emotional topic interpretation, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional worry-relieving person, but you must know how to let yourself go!
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broken connection. These two words are the least likable in love! However, there are too many people who inevitably use this form of disconnection to give themselves a chance to find answers when facing emotional problems.
The answer you are looking for is to wonder: Is there still a need to continue this relationship!
When you love someone deeply, you naturally hope to meet each other 24 hours a day. In love, people will always find a balance for their love, and completely altruistic efforts do not exist!
Or, completely altruistic efforts in relationships can last for a while, not for a lifetime.
Love someone deeply, and you never pay regardless of gains and losses, but just do more altruistic things before you get it.
Many people have an extremely biased understanding of "love someone deeply", believing that:
Love someone means giving without conditions.
This is not the case! After psychological imbalance, efforts will end. Nothing, this is the truth of human nature.
The reason why love is considered a healthy and harmonious relationship is because only those who go in both directions can make the relationship partner have a sense of balance to the greatest extent.
When facing emotional problems, not everyone can have excellent insight. To examine this relationship with a truly sober and rational state, is there still a need to continue?
It can be said that love is a feeling sent from the subjective body. If you think the other person loves you, then you are loved.
When a person deeply thinks that he is loved, he will naturally ignore the flaws on the other person and amplify the degree to which the other person loves himself, so people are happy.
Perhaps, "rare to be confused" in love is the best interpretation of the person you are loved, right?
However, more often, people will inevitably reduce their love for their love due to realistic factors and problems, and thus doubt how much water is in this perception of being loved!
Just like that, the question of whether the other party still loves me or the question of "Do you love me" that directly finds the answer, it arises!
We often say that whether a person loves you or not does not need to doubt himself or ask the other person, you just need to look at the details to know.
There are some interactions between men and women, but when they see the interaction, they don’t seem to feel that something is particularly wrong. However, the intuitive feeling in the body is to make you feel "stable" about this relationship.
In fact, when a relationship gives you a feeling of uneasiness for a while, and you also try to break the current deadlock and find the original feeling that has not improved...
even, you doubt that you don’t love each other as much as before, and when you are struggling with whether the relationship should continue:
“breaking connection” is not an effective way!
is broken off once, and the answer to whoever loves you and who you love is:
1: Only when you break off once, you will know who you love the most
Many times, feelings will make people feel tired and bored because of long-term time.
In the process of getting along with two people, no one really cannot live without each other. Only after suffering the pain of separation can one know who is the most important in one's heart.
Generally speaking, whether the disconnection is an active act or a passive acceptance of the current state, the deeper you love the other person, the longer you will not contact the other person for a long time, you will not be able to stop missing and actively contact.
Some people say that during the disconnection, active contact that cannot be controlled is a necessary process for quitting habits.
In fact, actively contacting because of habits and being unable to let go because of deep love are completely different concepts for two people.
1 actively contacting because of habits, which is more mixed with the current emotions.
cannot let go because of deep love. It is about the rest of your life that will never be separated.
When you can't stand being dull and struggle to give up in a relationship, then give yourself a "effective" disconnection. If you test yourself in this way, you will have the answer.
2: Only when you break off the connection once will you know who loves you the most
The person who truly loves you may limit you a lot, may bring you a lot of negative emotions, and may make you crazy because you can't express it. That's why you doubt:
. Is this the person who loves me?
When you are repeatedly pursuing in your heart, trying to change the status quo with reasonable communication, but failing to get a truly accurate answer, I really recommend that you break the connection appropriately, and the answer lies in it.
This is how some people taste the loss once, and only then do they understand what cherishing is. Otherwise, you will only let your temper and character do something that hurts the person in front of you in a certain relationship.
Some people are not because they don’t love deeply enough, but because few people are born with knowledge of how to love someone.
Most of the seemingly harmonious and happy relationships are obtained through too much running-in.
There are only a few people who have learned experience in managing relationships in their parents' healthy marriage and love relationships, but it may not be necessary that the other half of such people also come with experience with "same threshold".
After the connection is disconnected, those who truly love you will reflect on themselves and look directly at the real problems in your relationship, and use a method based on real cherishing and management to stand in front of you with an attitude of solving problems.
From then on, it has changed its previous appearance.
3: The disconnection is the "touchstone" of true love
true love must be a two-way rushing.
However, the two people who lived for decades in the past will eventually have to endure pain and smooth their edges and corners to better accept each other due to different habits, different family education, and different ways of doing things.
In other words, as long as you love each other, any problem can be solved.
You should know that people who can walk together to establish emotional relationships are either slowly moving into "similar" people from complementarity, and then they usher in the later harmony, humility and tolerance.
There is no 100% of the people who are exactly the same unless they are "in love" with themselves. In the world, only two 50% of people combine to achieve 100% perfection.
Emotional management is an art that requires continuous further study. It is also a science that requires constant research.
Friendship requires a shock with a sense of crisis to stimulate the inner recognition of love and reach a certain level, so that people can truly calm down and recognize the rest of their lives.
When two people have frequent conflicts and problems, let’s break off the connection once.
effective disconnection is a false breakup.In order not to turn a false breakup into a real breakup, people who love each other will always reflect on each other in the days of self-reflection:
always think of each other's good, and then run towards each other in dust, and start embracing each other without even having time to dust off.
breaking connection is a proposition for pseudo-breakup.
If you have disconnected, you have never missed the other person and feel that you are living well without the other person, then be yourself quietly from now on and don’t respond to the people you used to.
The most advanced kindness is to do less.
If you can’t control your missing person after you break off the connection and say to yourself in your heart, “I will never change people in this life”, then take the initiative to reunite.
Those who truly love you will respond to you. If you don’t respond to you, just let go.
If you or the other party stand in front of each other with longing, reluctance, and firmness to be together for the rest of your life, then you will be separated from you again.
is afraid of losing, so you should cherish it.
Smart people will be moderately disconnected and appropriately reunited in their relationship.
breakage is the last touchstone of love and cannot be used too much. Multi-use, ineffective!
Love is the purgatory of people in the world. Whether it is love or friendship, only by meeting the right person at the right time can you achieve the right result!
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Topic discussion: Have you been disconnected by your beloved? Have you ever done the act of proactive Avengers? Welcome to leave a message to interact.
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