Big S and Oppa, Ms. Weng and Mr. Guo, female teacher and male student who fell in love with her...
Such love stories are ultimately low-probability events.
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During the National Day holiday, I saw a news related to emotions and felt very moved.
hour hand is turned back to summer 2020.
Ms. Weng from Fuzhou, Jiangxi Province went to Luoyang, Henan on a business trip. After finishing her business, she called an online car-hailing car.
While getting in the car and chatting, Ms. Weng saw that the online car-hailing driver was very familiar. When she looked closely, she found that the driver was not someone else, but her first love boyfriend Mr. Guo who had been breaking up for 9 years.
The old lover reunited by such a coincidence, which was really joyful and shocking.
Recalling in 2007, Ms. Weng and Mr. Guo both worked in Hubei.
While we are together day and night, the two young people spark love and become each other's first love, and began a love that lasts for three or four years.
When I was young, many people were sensitive and fragile, and had unrealistic fantasies about love, which led to real and painful love, which was easy to die in the face of hard and helpless reality. The same is true for
Ms. Weng and Mr. Guo.
In 2011, the two broke up because of the distance between their hometown and the youthful spirit of each other.
Ms. Weng returned to her hometown in Jiangxi, got married and became a wife, and after giving birth to a pair of children, she divorced again.
Mr. Guo returned to his hometown in Henan and married another woman as his wife. Later, he chose to divorce and raise his children alone.
The "online car-hailing reunion" after 9 years of separation made the two people resonate with each other and the aftertaste of the former love.
The difference is that when they broke up, they were single dogs.
Now that they have reunited, they have all become divorced people who have brought their children and daughters.
Their fate tests not only the maturity of their respective natures during the healing of time after the breakup, but also the degree of fit that the four children from two families are willing to get close.
For this reason, Ms. Weng first brought Mr. Guo’s two children to her and lived with her two children.
Because of 4 children, the older ones are generally big and the smaller ones are also big, they have a very common topic and quickly got together. Ms. Weng and Mr. Guo, who were lost and recovered, received the marriage certificate in June 2021.
Ms. Weng and Mr. Guo’s wedding photo@net
Of course, no matter how tough or fanatical love is, you have to face real problems.
One of the real problems is:
To live together after marriage, one person must stay away from his hometown and settle in another city to make a living.
This time, it was Mr. Guo who made the sacrifice.
He brought his two children from Luoyang, Henan to Fuzhou, Jiangxi Province, and started over and worked hard in a strange city for love, children and family.
The second real problem is:
Mr. Guo and Ms. Weng, like you and me, are both low-level people. They rent a house and have to raise 4 young children. This is destined to be a difficult long-distance race.
This is the price they will inevitably bear for re-rescue.
is also a test that comes with life itself - even if there is no divorce or remarriage, livelihood and raising are still pressures that parents must face.
A family of six after remarriage @net
What's more, with love and sharing, love and care, pressure and price will also become motivation and gifts.
As emotional authors, I wish Ms. Weng, Mr. Guo, and their 4 children to get better and better.
is a family, under one roof, there have been bumps and bumps, but they are always better to keep warm;
is a pair of people, and after a separation and farewell, they will choose to trust and protect;
does not have to prove it to outsiders, nor does it have to live in the obsession of "our union will definitely be happier than the previous marriage", but in the current real situation and live in life.
In short:
is real good, not fake show.
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Just when Ms. Weng and Mr. Guo continued their relationship in such a wonderful way, which made the whole network envious, Big S and her current husband, Korean bald Oppa Gu Junye also made a hot search with a set of intimate and sexy photos.
recent cover photos of Big S and Oppa @Network
It is said that Gu Junye is also Big S's first love.
The two of them had to choose to break up because of the opposition from the agency and the distance between them.
Those who have profound intersections must remember for a lifetime.
After breaking up with each other for more than 20 years, neither of them changed their phone numbers and were paying attention to each other's messages. After the divorce of
D S and Gu Junye@Network
D S and Wang Xiaofei , Oppa called Da S. The key to the old lover's heart is also ringing together. We will not express too much about the right and wrong between
.
