is very high, and unmarried women of appropriate age seem to have become a "hot commodity" in contemporary times.
So many people say that it is already a very lucky thing for a contemporary man’s family to successfully marry his daughter-in-law. How dare you ask your daughter-in-law to do housework when you are a father-in-law? If you divorce your daughter-in-law because of a small matter like doing housework, will your son be beaten up and lose both his money?
Therefore, modern parents-in-law actually figured it out that they are better to their daughter-in-law and will have someone to respect themselves in the future. For the sake of the son and the stable development of the family in the future, parents believe that all efforts are worth it.
The second reason: Young people’s living habits are different from those of the older generation.
The previous generation of women are used to cooking by themselves. Even if they are tired from work, they always go to the vegetable market to buy vegetables and then work hard to make family meals. Compared with this, modern people pay more attention to efficiency in their work. They are used to ordering takeout or going to restaurants outside, saving the trouble of cooking and cleaning themselves, and can do other things when they are free of time.
Moreover, because modern young people rarely do housework at home and do not have the habit of doing housework after getting married, parents can only worry more. After all, the daughter-in-law is carrying the major tasks of inheriting the family line. Of course, parents must fully support it. They can rely on housework, work and other things.
The third reason: the temptation of society is too great.
The outside world is very exciting, especially for young people. We found that many young couples often divorce shortly after getting married. The reason is most likely that they saw a better choice than their original partner when they were working outside.
So many women will generally not let their daughter-in-law go out to work in a hurry, nor will they do housework, but let them have a child with peace of mind.
As experienced people, they know very well that children are the "key hub" for couples' links. Even if the son and his daughter-in-law have conflicts in the future, both parties will basically make concessions for the healthy growth of the children to promote harmonious family life.
To sum up, the phenomenon of "young grandma" that is very common in cities and rural areas is actually very normal. After all, as people's lives get better and better, everyone's living habits will also change.However, for this phenomenon, we call on young people not to forget the traditional virtues of respecting their elders, try to help their elders as much as possible in life, and always have a sense of respect for the elderly.
Because of respecting parents, it is actually a good example for your children. I wonder what you think about this?
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