says that there is no easy word for adults, just as Zhang Ailing described in " Half-life Relationship ": "Men after middle age often feel lonely because when they open their eyes, they are surrounded by people who have to rely on him, but there is no one he can rely on."
However, this also highlights the characteristics of adults with a sense of responsibility and mission. Even in the dark, they must look for light. Work hard for what they love, so that life can be more meaningful.
But not every adult has a calm attitude after facing the storm. They are panicked and confused, thinking that the world has defeated him, but in fact they are themselves defeating themselves, but in the most vicious way to retaliate against this society.
Not long ago, I saw a video that Liu was unable to accept it because of the failure of investment. After losing confidence in life, he developed a revenge on society. So he drove around the crowd, with heavy casualties, including children and the elderly, which was heartbreaking.
And such things are common, and not long ago I saw a question and answer on Zhihu, "How terrible is adult viciousness?" Many netizens left messages, and after reading it, they felt that their values collapsed: some people are just creatures wearing human appearances, but they are actually walking demons!
Ms. Li, nurse:
There was once a boy with leukemia in our department who died. Several of us young nurses helped to send him to the morgue together. This is not our obligation. However, the boy's mother cried and said something that made people feel extremely chill and terrible: "The child is pitiful, and he left without a wife. Look at how many people you send to you. Whoever you like, take it away together."
can understand the heartache of this mother losing her child. However, such vicious words make people chill. Who is not a child born by her parents? The young nurse also has parents, and may even be a parent, but she is cursed so much. Although this mother is pitiful, the pitiful person has hateful points. The dirty thoughts are not worthy of sympathy even if she loses her son.
Mr. Li:
I have heard of a family. It is said that my father-in-law is still a big leader. His son and daughter-in-law both graduated from college and have good work and life. However, this father-in-law forced his daughter-in-law to have a baby three times, and he knew in advance that she was pregnant with a girl. The old man said, "I must have a grandson", but the daughter-in-law had too many abortions, which caused lifelong infertility. Her father-in-law actually forced her son to divorce. This father-in-law is a good leader in front of him, but he is pedantic and vicious in his thoughts.
A good marriage, a good body was destroyed by the pedantic thoughts of the father-in-law's "parents". Not only did he feel sorry for his daughter-in-law and son, but he also felt sorry for the three little princesses who should have been loved by his parents, but they were ruthlessly wiped out by his grandfather. Sometimes it was really the saying "It's not that the old man has become bad, but the bad man has become old."
Xiao Keer:
The real thing around him. The neighbor's child said that his whole body was hurting one day. The parents thought it was her pampering at first, but later they went to the hospital to take a video and found that the child had many steel needles on his head, and the "murderer" turned out to be the girl's grandmother. In her words, he hoped to get the fertility index as soon as possible and get a grandson.
This is the granddaughter of her biological bloodline, but as an adult and blood-related grandmother, she actually took action. The child is still so young that even strangers may not do anything, but she did that, and she still thought she was right and refreshed her values and moral lines.
Ms. Wang:
My husband and I went out for the car. When we were waiting for the red light, we saw an old lady in front of us overturned. My husband kindly went to help, and I also helped her pick up the things that fell out for her and packed them for her. But the old lady pulled her husband and refused to let her go. She kept saying that the old man hit her and asked us to pay for money. Fortunately, we had a dashcam, otherwise we really couldn't explain it. In the end, the old lady still cursed and cursed when she pushed the car away, making people speechless.
The thing about kindness as a donkey's liver and lungs is the most heartbreaking thing. It is not that there is no heartless in the world, but that the viciousness and indifference of some adults have wiped out the heart-warming heart. It is not that you cannot help, but that you dare not!
Netizens free:
Not long ago, in the incident of the child jumping off the building in 36 Middle School, a parent complained online that the child who jumped off the building "If you want to jump, choose a farther place. If you choose before the college entrance examination, it will affect my child's review and college entrance examination."
It was chilling to hear this.
A few years ago, the Korean Academy Award-winning film " Parasite " also highlighted the viciousness of adults, like a mirror, reflecting the rich people with higher education or the poor people at the bottom of society, which are filled with ugliness, absurdity, innocence and sin.
I remember hearing a saying, "Some people wear adult cloaks, but only have a brain of one or two years old." This reminds me of seeing a little boy who just learned to walk, pushing him to walk together while walking, while parents looked at him with innocent faces and the child who cried loudly.
The Three Character Classic says: "A man is born with good nature." He believes that human beings are kind by nature, and even if bad people appear later, they become bad because something happens. However, Gaozi believed that "food and sex are nature" and regarded human beings as a blank piece of paper. All kinds of behaviors are caused by nature, and there is no distinction between good and bad.
However, the behavior of this little boy who just knows how to walk makes me feel scared. Maybe at the beginning, people are really evil in nature, and good people only have a set of concepts of right and wrong under the rules of society and subsequent education, reflecting good intentions.
Some people are really more poisonous than snakes and scorpions. It is not an exaggeration to say that a woman can walk in a surrogate incident. Although she has a human appearance, she always faces society and everyone with the most vicious attitude. However, can this really bring happiness and peace of mind? Not!
Gu Cheng in " A Generation of People " said: "The night gave me a pair of black eyes, but I used it to find light."
The ancient saying also said: "I love the lotus only out of the mud without being stained, and wash the clear water without being charming."
may live in ugly life, but you must embrace kindness. Being kind to others not only makes you feel at ease, but actually makes you happy. "As long as everyone has a little more love, then this world will become a beautiful world."