Some men and women who dance ballroom dance are couples, some are couples, but some are strangers. Ballroom dance is a place that people yearn for, because it is lively, with relaxing music, cheerful rhythms, and pleasant atmosphere, which often makes people feel happy. Even if t

Ballroom dance is a popular dance all over the world. I believe you can see it in both rural areas and big cities.

Some men and women who dance ballroom dance are couples, some couples, but some are strangers.

Ballroom dance is a place that people yearn for, because it is lively, with relaxing music, cheerful rhythms, and pleasant atmosphere, which often makes people feel happy. Even if the audience is not dancing ballroom dance and square dance, I believe that they will be infected by the light and pleasant atmosphere.

ballroom dance does make men and women fascinate, but often this kind of place is mixed with fish and dragons. Many men and women even have their own ulterior motives and have a lot of bad thoughts in their hearts.

Everyone wants to have a happy old age when they are old, and don’t want to live a dull and painful life. Because after staying in a boring life for a long time, most people will get tired of it, which will even affect their mood, so many people choose to dance ballroom dance and square dance.

But although ballroom dance has benefits, the disadvantages are not small.

Ms. Jiang Peishan admitted: "Ballroom dance is very harmful. I originally wanted to enjoy my mood and relax my body and mind. I hope I can be more exciting in my later years, but I didn't expect to suffer a lot. I suggest that you don't dance ballroom dance, otherwise you will be very hurt."

Why does Ms. Jiang have such a deep hatred on ballroom dance? Let's look down together.

57-year-old Ms. Jiang said:

My name is Jiang Xue, I am 57 years old this year. I am from Guangdong. I am actually quite enthusiastic and unrestrained. I grew up locally and have been influenced by my own eyes and naturally have this kind of personality.

I actually retired at the age of 55 and lived a single life for a year.

My son got married early, so his grandson was in elementary school. When I retired, I no longer had to take care of my son and daughter-in-law, so I had more room for freedom.

I spent a year in a boring life. I usually listen to music and watch TV series, occasionally go to the park and play cards with my sisters, and sometimes just play with my mobile phone and watch Douyin.

The first three months of retirement are OK. I think the retirement life is leisurely and interesting, but as time goes by, I find that I should find a more meaningful life to do. This meaningful life can allow me to persist for a long time and is beneficial to my physical and mental health.

I often pass by the park. Every time I see some women of my age dancing there. Their faces are full of happy smiles and their bodies are also very happy. Following the rhythm of the music, I can feel the fun outside the square.

I love being alone, I also love being lively, and I like fresh things even more. To be honest, I have never skipped square dance, and I think it's okay to try it.

I have been to the bar, and I think the atmosphere of the bar is similar to this one. Everyone is very happy, but they are just a little drunk and dreamy. However, the beautiful music and rhythm in the square are played for free, as well as dance.

I always think that I should find a good way to exercise. When I see the square dance, I can’t help but want to dance. Anyway, no one recognizes me, and no one will say that the bad dance is.

I walked over unknowingly. At this time, a woman asked me: "Do you want to dance square dance?"

I don't know how to answer because I wanted to refuse and dance. She said: "Come here, just pay 100 yuan, this is the annual fee."

I turned on my phone and scanned her, and then she asked me to dance with those sisters. She said I don't have to pay it. Square dance is easy to learn, and it's okay to dance badly. Anyway, it's not a performance.

So I integrated into the square dance circle and soon started dancing. I asked the woman next to me how long she had been dancing, and she said that it took only a few days.

Only then did I realize that many of the sisters who dance square dance are new, so I am even less afraid of making mistakes and making mistakes.

I didn’t expect that my talent was so good. After learning it three times, I learned all the steps. In the following days, I kept dancing and dancing. I found that I seemed to like playing square dance. I went every day, and I even thought I could dance for ten years.

The square dance place is very close to my home and it takes only ten minutes to walk, which makes me even more keen on this dance.

danced like this for about a month, and then I saw two older sisters I knew went to dance ballroom dance, just to dance ballroom dance with some men.

I found that they seemed to be dancing ballroom dance with different men, so I asked an elder sister, and she said she was dancing with strange men, so I asked her, "Don't you mind?"

The woman said, "What do I mind? No one will mind. Everyone knows this rule. You can dance with whoever you want."

I asked the woman, "Do your husband know this?"

She said, "I know, so what, my husband won't be jealous of this. It's an old husband and wife. Even if he sees it with his own eyes, he may not mind."

When I heard her say this, I thought to myself, is it really so open? This era?

In addition to this woman, I found that another woman who is more familiar with me is also dancing ballroom dance with men. I asked her out of curiosity: "Do you have a husband?"

She said, "Yes, what's wrong?"

I asked, "Do your husband know you are dancing ballroom dance with other men?"

She said, "It should be known, it doesn't matter whether you know or not, he won't mind anyway. In fact, this kind of ballroom dance is nothing, it's just a touch on the arm. What big thing can happen? It's normal, okay?"

After saying that, she asked me if I haven't danced ballroom dance? I said no. She said: "No, you don't even dance ballroom dance. Basically all women here will skip it. You can't keep up with the times."

She spoke with surprise and mockery. I know she was telling the truth, because I did see that most of the women here dance ballroom dance. Some are single, some are second-marriage, and some are couples for many years, all of whom are dancing ballroom dances with other men.

I was laughed at by several women for not being able to dance ballroom dance. They also laughed at me and said that my husband doesn’t love me.

I have difficulty telling and can't speak. Behind

, there was really a man asking me to dance a ballroom dance. His name was Lao Xu. Lao Xu was a man wearing gold glasses. His temples were a bit gray and his figure was medium. He looked like an elegant gentleman with a friendly smile.

