text/An Dongyue
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The most beautiful thing in the world is to meet the right person at the right time.
What is the right person? That must be someone who has both eye contact and can also be attracted to the heart.
The so-called eye contact means that when you first meet, you feel intimate and familiar, and you have a sense of déjà vu, without a sense of strangeness or alienation, you can communicate very naturally, and you won’t feel embarrassed or awkward.
The so-called "entering" means that after spending a period of time, they find that there are many similarities between them, such as living habits, interests, hobbies, ideas, etc. Two people can easily enter each other's inner world, so they have a very tacit understanding, as if the other person is the other half of themselves scattered around the world.
People with horizons can become friends soon.
People who can be attracted to their hearts can quickly become confidants.
You can become friends with many people, but you may not be able to meet a true confidant. As the saying goes, "It is easy to get a thousand gold, but it is hard to find a confidant."
Confidant, also known as soul mate , meeting is luck, and having is happiness. However, the lucky ones are the few.
Therefore, we should all be as calm as the poet Xu Zhimo said - "I will search for my only soul mate in the vast sea of people. If I get it, I will be lucky; if I don't, I will be destined."
summarized in one sentence, that is: a confidant is rare, only by following the fate. That's all.
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There are many things in the world, the more you force it, the more you cannot get it. The more you go with the flow, the more you will be destined to be.
Once upon a time, I was full of expectations and pursued all the way. When I met someone I was more in love with, I thought I had met a confidant and was very happy.
After being together for a while, I found that there are many differences between them, and they are not really a person, and gradually they become alienated. Some people cannot even make ordinary friends and become real strangers and will never have any intersection in their lives.
My former friend later became a stranger. He should have felt regretful, but he was very calm inside, neither sad nor attached. Why? Because each other is just a hurry passerby in life, the fate is very shallow and not touched. Even if you lose it, you don’t feel regretful.
Only the soul mate who truly enters the heart and knows each other and cherishes each other is the eternal attachment in this life. Countless people in the world are searching and searching just to meet someone who truly understands themselves to comfort the loneliness of their souls.
It’s a pity that the more you force yourself, the less you can’t meet it. Instead, I let go of my obsession and follow my feelings and met anyone who turns around inadvertently.
Just like that autumn, I met you. There is no step earlier, no step later, just when I let go of my obsession and no longer force it, you just happened to appear.
is a timely encounter, and it is an arrangement in the dark and destined fate. Thousands of words can’t be fully grateful in my heart, but I can only cherish it well and live up to know each other and never let fate down.
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Meeting you is fortunate to be in three lives; knowing you is a practice of thousands of reincarnation.
The beginning of the story is that it feels like a familiar sight.
The development of the story is that the soul is similar and the two hearts know each other. The ending of the story is to be continued and needs to be written in a lifetime.
If I hadn't met you, I wouldn't know how happy and beautiful it is. The kind of tacit understanding that the other person’s heart will never have in his eyes. The kind of warmth that someone cares about and cares about with a sigh or a silence can never be given to ordinary people. However, I have all these because of your appearance.
How destined is that when you meet you, the flowers bloom and fall from now on are poetic.
How lucky I am to know you, and from now on, spring, summer, autumn and winter will be beautiful.
has a kind of luck, called meeting you.
has a kind of happiness, which is called knowing you.
For more than a lifetime, you know each other and walk with you all the way. Even if the wind and rain are like dark, you can still face the sunshine and move forward with confidence.
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Author: An Dongyue, a freelance writer, writes heartfelt words with warm strokes, and I wish to meet you in the deepest world. Welcome to follow.
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