My buddy is an old friend for many years. Several of us often play together. My girlfriend talked for a year. Because my family is quite different from theirs, their family has always disagrees.

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Ha, my girlfriend is with my good buddy, what should I do? My buddy is an old friend for many years. Several of us often play together. My girlfriend talked for a year. Because my family is quite different from theirs, their family has always disagrees.

Later, their family arranged a job for her and went to the provincial capital. My buddy also worked in the provincial capital. When I was having dinner, I told my buddy to take care of her more, but who knew that taking care of her was going to take care of her. First of all, when I was going to see my girlfriend, I found that there were promotional materials for my girlfriend’s company in his car? I didn't think much about it at that time, but later I accidentally discovered the call record in my friend's Apple watch? I just think it's a little wrong.

Later, due to various frictions, my girlfriend broke up with me. I asked her if she had anything to do with me, a buddy. She said no, but the relationship between the two is pretty good, and they occasionally have dinner together. Anyway, it was just that my family didn’t agree, and I was in a different place and didn’t want to waste each other’s time, so I broke up.

Then, after a while, they were together! And I heard that I plan to get engaged on this 11th, so it’s probably a matter of time before getting married! Now all my friends around me know that I feel that I am simply shameless to meet people. My buddies who have been doing this for many years are simply a mess. Now I don’t want to go to a party with my buddies, and I’m afraid that they will not help but take action when they meet. What should I do, Sister Sa?

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After reading it, I found a question, that is, good character, good buddy, "cuckold" you. It should have a premise, that is:

If your girlfriend doesn't break up with you and is with your buddy, then you are green and you are fine.

But if the two of them were really nothing and they were together after breaking up, then you are green, it is a bit green.

After all, the girlfriend is not a lifetime system, so the relationship between you two will end after breaking up. Strictly speaking, someone is also looking for whom, and it is no longer related to you. It just happened that the person I found later is a bit special and is your good friend.

However, it is still difficult to verify this. After all, it is not convenient for you to directly ask the two parties involved, or even if you ask, you may not be able to tell the truth. People can't tell you directly: Yes, you two have gotten together before we even separated?

So, brother, this may become an unsolvable mystery. Are you real green or fake green?

But in short, you feel like you are being green. What should I do after

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After all, as a good friend for many years, I went back and got engaged and got married. I really called you for a wedding banquet. Do you go or not? In the future, it is inevitable that everyone will meet together during festivals. How do you get along?

Sister Sa thinks that this matter is not difficult, it depends on what kind of person you belong to.

If you are open-minded and you can figure it out, it is just your ex-girlfriend, not your wife. If your wife is really married, then your buddy and your wife will definitely say goodbye to you.

But girlfriends, after all, they will break up. Since they have all broken up, let them be good, and you can find a better girlfriend. Anyway, you are in front and he is behind. No matter whether they get married or get together, we can go wherever we should. In terms of momentum, we must never lose.

To put it simply, as long as we are not embarrassed by , the embarrassing one is someone else!

If you are just unhappy, you always feel that you have been poached by this kid and can't even get over the face. That's nothing. Anyway, everyone knows that you have this story. What else can you do if you don't go if they get married? Anyway, you can save some money.

As for the party, you can go if you want to go, and you won’t go if you don’t want to go. Anyway, the party is not a party. There are so many people here. If you don’t want to pay attention, sit farther away. Go back and chat less or not communicate. After eating, go back and don’t ask for trouble. Just go back and don’t ask for trouble.

Of course, if you say something lightly, you will definitely feel uncomfortable no matter what. If you really don’t want to, don’t force yourself. After all, you don’t owe them anything, so why bother yourself to force yourself to smile?

What kind of wedding or party? Even if you are invited, you just won’t go, so what can you do? Are you afraid that others will say you are stingy? What if you are just stingy? Who can still come to you and talk about you?

Who is your ex-girlfriend in love with? You can't make the decision, can you always take your legs home?

If you are really a good friend, you will have a bad relationship if you don’t have one party, and you will definitely not.

If you are really a good friend, if you know this, you will definitely understand if you don’t go.

Whether it is ugly or embarrassed, if you feel you have no face, then don’t be too proud of your face. If you don’t want to be unfamiliar with your buddy, then let yourself be happy now and do whatever you want. If you don’t want to see your former girlfriend become your buddy’s wife, then don’t look at her, and you won’t be upset.

Anyway, after you have a new girlfriend, marry a wife, and have their own families in the future, you will find that all this is not that important.

Time will dilute all this. Even if you feel that you are wrong now, or even lose your mind, don’t worry, brother, over time, it will always become calm and gentle.

In this life, who doesn’t have many exes? Who hasn't gotten the worries about his ex?

You still mind now because you don’t have a better new love. If you have a new girlfriend, you will be too lazy to care about who your ex-girlfriend is with.

When your focus and attention are placed on your family and children, in the past years, maybe just occasionally, I may have thought of this incident when I remembered it. My heart has been calm and no more turbulent. Maybe I just silently said in my heart:

. Why do you say that I was also your senior back then?