At that time, my husband was young and liked to play. I was basically the one who managed this store. The store was small and only hired a clerk, which was my sister-in-law.
Speaking of which, this store was actually made by my mother-in-law and sister-in-law. She basically handles the address when opening a store, get a business license, purchase goods, etc., and her mother-in-law is mainly responsible for paying and looking at the store.
I didn’t expect that my husband and I had just gotten married, and my mother-in-law handed over the store to us despite my aunt’s objection.
This incident made my sister-in-law run away from home for a year and didn't even inform her of her marriage. She made her mother-in-law feel guilty for a long time and always said that she was sorry for her eldest daughter.
It was not until a year and a half later that she was pregnant and returned to her parents' home crying. We realized that my sister-in-law hurriedly married herself.
I didn’t expect that before marriage, he would talk sweetly and swear to treat her well. After marriage, he realized that he was a lazy and irritable rogue.
My sister-in-law is strong-willed and knows that she is pregnant, she still grits her teeth and divorces the man. Perhaps because she always quarreled with men during pregnancy and was emotionally unstable, she had signs of miscarriage several times.
She couldn't bear to abort the child, and she lived a hard life outside alone, so she thought about going back to her parents' home to ask for help.
After hearing this, my mother-in-law and I felt very sorry for my sister-in-law, so we quickly arranged a room for her to stay. After my sister-in-law settled down, I asked my mother-in-law to concentrate on taking care of her and supported the business of the clothing store by herself.
Although life has been harder, I still feel very relieved when I see my aunt's face turning a lot rosy.
After ten months of pregnancy, my sister-in-law gave birth to a daughter. After the confinement period, she hesitated to move out.
After all, the house we live in is also rented, with only two bedrooms and one living room. My husband and I live in a bedroom with our 1-year-old son. My mother-in-law vacated her bedroom for my sister-in-law and slept on the sofa in the living room. After a long time, she kept crying for soreness in her back.
I glanced at the mother-in-law next to me, and there was a look of concern on her face. Yes, where can a single woman go with a child who was just over a month old?
Because I sympathized with my sister-in-law, I insisted that she stay. At least I had to wait until the child went to kindergarten, otherwise how would she work with her child?
My sister-in-law was very grateful to me and even blushed and apologized to me, blaming herself for being too cautious before, because her mother-in-law handed over the store to us, and she said a lot of bad things about me outside.
Unexpectedly, she came to join her parents' home. Not only did I not drive her away, I also ran up and down for her without any grudges, helped her find a good doctor to protect her fetus, and bought her nutritional supplements.
After the child premature birth , I still paid her half a month's incubator fee without hesitation, and then closed the store to register the child. I have done so much for her, and she doesn't know how to thank me.
I waved my hand and told her not to be so polite. They are all family members, so why bother thanking me like this?
Just like that, my sister-in-law lived in my house. After the child was weaned at the age of 1, I asked her to see the store and paid her 2,000 yuan a month.
In this way, she can at least have some savings. Even if her child goes to kindergarten in the future, she will move out to find a job again, and she will not have to worry about living expenses for at least a period of time.
For this, my sister-in-law once again expressed her gratitude to me, wiping her tears and saying that if it weren't for our relatives, she would have been on the streets long ago. My mother-in-law also patted my hand and praised me for being kind. It was only after the smoke came from the ancestral grave of the Chen family that she married me, a good wife.
Four years later, the business of the clothing store is getting better and better with my careful management. We bought a duplex commercial house worth more than 200 square meters, and the whole family moved in, including my sister-in-law.
However, at this time I found that my sister-in-law had changed. Although she still gets up at 5 o'clock every morning to open the store, judging from the surveillance footage installed in the store, she no longer starts working as soon as she opens the store, but turns on the computer or holds her mobile phone as soon as possible.
Once I got up early and took a look at her, I found that she was browsing various blind date websites and chatting with male friends everywhere.
I asked her why she didn't work, and she answered with confidence that no matter how hard she worked, the store would not become hers. It would be better to seize the time to find a high-quality man to marry herself.
Let’s talk about it again. She knew that she had been living at home. I had disliked her for a long time. Don’t you want her to get married sooner or move out?
After hearing this, I wanted to roll my eyes on the spot. Who dislikes whom? In recent years, as long as I say that she has not done a good job, she will go to her mother-in-law to report it.
I remember that the store was too busy that month, and I forgot to pay her a salary. She was fine, so she didn't come directly to ask me, and went to complain to her mother-in-law. Afterwards, she argued that she didn't want to provoke my relationship with her, but wanted to get someone to testify.
Later, I heard the female boss of the shoe store next door tell me that during working hours, she often went to the shoe store to chat with the girl in the store, complaining to her that I paid her too little salary, and other people's family was almost 3,000, but she was still 2,000.
. Don't say that you think the salary is low, you can just come to me directly, just say that you have lived at home for years and have never paid a penny of accommodation and food expenses?
Not to mention that I usually buy clothes, toys and snacks for my son, but I don’t have to pay a penny for my daughter. I take the whole family out for fun on holidays, and my sister-in-law never has to pay a penny. Whose boss can do this?
Because my sister-in-law often whispers to my mother-in-law, my mother-in-law has also begun to pick on me in recent years. The harmonious relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the past is obviously on the decline.
For this reason, I once privately discussed with my elder sister-in-law and gave her 50,000 yuan, asked her to move out with her daughter, and find another job.
But my aunt turned against her on the spot, but turned around and exposed the matter to her mother-in-law. My mother-in-law was furious and pointed at my nose and cursed, calling me heartless, took the shop at home and turned around and drove my sister out of the house.
Not only that, the mother-in-law also said very toughly, either kick her out with her sister-in-law, or let me move out with my son.
In desperation, I endured it for another 4 years. Now my sister-in-law is becoming more and more arrogant, as if the clothing store belongs to us for a day, and we owe her for a day. But this was obviously my mother-in-law’s decision, and I didn’t take the initiative to snatch it. Why should I keep giving in to her?
Judging from your story, my sister-in-law was very grateful for your efforts at the beginning, and she was a little uneasy about living in your home, thinking about moving out.
But after a long time, your efforts have become natural in the eyes of her and her mother-in-law, and it has become a compensation for "snatching" her clothing store.
In fact, as you said, your mother-in-law decided to hand over the clothing store to her son and daughter-in-law. Even if she owe it, it is her mother-in-law's debt to her sister-in-law and has nothing to do with you.
But why did you do this compensation for your mother-in-law later? First of all, you have to figure out that you don’t owe her anything. Even if you owe her any debts, you have already paid off the care of her over the years.
Secondly, I found that in your story, there is another key character that never appears, that is your husband. Where is he when you have a conflict with your mother-in-law and sister-in-law? What role did he play?
You should know that this store is given to your son by your mother-in-law, and he should feel that he owes his sister more than you.
So next, I suggest that you don’t have direct conflicts with your mother-in-law and sister-in-law, but let your husband take responsibility and convince his relatives, rather than letting you bear all the grievances alone.
kill did not fall on him, so he couldn't understand your pain. You have to let your husband feel how many troubles and inconveniences my sister-in-law and mother-in-law have brought to your life, instead of rushing to shelter him from the wind and rain and practicing yourself into a solid wall.
Friends, what do you think Xiao Li should do to get his sister-in-law to move out?
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