From today's big S continues to create topics to increase traffic to Gu Junye, what shines not only is the first love complex, but also the return plan of a couple who work together to make money together.
I interviewed such a story before I resigned.
A male student was in love with his female teacher while studying.
More than a year later, the female teacher divorced and fell seriously ill again. The male student who had not yet gotten married came to the female teacher firmly despite rumors and married the woman he loved deeply when he was young. The story of
can be called the Chinese version of the story of " Macron and Brigitte ".
Although one is a politician and the other is a civilian, the love that "will never forget it, there will be a resounding" is enviable and shocking.
Macron and Brigitte@network
After going around in circles, they married their first love/old lover. This is a fairy tale with its own filter in the emotional world.
can easily make people get upset and fall into fantasy.
Especially those who have an unhappy marriage or those who have a bad life, it is easy to fall into "if I had clenched my ex-boyfriend/ex-girlfriend's hand at the beginning, would we go from black hair to white hair?"
Here, I have 3 cognitions and want to share them with my friends -
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First, in life, some people come back again and again, because the fate is not over.
There is a lot of metaphysics in life, which you can understand as fate.
Some old loves are hard to see each other even if they live in the same city. This is the end of fate.
Some old loves will meet again even if they are thousands of miles apart, and return to your life again and again. This is the fate that has not ended.
People who have not yet ended their fate will intersect with your life again until they get together, or at a certain time node, part ways again and say goodbye silently.
Big S and bald Oppa, Ms. Weng and Mr. Guo, got together.
In real life, there are many people who are repeatedly entangled with their old lovers, and in the end they are still forgotten by in the world.
I don’t comment too much about this all kinds of emotions, but I always believe in one sentence:
If it is a righteous fate, I will cultivate and hold my hand and grow old together.
If it is a bad fate, it will bring disaster. The past is beautiful and broken, and future blessings will be consumed.
How to choose and decide, all depends on each individual practice and inner compassion.
Second, any marriage has timeliness. We believe in probability and should be respected.
The previous marriage was unhappy, and later reunited with a young lover, and lived a relatively happy life from then on. Is there any marriage like
?
of course there is.
But are there many such marriages?
very few.
Why?
The answer is just that after breaking up, we all have to move forward, we will experience different people and things, have completely different moods and situations from those when we were young, and have their own marriages and reality.
Two lovers who have been separated, as long as one of them cannot or is unwilling to go back to the past, there is no possibility of renewing their relationship.
It is not difficult to imagine that Ms. Weng went on a business trip to Luoyang, Henan Province. Even if she happened to get the car of her first love Mr. Guo, but after Mr. Guo divorced, they could not renew their relationship, so they could not continue.
It is not difficult to imagine that if Big S got divorced, Gu Junye also had a family, and it would be impossible for the two of them to be in love with each other.
All marriages, whether it is the first meeting or the renewal of the previous relationship, pay attention to chances and coincidences.
In the wilderness of time, there is no step earlier or step later. I happened to catch up, and there is nothing else to say. I can only ask gently:
"Oh, it turns out you are here too."
This is the timeliness of all emotions.
Respect the timeliness of emotions, do not fall into delusions, and do not be too entangled. It is a care for one's own dignity and respect for the boundaries of others.
Let the past, the future arrive, and the present take care of it.
This is the attitude and is also kind to people.
Third, even if we hold hands with the old love, we are new people and we must continue to practice.
In the news story, did Ms. Weng, Mr. Guo and 4 children live happily together from now on?
is not like this.
There is no lasting happiness in life, and unknowns and risks are everywhere.
Not only them, but also us, and so on.
When you are with old love, you still have to face new problems, new dilemmas, new pain, and new tests.
Big S and bald Oppa can go until old?
No one can guarantee it.
Because, each of us can only live in the present.
Face the current hardship and feel the current happiness.
is rooted in the current situation and gains the current rebirth.
faces the current difficulties and creates the current miracle.
In this sense, whether you hold hands with the old love or the new love, whether you continue to marry or choose to divorce, as long as you move forward, you are embracing a new life and ferrying a new self.
nothing is once and for all.
Even if it is the young man's lover and conservative self, he will have to face hard and brand new problems in the end.
Only practice is eternal.
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