me, Kazakhstan people study traditional Chinese medicine in Xianyang , marry a husband in Xi'an, and my husband eats a bowl of noodles for a meal
narration: Gelisha
compilation: Mr. Xiao Han
picture: from the Internet, delete
I am Gelisha, an Russian girl from Kazakhstan, is 28 years old, currently living in Xi'an, is a traditional Chinese medicine intern.
Before coming to China, I had been studying Chinese in Russia for two years. At that time, I had to study Chinese medicine in China with all my heart. Because my father's hemiplegia was cured by a Chinese doctor, I felt very magical and became very interested in this.
I could have successfully finished my university in Russia, then worked in Moscow, or returned to Kazakhstan, but I still turned to China. The Chinese are very enthusiastic. From the first day I came to Xianyang, I felt how tolerant and wise this great nation is. The skyscrapers are lifted up in place, and there are a wide range of street goods. The most important thing is that during my studies, I also met the true love Tang Wen of my life.
Tang Wen is my classmate at Xianyang Medical College. We fell in love at first sight. After graduating from university, he followed Tang Wen to Xi'an to develop, because Tang Wen is a local Xi'an who has 13 dynasties. In the new family environment, I often feel incredible. For example, my husband eats a basin of noodles at a time, my father-in-law is unhappy if he doesn't eat noodles for three days, and my mother-in-law is even more enthusiastic and kind woman...
In 1994, I was born in Almaty, Kazakhstan. My father was a soldier from the Soviet era and later worked in the Forestry Bureau. Starting more than ten years ago, my father, who is already fifty years old, went to Russia to do business, so I spent my teenage years in Russia.
Mom is a diligent and kind woman who has been working in the kitchen all her life, raised our three children, and has a very good relationship with her father. They always communicate with each other with loving eyes and cherish each other very much.
Dad often said, "When I was young, your mother suffered a lot with me. She took care of three children by herself, but I didn't go home for many years in the army. I'm very sorry for your mom." Yes, whenever my father talked about the scenes in Iraq in those years, his tears were shining, as if full of fear, and he was grateful to life.
I am the youngest child in the family. In Chinese, I am called "the youngest" and my father's favorite daughter. In fact, my father also has regrets. All three children are girls, and none of them have a son. He is a man with a strong personality. He is the kind of person who speaks harsh words but is actually very kind in his heart. I know my father’s regret, so I make coffee and hot tea for my father at home very sensible.
Overall, our family lives well, and we don’t have to worry about food and drink. There is a large yard in the countryside, with a lot of vegetables and fruits planted. However, my father is also a person with aspirations. Even though he is over 50, he decided to go to Russia to work hard for business.
Dad said, "I need you to live with me."
This sentence moved my mother because decades ago, my father left his hometown without saying a word and went to Iraq. Now, he is unwilling to leave his family again. When I was 11 years old, I had no discomfort in the language and even the textbooks because of the similar languages.
Many people know that Russians like to drink vodka , and the same is true in Kazakhstan. My father has always had a special liking for strong alcohol all his life, but he was too drunk in 2010. stroke caused hemiplegia. At that time, he went to Moscow and St. Petersburg , but the result was nothing.
However, a Chinese man who is doing business in Russia said he could try it out. Unexpectedly, within a week, my father returned to his former spirit, and I was also attracted by Chinese medical skills. I immediately decided to learn Chinese and study in China in the future.
After two years of tireless efforts, my Chinese level will be very high. At the age of 18, I left my parents and went to Xianyang, Shaanxi to study traditional Chinese medicine alone. There is no vodka here, no small yard with flowers blooming, no weekend dinners, only hardworking students and people coming and going.
While studying in Xianyang, I also went out to work, worked as a model, and worked as a waiter in a Western restaurant. I wanted to enrich my life, and during this period, I met Tang Wen.
Tang Wen's family is from a good family and is a second generation, but he is very thrifty. We fell in love at first sight. Tang Wen took me to his home in Xi'an. It was the first time I went to a Chinese family as a guest, and it was my boyfriend's house. I was really nervous, but Tang Wen's mother was enthusiastic and generous, which soon dispelled my nervousness.
Tang Wen's father is taciturn, but he is very real and brings me all kinds of fruits calmly. Tang Wen's mother is busy in the kitchen and feels that the atmosphere in this family is very good. When we were about to arrive at the hotel, Tang Wen's sister came back from get off work and gave me a big hug as soon as we met.
Every time my father called me, I would tell my life truthfully. In 2014, my father came to China specifically, first to visit me, and second to examine Tang Wen to see if he was a man worth entrusting for life. Surprisingly, my father was very satisfied with Tang Wen, and the two lived a life of full meals and meals every day.
But I have never forgotten my studies and have been studying hard, hoping to use my medical skills to make more people healthy.
In 2014, I graduated from university and briefly returned to Russia to live for a while. My father urged me to return to China early, saying that Tang Wen was waiting for me. Actually, at that time I was struggling whether to study for a postgraduate degree or continue working, but Tang Wen said that he wanted to start a business and opened a massage clinic.
Since that's the case, I will accompany you to the end.
On the seventh day of the seventh day of the lunar calendar in 2015, Tang Wen and I got married. My parents and two sisters rushed to China to wish us blessings. At that moment, I was reluctant to give up on freedom, but I looked forward to a better marriage life.
After marriage, we lived with our parents-in-law, mainly to facilitate meals. Sometimes we work late and go back to our small home. Our home is in the same community as our parents-in-law, but it is not the same building.
After my father-in-law retired, he would drink tea and collect rent every day. My mother-in-law opened a snack bar, but it also depends on her mood. What I want to eat. As long as I tell my mother-in-law, she would immediately close the store and go home to make it for me.
My husband likes to eat hand-rolled noodles made by his mother-in-law the most. He can eat a basin every time. Shaanxi people are really good at eating. They use stainless steel basins to eat noodles, and their father-in-law is also good at eating. Sometimes when they don’t eat noodles for three days, they are unhappy and mutter that they don’t have the strength to do anything.
After five years of marriage with my husband, he has given birth to a lovely son. Now he is pregnant with his second child. In the near future, he will give birth to another cute mixed-race baby.
I like Chinese culture, love Chinese food more, and am more grateful to the Chinese doctors for their help to my father.
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