text/Hua Yaoguan
People have different personalities, so the ways they naturally need to get along with each other are also different.
can play and fight unscrupulously with friends, but there are many things that need to be paid attention to between men and women.
When you get along with a man, if you are too independent, the other party will think you don’t need him.
Although it is a good thing for women to be independent, it is not possible to get along with men.
Men are eager for a "sense of need". The more you toss, the more they will feel that you need him.
Maybe they say you are in trouble, but they feel happy in their hearts and are willing to do what you want them to do for you.
For a long time ago, there were many topics about getting along between men and women on the Internet.
The most impressive sentence is: A sensible girl is good at everything, but she doesn’t love you.
You should know that only those who are close will want to trouble him, and those who are not close will choose to deliberately alienate.
So, "tossing" can warm up the relationship between the two.
At the beginning of many families, men will also give.
But if a woman is too sensible and finishes everything, then a man will not only lose his sense of accomplishment, but will also go from caring at the beginning to indifference later.
As the saying goes, "Only there is motivation when there is demand."
If a woman does not need a man in everything, then a man will become worthless.
They will feel frustrated and will feel that you are not suitable for you, and the relationship will naturally disappear.
Most men in life are not straight men, and they also know the value of companionship and dedication.
But if you don't need it, they have nowhere to use it even if they are powerful.
Zhou Xun and Huang Xiaoming have starred in a work " The Best Life of a Coquettish woman ". There are many coquettish clips in the film.
, and everyone has gradually realized that through tossing and other forms of coquettishness, men can be easily shaken.
A man who loves you hopes you will make more trouble.
They will not feel annoyed to you, but on the contrary they will feel that this is a manifestation of loving him.
In their eyes, it is a beautiful thing for women to be unscrupulous under their favor.
As the saying goes, "She is making a fuss, he is laughing."
There is a couple on TikTok called Yang Yadong and Chen Huimin. Recently, Yang Yadong and Chen Huimin proposed.
On weekdays, Chen Huimin would ask for trouble every day for things, and although Yang Yadong disliked him, he always listened to Chen Huimin's words.
When many people urged them to get married, Chen Huimin said something that made the audience envious.
She said, "Actually, I'm not in a hurry at all, because I know he will marry me."
This is how much love a man has given her to say such a sentence confidently.
all say that feelings will move from the initial strength to the final dullness.
However, there are many ways in life to keep the relationship strong, and "tossing" is one of them.
Many women are afraid that men will not love her, so they try hard to learn to be sensible, but in fact, this will only do the opposite.
If you want to know whether a man really loves you, you will know it after "torn" once.
The man who loves you will tolerate you and even indulge you.
Of course, you must also understand that "tossing" also requires a degree.
You need to understand what a man can accept, and you need to make some careful thoughts in that degree.
If you do too much, men will think you are making trouble, which will be ineffective.
There is a character in "Story of Yanxi Palace" called Concubine Xian. At first, she simply chose to give without regrets.
But in the end, my father was sentenced to death and my mother was hit and killed, but the emperor was unmoved. Only then did she realize that there was no love between them.
"Crying children have candy to eat." This has been the case since ancient times.
Once there were two children in the neighbor's house. The eldest and the second child wanted to eat popsicles, but the eldest child shyly said nothing. The second child cried and made a fuss to eat. In the end, the second child ate popsicles, and the eldest child could only watch.
Most of the attention of their family is on the second child, because the second child makes them worry more.
The boss is often ignored, and it seems that he is about to lose his companionship into this family.
They always say to the boss: "You are brother and you must be sensible."
Be sensible is a very cruel word and the word that children hate the most.
In the recently popular TV series "The Big Test", Tian Wenwen finally couldn't help but tell her mother that her overly sensible was forced to do so because of her parents' irresponsibility, because she wanted to be independent and strong. She could comfort others, but she could never heal herself.
A person who can toss is actually lucky.
Because they have the courage, because they are loved well.
If a person loses the courage to toss, then his life must be painful.
When getting along with men and women, the "tossing" required is much more than ordinary people.
After all, a man and a woman are willing to fight and the other are willing to be beaten. If a man really loves the other, he will definitely not like that his partner is a sensible woman.
Tossing is actually a form of interaction, and the feelings that arise through tossing are often stronger.
Because they interact much and understand deeply, the emotional lines between them have long been inseparable from each other.
Women should understand that love has skills. You don’t necessarily have good results if you give more. It’s better to toss and turn passive into initiative, so that the other party loves you more and more.
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