Since I divorced, I have returned to my parents' home and lived with my parents. My mother became my financial director. Every time I went to purchase medicine with my father, I would take money from my mother. After selling the medicinal materials, I handed over the profits I earned to my mother for safekeeping.
For the years, I have been spending money outside for no plans, and I understand that I can’t control the money either, so I took the initiative to hand over the task of managing the money to my mother. I feel relieved to be a custody of my mother. I have watched my parents suffer since I was a child. They are very planning to spend money and spend only when they should spend it. If they shouldn’t spend it, they will not spend a penny.
Maybe it was because of the fear of being poor. Unlike us young people, who want to buy everything when they see it, and those who have suffered, know how to make careful calculations and live their lives. My three sisters are my old and young. After getting back from divorce, she naturally lived with her parents. The money was left to her mother to manage, but it was not just the reason why she could control it. For example, when visiting relatives and friends, the most important thing is that she will arrange the family expenses when she goes to her mother's home (the mother attaches great importance to her brothers and sisters in her mother's home), for her mother. She can dominate the economy at will and realize her economic freedom.
Through years of hard work, I have saved some money from leaving the house after the divorce. I bought a three-bedroom elevator house and booked a one-bedroom and one-living room a few days ago. If my mother hadn’t kept the money in the past few years, I might have achieved nothing, and only my investment assets before marriage.
So I advise young people to give the money to the person you are closest to when they can’t save money, and to keep the money that you know how to save money and thrift. In a few years, you will have savings. If you have savings at home, it means you have food at home. Especially in the epidemic, I won’t panic.
used to be my real life! I will continue to share my story with you if I have time in the future!
At the same time, I wish you all happiness every day!