This is what a mother said to her son.
The grandson is all in his teenage years, and his son and his family still live with their parents. Living in a large house of 160 to 70 square meters for parents, my parents cook in an orderly manner every day, my son and daughter-in-law work with peace of mind, and I can eat ready-made and delicious food after get off work. My mother is a retired teacher. She has been able to supervise and tutor her grandson from elementary school to junior high school entrance exams. Her children are also successful and have always had good grades.
This is the family status of a friend of mine. She talked to me about housework many times, and she envied the scene of other people's parents living separately from their children. She could go home to reunite on Sundays, so it would be great not to get together in normal times.
Both the old couple retired in public institutions, and their pensions together cost more than 10,000 yuan, not only taking care of housework, but also taking care of family living expenses. Can parents and children like this be disliked?
The son and daughter-in-law are all public officials. They save all the money they earn. They spend money to buy some gifts on holidays or their parents’ birthdays. This kind of life is not bad.
After the grandson went to elementary school, the mother negotiated with her son many times to let her move out. But my son just mixed with the slightest and pushed again and again. Now that my grandson is almost in high school, my son is still shirking his responsibilities.
As we grow older, the old couple is getting better and better, and they feel very tired when cooking and housework. If they are the old couple, they will not be so tired!
I advise my friends to stay apart and you are in poor health. Will you have to take care of your children in a few years? She said that it was really hard to ask them to take care of them, so it would be better to spend money to hire a nanny.
It is common for most people to live separately from their children, but why can my friend’s family live together for more than ten years and three generations? The key is that the old couple is rich and is a money-selling tree. Not to mention that he can do housework and cook for his children. On such a day, which daughter-in-law is unhappy!
Imagine that parents are farmers or ordinary people with low incomes, not only have to rely on their children to pay for their living expenses, but also have to treat the elderly and buy medicine. How many children will willingly squeeze together with you?
So, the elderly have money, but
is popular, and there are few conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. However, after all, parents who are rich and willing to give are a minority, and people can't do it when they are old.
Young people are willing to live the world of two, and the elderly are willing to live the world of two! The old man is tired!
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