text | Miss Bai
If you want a relationship to last, you must understand each other’s needs and feelings.
After all, love is a matter for two people. Only by working hard with each other can we go to the end step by step.
The smarter a woman is, the more she understands that men actually want women to love themselves the most.
Give him more trust
Love is actually a process of continuous learning.
From the moment two people accept each other, in addition to learning how to love each other, they also need to learn how to trust each other.
Because trust is the cornerstone of love. Love without trust cannot go far.
Some people only know how to blindly use all their energy on them from the beginning of falling in love with someone.
caring for him and relying on him in every way, but after giving so much, his feelings are still getting worse and worse.
In the final analysis, it is because you have not learned how to trust the other person.
always doesn't believe in his love and tests it over and over again.
always feels that he is having an ambiguous relationship and always looks at his phone.
I feel worried when I go out alone and I will check the post in a while.
If this continues, he will feel more and more tired and lose more and more expectations for this relationship.
Even if you are really nice to him, he will still decide to give up on you because he is really breathless.
Love is to trust each other. Without trust, there will be no results.
I hope you praise him more
Everyone is eager to be affirmed, especially to be affirmed by the people closest to you.
Since we were young, we have hated the "children from other people's house" mentioned by our parents. It seems that in the eyes of our parents, we are always inferior to others.
Even though we have been working hard and making progress, we are still often disliked.
This feeling of not being affirmed by relatives will make us feel particularly uncomfortable.
It is actually the same when men and women get along. Everyone wants to be recognized by the other party, rather than being scolded all day long.
If you want a good relationship, don’t always focus on the other person’s small shortcomings. As long as it is not a matter of principle, let him go.
At the same time, you should also discover more advantages of the other party and give him more encouragement and affirmation.
Most of the time, a simple saying of praise really makes people feel particularly comfortable.
This is a particularly effective way to enhance the relationship between husband and wife.
Love needs to be praised. Saying more good things will not bring you any loss, but it will be of great help to your relationship.
He also longs to rely on you
Love will make people depend on it, regardless of gender.
If a man has never relied on you in love, then he is very likely that he has never really loved you at all.
It is actually very difficult for a man who truly loves you to leave you.
Not only because his heart has been filled with you, but also because he has been together for a long time, he has long developed a habit. Without you, he will feel uncomfortable doing anything.
His thoughts are the most shared with you, and he is eager to get your comfort and encouragement.
You will definitely ask for your opinion before making a decision, otherwise you will feel unsure.
I like to eat what you cook the most and think this is the taste of home.
In short, a man who truly loves you will rely on you especially because only if you are there can he feel like home. Men like
Don’t feel annoyed by their side, stay by their side quietly, love them with him, and walk slowly.
Love is mutual.
You long for men's love, and men also long for you.
Please love him like this when you meet someone worth it.
This kind of love that goes to each other is the most beautiful and longest.
✎Author: Miss Bai, a working woman, writes warm and powerful words, share interesting and meaningful life with you, accompany you to grow up, and accompany you to be strong. The new book " Lives the way you want " is being exclusively pre-sale on Dangdang.com.
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