He asked me: "Can I ask you to dance a ballroom dance?"

Seeing his friendly look and gentle tone, I didn't agree to him, and he seemed a little ignorant of raising his face. I was hesitating and he said: "I see you often dance here. I guess you love dancing too. How about we dance? Everyone is dancing." As he said that, he stretched out a hand to me.

I saw everyone looking at us, the atmosphere was a little awkward, so I put my hand on his hand and gave him face.

Because I really haven't danced ballroom dance before, and I'm a little curious about ballroom dance, I started dancing with him.

But I danced too badly. I stepped on him several times, but he didn't mind either. Every time I said happily, "It's okay."

I was always a little embarrassed, but I wanted to learn the steps of ballroom dance. He asked me if I hadn't skipped before, and I said yes, he said, "You have a good talent. You learn so quickly, you are so smart."

I think I may be a little clever, and with him praising me so much, I feel very happy.

He asked me how long it had been to dance square dance. I said it wasn't long, it took more than a month, and then he praised me for my good temperament and looked like a pampered and elegant boss lady, and asked my husband what he did.

I said my husband is a corporate executive, but in fact my husband is not. He is just a small manager of a factory.

He said that my husband is good at abilities, no wonder he could marry a lady like me. I was so blushed and my heart beat faster when I was praised by him, but my vanity was greatly satisfied.

Then he talked a lot about his success. He said that he was the boss of a tobacco and alcohol company and earned one million a year.

I think he is more capable than my husband. I observed his watches, belts, suits and ties, and conversation, and I felt that he was indeed like a gentleman in the upper class.

I asked him why his wife didn't come. He sighed for a moment, and then said that he had divorced his wife and lived with his son now. Because he was bored, he came to dance ballroom dance. Because his company is managed by his son, he has been living a leisurely life.

At that time, I didn’t know that his purpose was to find his wife. I thought that with his wealth, there should be no shortage of women. I suddenly felt that being friends with this man was a glorious thing.

After I danced with him on the first day, he found another woman to dance, but the most often was to dance with me. I went there for half a month, and for ten days he danced with me. She said that I was more friendly, gentle, and better danced. She liked to dance with elegant ladies.

I am really too simple. I thought he knew that I had a husband and would definitely not have any bad thoughts on me. But unexpectedly, once, he said he wanted to treat me to a meal, right in a nearby restaurant.

I said there was no need, but he said he had a friend and asked me to give him face, so I gave him face.

But I didn't expect that when he was having a meal, he kept focusing on the topic of being single and looking for a partner.

I said it’s a pity that we are destined to be together. I have a husband. He didn’t seem to understand and said that it would be great if I were single. He liked me very much.

I heard this sentence a little strange and a little surprised. I think that being liked by men means that I am charming.

is like this. After he was invited to dinner once, he danced with me every time, and his behavior was not as polite as before.

I already felt the strength of his palm while dancing. I thought he treated me as a friend, so I was so rude, and I didn't think it was bad either.

But later I realized that he was either taking advantage of the situation or hinting to me.

Because his hands were getting less and less conscientious, once when he bent down, he pretended not to pay attention and touched my waist, sometimes on the side.

I vaguely felt that this might be inappropriate, so I twisted it and told him not to put his hand elsewhere, just gently support his waist.

Unexpectedly, he didn't seem to understand what I said, and he actually tried intentionally or unintentionally, and it became more and more irregular.

I immediately threw him away because I thought he was obviously too much. Unexpectedly, he said, "You can see that your love life is not satisfactory. I want to take good care of you, take good care of you, and be with you."

I feel that it is ridiculous. My husband and I are old and old, but my relationship is as dull as water. There are often conflicts at the head of the bed and the end of the bed, but there is no major division. I have never thought of having an extramarital affair.

I said, "No need to be friends, don't dance with me again in the future."

I turned around and left, but I didn't expect that he suddenly grabbed my hand. I immediately looked at the crowd around me. The introverted face suddenly felt hot, and I said, "What are you doing? You're crazy."

He said, "Actually, I really like you very much. Why don't you talk to me? My love life is not going well, and I need a woman like you to enter my life."

I think this man must be crazy. There are already people around me paying attention to us. I shook my strength and finally broke free from his hand.

When I got home, I was still scared. I felt that I would not dance this square dance in the future, or I would go there again after a while, and I would not dance ballroom dance once.

I went there again a week, but I didn't expect that I saw that guy just after I went there.

So I went home and never went again.

What I unexpected was that my husband actually knew about me dancing with other men. I asked him how he knew about it. He said that he knew it in the whole community and that I had lost his face.

He asked me how long I had cheated, and I said no, so I just danced a few times. He said, "How many times did I dance, will I be cuckolded by others? You bitch, how many times did you cheat? Who is that man?"

I jumped into Yellow River and couldn't wash it clearly. I said that I did not cheat, just dance.

He didn't believe it anyway and kept forcing me to tell who the man was, so I told my husband.

My husband asked me to take him to identify the man that night, but he couldn't find the man.

Actually, I hope he can't find it because I'm afraid he will cause trouble.

After he came back, he slapped me in the face and said he had divorced. I knelt down and told him not to divorce, and I would not go to ballroom dance again. He finally compromised after considering the child, but he believed in my cheating and never had sex with me ever since.

Now, half a year has passed. Although he and I live under the same roof, they are already strangers. He told me not to talk to him.

I regretted it too much. I shouldn’t have danced ballroom dance at the beginning. I should have insisted on my own opinion, but it ended up hurting myself, my marriage, and my family. I don't know, it's a place where people are mixed, and I will never go again.