It is never an accident for men to cheat, many men have problems themselves.
They cheated just because it was a matter of time or late. If they didn’t cheat, there was no chance. If they cheated, it was time.
But many original partners can’t see clearly and always feel that their husband cheats on him, which is a problem with the mistress.
If the mistress doesn’t show up, his husband won’t betray him at all, but
ignores one thing: if a man doesn’t want to cheat, can the mistress force him?
For example, a case of extramarital affairs that Blue Party came into contact with was very ruined.
The original wife Ms. Zhou and her husband have been married for seven years, and her husband cheated on her sister-in-law.
The man cheated on me and disappeared after an accident a few years ago. His sister-in-law lives with her children.
Ms. Zhou Her husband is a college student who passed the exam in the countryside. She has a good school and a good job.
The cheating man's elder brother and sister-in-law and his parents have always been in their hometown in the countryside. After
, his elder brother was gone, so his parents-in-law suggested that his elder sister-in-law take the child to relax.
Ms. Zhou and her husband bought a three-bedroom apartment in the city where they worked. The two had only one daughter.
Because they were busy with work, the children usually sent directly to Ms. Zhou’s parents’ home.
Ms. Zhou’s parents’ home lives very close to her home, and she arrives in just a dozen minutes’ walk.
Because there is space in the house, Ms. Zhou also takes care of her husband's criminal law, so she agreed to let her sister-in-law bring her children to live for a while.
This sister-in-law took her child and lived there for more than half a year, and Ms. Zhou had no objection.
On the one hand, I think it’s not easy for his sister-in-law, and my husband is gone at a young age.
On the other hand, this is very diligent in cleaning. She usually does housework by her sister-in-law.
When I got home, I was facing a neat home, with food on the dining table, and the children were taken care of.
Ms. Zhou also discussed with her husband, otherwise she would give her some salary and hire a nanny, and she could also help her sister-in-law.
Her husband refused, saying that this was not good, and it seemed like his own servant. Ms. Zhou didn't mention it again afterwards. Until the Chinese New Year, this sister-in-law didn't mean to go back.
Ms. Zhou’s parents-in-law came over and said they wanted to spend the New Year together, but Ms. Zhou still said nothing.
After the New Year, Ms. Zhou went back to her parents' home as usual for a few days. Her husband had to accompany her at her parents' home for the first day.
went home for the remaining days. She felt that it was to take care of her parents and didn't say anything.
Unexpectedly, in just a few days, her husband actually had an extramarital affair with this sister-in-law.
And her in-laws are fully informed of these, and even the in-laws take the initiative to propose them.
Ms. Zhou went home to get things, but she didn't mention it in advance, but she got home and broke it directly.
She was so angry that she couldn't stop trembling when she saw it and couldn't even speak.
The explanation her husband gave her was that his parents forced him, and he had no choice.
Because of cheating, the parents of men are afraid that their sister-in-law will remarry with her grandson and her grandson will become someone else's family.
doesn't want to take care of his grandson by himself, so he feels stressed, so he came up with this idea.
I think this sister-in-law is living a good life at Ms. Zhou’s house with her children, and is very harmonious.
And this sister-in-law probably thinks that living in the city is better, cheating men are more developed, and she is willing to do so.
So everyone persuaded Ms. Zhou to accept it. Naturally, she couldn't accept it.
She and Lan Fang said that it was all in what era? Is this going to have three wives and four concubines?
Although Ms. Zhou was unwilling to accept her sister-in-law, she had no plans to divorce the cheating man.
Because he felt that this was not the fault of the cheating man, but his parents forced him.
also explained to the Blue Party that the man who cheated on him was his elder brother who offered him the support of his cheating man.
is a cheating man's parents use kindness to threaten the cheating man and force the cheating man to submit.
Blue party directly refuted the views of this original wife Ms. Zhou.
Why can't her husband refuse such a ridiculous suggestion from her parents.
He doesn't need to live by his parents, and he can't do anything to him if he refuses her parents.
has no handle to hold him, nor dare to ask others to put pressure on him.
On the contrary, they should be afraid of Ms. Zhou’s husband because they are old and lose their labor force.
In order to prevent the eldest daughter-in-law from remarrying, the pension will be paid to the eldest daughter-in-law.
The only one they can rely on is Ms. Zhou’s husband, and they should be afraid that Ms. Zhou’s husband will turn against each other.
Blue party has always believed that in an extramarital affair, the third party may be innocent.
Because there are indeed a few women who are deceived by cheating men and have no brains.
They don’t know that cheating men have wives and children, and they are still slow to find out.
became a third party in a confused manner, giving love and body, and carrying a stigma. Such a woman is indeed innocent.
But cheating men will definitely not be innocent. No man doesn’t know that he has a wife and children.
The moment they cheated, they were betraying their wives and being unfaithful to their marriage.
They have nothing to defend themselves, they are not forced, and they have no such thing as having difficulties.
This is real life, this is not a TV series. Don’t do those disgusting plots, come and perform! In this case of
, the Blue Party actually prefers to suggest Ms. Zhou stop loss when she divorces.
is not just because of the man's cheating problem, but because of the family's misconceptions.
encourages your son and sister-in-law to cheat, so that such a family can really stay away as soon as possible.
Ms. Zhou continued this marriage, and maybe something more embarrassing will happen in the future.
In addition, this family's attitude towards Ms. Zhou is also very subtle.
A cheating man feels that his elder brother is kind to him and wants to repay his elder sister-in-law and the child.
is normal, and Ms. Zhou is also very supportive, otherwise she would not have lived there for half a year and she would have to pay for money without any objection.
As a result, this family is just getting in a state of indifference, and in fact they are bullying Ms. Zhou, thinking she is very talented.
So I made this happen, to be blunt, it was just disrespectful to Ms. Zhou and bullying her.
If she regressed now, did not choose to divorce, and did not make a big deal, this kind of thing would happen in the future.
Finally, it is this cheating man, and the problem is even bigger.
not only cheats, has an incorrect view, but also shirks responsibility.
He was the subject of cheating. After being discovered, he decisively shirked to his parents.
It’s right that he looks like he is also a victim. Such a man is unreliable, Ms. Zhou really needs to consider it carefully.
Many times, I can only give analysis and suggestions to fans who come to consult. The result of
is difficult to guarantee because many fans are unwilling to listen, and the Blue Party cannot control their choice.
Just like this case, I understand very clearly that cheating men have problems with their family, and divorce is the stop loss.
But Ms. Zhou was unwilling to do so and wanted to be married immediately. She did last for more than half a year.
came over to ask for help again because the cheating man's parents wanted to give the house to his sister-in-law's son, who was also their grandson.
One thing after another finally made Ms. Zhou sober and chose to divorce.
Blue told her that if she made up her mind, collect evidence and sue for divorce, and do not leave room for anything.
After Ms. Zhou did this, the cheating man was scared and stopped listening to his parents or thinking about his kindness.
drove away both parents and sister-in-law, please forgive me.
So why does a man cheat? It is not a kindness or a parents' order, but his own willingness.
You see, if he doesn’t want to, no one can force him!
Lan Fang wanted to say that the original wife must be clear, and no one can save you if you can't tell clearly.
In extramarital affair, your enemy is never a mistress on the surface, but an affair man hiding behind the mistress.
If you encounter an extramarital affair and don’t know what to do, you can follow the Blue Party and send a private message to talk about your situation.
I am Lan Fang, an emotional mentor who tells the truth and does practical things.
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